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I make an eight-hour (each way) bus ride very frequently to see https://rent.men/Ian_Twink. I just spend two nights at a hotel when I do. I see him on the day in between the days I travel (typically seeing him on a Friday). Also, whenever he is in Houston (like last weekend), I just book a round trip ticket for the same day. Houston is a five-hour bus ride each way, so round trip plus spending an hour with him does make for a long day, but, as far as I am concerned, he is well worth EVERY second of time I spend making my way to him and back because I KNOW I’ll never find anyone else who makes me as happy as he does (and he is THE best I’ve ever found in 22 years)!!

Anybody have anything to report on Trevor Discreet?: https://rent.men/Trevor_Discreet He did change his screen name about five days ago (was Trevor_Pleasure). Thanks.

Just made the trip back to Birmingham for another GREAT time! ChillGND is fantastic at satisfying precisely what I seek from a provider!! He’s also great just to talk with briefly after all the magical fun Is over!!

So he wanted you to adjust your schedule to accommodate him likely not staying in NO that much longer, yet, until today, his profile still showed him in NO. Now the fine folks in Dallas can have the pleasure of corresponding with him 😄: https://rent.men/handsomeboyyy

That’s odd because I did that early on with no issue, and it remains not an issue. Here are the numbers and facts: Most Recent Reviewer (Looper, Las Vegas)): 101 reviews. RM member for 10 years. Second Reviewer (HSVFunGuy, Auburn, AL): 3 reviews. RM member for 8 years. Third Reviewer (Rskavalier, Atlanta): 16 reviews. RM member for 7 years. For that reason, I do think he is legit but off the charts in terms of arrogance! When $1,000 to $1,500 is “not worth my time” when you are (allegedly) already in the same city, that tells me everything I need to know and more!! Though I decline to hire in NO anymore unless it is visitors, I can’t begin to tell you how many visiting providers have said the city is full of “cheapskate clients,” and they’ve told me that they get texts like, “Can I give you a blowjob for $20?” If this guy managed to unearth that kind of money in NO, more power to him, but I know far more revealing profiles of guys who have visited the city and left ahead of schedule to cut their losses!

Actually, what I think transpired is that, sometime between 1/16/26 and now, he changed his screen name. That begs the question of “why?” Only he knows the answer to that question, but we all know that, generally speaking, screen name changes can be a red flag, and we have no way of knowing if that was the first such occurrence. THAT may explain why there is so little of note posted about him on this forum (which I noted at the outset). Had @TJMS not spotted this instance, none of us would have even known about it!

I’m a premium member, and there is no face pic to show. He makes that pretty clear in his ad that you’re basically going to have to go on faith. I infer that from the fact that he says he will do “30-minute faceless video calls,” and his statement of “professional model = no face pic.” I did not reply to his ad because I knew he would view me as small potatoes, but never in a million years would I have thought he would view @PhileasFogg in such a light! In 22 years of hiring, I’ve never seen a reply back to a serious inquiry with that level of arrogance. Ironically, instead of contacting him, I contacted https://rent.men/Jerryxx (he visited my city yesterday) and he is 180 degrees opposite of arrogant and is so polite and appreciative of even small gestures. He and I have now enjoyed two sessions: one last night at his hotel room and another this morning at my apartment as he was making his way to New Orleans. He is nothing short of fantastic in terms of what I’m looking for!!

Just finished round two, and he was absolutely fantastic!!!!!

On a lark, I decided to try adding my VISA account back to see if it just may work. At the end, it said, "payment accepted," and then immediately said, "invalid card." Well, the payment DID go through, and I got a brand new six-month membership at $9.95/month with a discount to $49.95 for taking out a six month premium membership. I mainly wanted to try and get premium membership back so that I could issue a five-star review to https://rent.men/Jerryxx, which I just did. We'll see how it goes on November 8, 2026 when this membership expires, but at least now, I'm good for another six months 😊

He is visiting my hometown tonight, and we just met, and he was absolutely fantastic, so much so that we are going to meet again at my apartment tomorrow morning as he heads to New Orleans! I NEVER have someone who appeals to me to visit my city, so this was a real treat! I just made another eight-hour (each way) bus ride to Austin to visit with Ian last weekend. This outing was all of a 20-minute drive. Talk about two ends of the spectrum in terms of time spent on my end. 😀😀. One of the reviewers on the masseur site said his translator came in handy and was fun. He has very basic English skills, but when we finished, he really wanted to tell me something. He put it in his translator and pressed the play button, and it said, “You are my first customer who has a big smile on his face while having pain inflicted (my turnons are being spanked, worshipping feet, and having my face sat upon). Those three activities are all I ever have done in 22 years of meeting guys, and I “take care of things” once alone again. He was GREAT at all three, and he definitely understood the English of me telling him how hot he is as we did all three, and he said, “thank you.” He is very, very seeet and his text message correspondences before we met were always very courteous and professional. I know I’m not the typical client, but I can assure @francisssgorg that there was nothing boring about the encounter I just enjoyed with this young man, and I look very forward to seeing him again in about 17 hours to do it all over again only this time with me merely having to open my front door and welcome him in!

Anybody have anything to report on this young man: https://rent.men/handsomeboyyy? His RM profile is 3-1/2 years old, so it's a tad perplexing that he's never been mentioned on this forum that I can tell. I put "New York?" in the title only because his ad states: "2 night minimum for travel outside of NYC." Thanks.

Heeeeeeeee’s back!!! https://rent.men/Ian_Twink

I tend to carry it to the extreme and focus on only one provider unless and until something happens that causes that one provider no longer be available. When what used to be my “home market” of New Orleans had great selection 20 years ago, I would often meet with several providers, but since New Orleans became (and remains) a T-Total disaster for what I’m looking for, I started looking for the closest option. Recently, that led me to finding the best provider I’ve ever encountered in my 22 years of hiring, albeit an eight (8) hour bus ride each way. Right now, he’s on a brief hiatus that I hope doesn’t last too much longer 😄.

Fair question (though the matter became moot with @BuffaloKyle’s revelation). I just don’t want a second credit card that I never use. I do have a debit card I never use (except for getting ATM withdrawals) just to tide me over if my card ever has to be replaced, but I find it highly inefficient to hold a second credit card to use twice a year.

You are a wealth of knowledge!! Heck, with that revelation, I’m glad they couldn’t renew me! To a VERY large extent, I am now just seeing one provider (but seeing him quite a bit), and I have never liked the “stacking” RM reviews (I know one provider who has 110 5-star reviews, and 34 of them are from one client), and I can just tout him or any other provider on this forum (which I think has more credibility anyway), so I agree and don’t want a premium membership with this revelation! Your knowