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“Super-hot” is in the eye of the beholder. I’ve seen guys raved about on this forum that I couldn’t be paid enough money by the U. S. Treasury to agree to meet with. I never say anything like that publicly about any provider because I think doing so is classless, and we all know we all have different tastes. You’re correct to point out that location is key though. New Orleans is a tough market both for providers and clients. It does have one relatively new client who has possibly raised the whole city’s GDP by 0.13% through his hiring 😄, but I’ve heard from from several providers that they never plan to come back because New Orleans locals are, and I’m quoting, “cheapskates.” One provider (with whom I met and happily agreed to his $350 hourly rate because I viewed him as “super hot”), said he was flooded with texts such as, “Hey, will you let me suck you off for $20?” So, in New Orleans, unless you’ve got tons of well-heeled visitors for a big event like the Super Bowl, quoting $500 will get you laughed right out of town (with the possible exception of our new resident whom I just referenced 😄).

I totally agree!! Ian_Twink is my dream come true, and I’ve consistently said he is the absolute best I’ve ever encountered in 22 years of hiring. Even having said that, had he quoted me a very high rate (he quoted me a very reasonable rate, especially for someone of his caliber), it would have given me pause because I also have the cost of a 16-hour (round trip) travel venture to see him, thus also triggering a need for two nights hotel. As it is, I always give him a nice tip because his rate is very reasonable and he brings joy to me that I had given up feeling like I could ever experience again. We’ve met about 7-8 times since first meeting in mid September of last year. Two of those meetings have been when he visits Houston, which dramatically reduces my time (can go and return the same day) and cost (he hosts because he’s seeing other regular clients). So, for me, that initial quote is critical and, as long as it’s reasonable, I’ve always had the goal of a long-term recurring series of encounters. @PhileasFogg, whom I’ve gotten to know very well since he relocated to Nee Orleans, has described me as “fiercely loyal” to the providers with whom I meet, and he is correct. Right now, I am Ian_Twink and him only unless a provider visits New Orleans with a huge “wow factor,” which I’m presently lucking up with in that Sebastian_Leon is here through Mardi Gras (2/17). I’ve met with him twice in the last two weeks and I tend to do so twice more before he heads back to his fortunate and lucky clients in Boston.

How could anybody possibly be offended by that response? In the Aleman case I reference above, he told me that he was leaving New Orleans and would be near me in less than two hours. I was in an important meeting and stepped into the hallway to text with him. I excused myself under the belief that we could meet if I let the others know I was going to exit the meeting for good. I quickly texted him that I needed to know his rate. His response?: I am driving to you from Texas, so can you do $500?” My response (he would be passing within two minutes of me if he had been truthful with me about leaving New Orleans, which is where his location showed on RM , which prompted me reaching out to him in the first place): “Absolutely not! Just keep on driving.” He replied: “I can do $300 if you’re still interested?” I replied: “I don’t see anything productive coming from us meeting,” and I returned to the meeting. I did not like the rate drop, but I especially did not like the point-blank falsehood about where he was! i have used bold emphasis on this account of the incident which I did not do on my original post. The vast majority of my working career, I was a fraud investigator for the Federal Government. We trained extensively to pay close attention to detail and to pick up on inconsistent statements. Perhaps I made an unwarranted assumption that the members of this group would readily pick up on that deception, but I can only assume that was not the case based on the absolute lambasting I took from the post. I gave everyone 30 hours to get it out of their systems, after which I caused the post to vanish by deleting it. I guess as a 12-year member of this forum and that being the only time anything like that has ever happened with any post I’ve ever made, maybe that’s not bad. Nevertheless, the commentaries made about me and the incredible piling on that ensued from the outset of the post until I deleted the post were certainly not appreciated by me in the slightest bit, and it stalled me from posting the first word to this forum for about seven weeks thereafter.

Just my own approach: Once quoted a rate, I either agree or decline. On a couple of occasions, a provider has immediately dropped the rate (which I neither expected nor wanted), with one dropping it almost in half. When that happened about seven months ago entailing ale_aleman who’d also been VERY deceitful with me about where he even was when we began corresponding two hours prior, I did respond in a terse manner. Thereafter, I was utterly lampooned by members of this forum (about 32 such entries with high fives and one member praising another member for “calling it like I see it” regarding me — he “called” a very obvious ball a strike — and one member posting a tutorial on rate negotiation which I neither asked for nor wanted). Accordingly, I deleted the entire post. The only comment I thought that was appropriate did come from @Jamie21, who basically said rate negotiation is very unlikely to result in a pleasing and fulfilling subsequent meeting. I did feel vindicated when @johnwhatelse made this post on the individual in question. You do what you feel comfortable with, but for me, a final “yes” or “no” upon being quoted a rate has served me well for 22 years, and I plan to stick with that firm policy no matter how many unsolicited (and unwanted) tutorials on “rate negotiation” may surface on any future post which I originate.

I just wrapped up my second meeting with him, and I would have thought it hard for him to top last’s week’s meeting, but he did!! I will definitely meet with him a minimum of twice again before Mardi Gras, and I’ lobbying for him to return for Southern Decadence, and somehow I think I’m going to succeed 😃!!

As anyone who follows posts I make on here is aware, I don’t mince my words regarding what a disaster New Orleans is for our hobby. it’s also rare now for a provider with a “wow factor” to even visit the city anymore! That is not the case for Sebastian_Leon who just arrived in the Big Easy and has a major “wow factor.” I just finished a meeting with him within the last hour, and he was incredible. He fulfilled all three activities which “do it” for me (being spanked, having my face sat upon, and worshipping his feet) and he did it with gusto!! In fact, his verbal skills just may be the best I’ve ever experienced! I always just consider that a bonus, but he is very skilled in that regard!! He is in New Orleans through Mardi Gras, which is February 17, 2026 this year, and here’s his profile: Sebastian_Leon - Male Escort, Gay massage - New Orleans | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Sebastian_Leon Gay Escort in New Orleans, Louisiana, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male... I know the moderators will want to merge this post with his other main post, but I’m respectfully requesting that be done only after February 17 so that we can show him as much love as possible while he’s here. He said that, if he does well, he may very well return each winter to avoid the cold. Let’s get him back down here every year because, as I said at the outset of this post, a guy like him doesn’t visit the Big Easy very often!

Well, he is most certainly back, and he’s still the most incredible provider I’ve ever met. In 21 years of hiring, Ian is the only provider who has ever checked off every single box important to me: non smoker, no vaping, no drug use, no tattoos. Throw in the fact that he is “my type” and that he is stunningly beautiful, and what you have from my vantage point is perfection, which is why I’m very close to wrapping up yet another 16-hour (combined round trip) venture to Austin having met with him yesterday and loving every second of my time with him!

Yes. That 5-star review left on RM on 8/13/25 is mine. He was professional and courteous and fulfilled all three of the desires I seek from any session with any provider (worshipping feet, being spanked, and having my face sat upon). I would definitely repeat; however, once I meet a dream provider (by my criteria), which doesn’t happen often (maybe 3-5 times since I started hiring 21 years ago), I tend to shut off hiring of anyone else unless and until he is no longer available. That happened with me on 9/12/25 when I met Ian Twink and, since that time, I have met with nobody but him, and I seriously doubt that’s ever going to change as long as he remains available.

Like @PhileasFogg, I’m closest to New Orleans, and that’s been the case for 21 years. He summed up the current New Orleans market very well and, unfortunately, it’s been that way for years. Consequently, I’m now making a bunch of trips to Austin and Houston to meet with the absolute best young man with whom I’ve encountered in my 21 years of hiring. My “home market” of New Orleans may as well not even exist right now., and I seriously doubt that is going to change anytime soon, so my answer to the question is 0.00%.

My thought is that, unless he originated it (in which case he can do so easily), the action of deleting a post could only be done by a moderator (and I think their customary approach is to lock posts, but perhaps extenuating circumstances may have been present). Given the title of the post, it would seem (certainly on the surface at least) to be a prospective client seeking intel, thus (again, on the surface at least) making it unlikely that he originated the post.

That would likely be this recent (9/30) post:

More than likely the OP deleted it. The likely reason is that he did not like the direction the post took. In 11 years on this forum, I have only done that one time, and that occurred in May of this year. Fortunately, the OP does not have to ask the moderators to step in when he originated the post. He can take mattters into his own hands by simply deleting the entirety of the post. That is a very valuable feature of this forum and, being candid, I would be much less inclined to post anything if that option did not exist.

Here are my recent interactions with Aaron: ==> We connected directly and agreed upon the rate, ==> He confirmed he'd be in New Orleans, asked for my address, and he said he'd send his hotel details upon arrival (I also offered to host if he preferred), ==> He had his "available now" indicator active the whole time he was in New Orleans, but he never followed up at all or sent me the address, ==> This morning his profile showed him in Houston with no cancellation or explanation to me.

Yes. He’s just taking a break for a few weeks, which have included a vacation. I think you’re going to see him back in early 2026 very much refreshed after an enjoyable holiday season that included a fun-filled vacation!!

It actually appears to be back fully working now. I guess they may have been right on top of it or else started getting a bunch of complaints!

Guys: Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles. I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.” I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing. I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact. I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time. I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does. It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers. This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian. I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks. I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time. He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I have often wondered how he and his husband can afford such a jet set lifestyle. All anyone has to do is click on his instagram link and see them flying in incredible opulence. Perhaps we’ve uncovered how. I’m just glad I opted for the crawfish boil as referenced above where I got to “hang around” with quite a few guys whom I perceive as hotter than him rather than agree to his $250/hour “hang out” rate which he offered me after I flatly rejected his $450 core rate.

Though modestly intense, we (me and the provider) keep everything within reason, and we intermix the other two activities I love (worshipping feet and having my face sat upon) to where there’s never an extended period of just spank, spank, spank. Also, unlike the guy you reference, I have no interest in anal or oral sex as either giver or receiver and in fact have never even engaged in it my entire life because it holds no allure for me whatsoever. I know that makes me a unique client (and unique in general), but it’s been who I am from a very young child all the way through today.

I sure do! Many I’ve had for 30+ years. I also pack a couple of straps that don’t make quite as much noise.

Well, there are times during sessions I have at hotels where the provider and I mutually agree to turn on the TV for a few minutes, but that’s to help drown out the noise of paddles being applied to my bare ass with considerable vigor 😀!

I have heard the same thing about South Florida! When MZB was touring in the U.S. in early 2023 (he’s now retired), he came to New Orleans, and I met with him six times in seven days, and he told me that he got no clients whatsoever during his stay in Miami. New Orleans has a history of not being a great destination to find clients either (the listings barely expand even during Southern Decadence), but the appearance of @PhileasFogg on the scene kind of changed that 😀! I personally think you’re going to do quite well in many U. S. cities because I think your profile is stellar, but there’s no doubt some cities seem to be places where the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze. Hopefully forum members can help you avoid them so you don’t waste time or resources.

My sole activities that I enjoy are worshipping feet, being spanked, and having my face sat upon. I always just jerk off myself to “take care of things” as I refer to it in my own RM profile. When I first started hiring 21 years ago (and for about 10-12 years thereafter), I would be so aroused and excited that I would “take care of things” after only about 20 minutes, after which I was perfectly content to just call it a highly satisfying session and be on my way. I never met a provider who wasn’t very content for that to be the case, and one provider even said, “I love how all this turns you on so much and so fast, and it makes it so much easier for me.” Now, however (at age 62), “things” are much harder to “take care of,” so I always wait until after the provider leaves before even attempting. Being honest, I don’t want the embarrassment of not being able to go “over the top” in 3-4 minutes, nor do I want the provider to somehow feel he “missed the mark.” That’s why now the duration of a session is far more significant to me than it was 20 years ago. When “Mr. Timer” left that second time, I could not even come close to “taking care of things,” so I just stared at a photo of a retired provider from when he and I met 15-20 years ago, and I fantasized that it had been him I’d just met with rather than “Mr. Timer.”

And that was my only time in 21 years!

I don’t take it as an attack at all, and he wasn’t supposed to know. It also hasn’t upset me (at least not long term) because, on a scale of 1-10 on the quality of our sessions, he was, at best a “4.” That goes directly to my commentary about how “weak” the New Orleans market is (at least for what I’m looking for) and has been for at least the last 15 years. If things don’t go well with any given provider (and that has been the case on maybe 5% of the guys I’ve hired over the years), I tend to just avoid conflict or any potential thereof and just move on. When he made it so obvious that meeting with me was practically a burden or, at a minimum, a huge inconvenience, I could not get a good mindset for continuing. In addition to being “weak,” the New Orleans market is also very small and, for reasons that I prefer not to publicize here (or even discuss via PM), that also played a significant role in my decision to sever ties with him. As I sated in this post on Ian_Twink, I’ve found a perfect “10” on that 1-10 scale so, even though it means an eight-hour bus ride each way (and getting a hotel for a couple of nights), it’s something that I’m only too happy to do because he is my dream perfect provider for the unique desires I have for a fulfilling and enjoyable encounter.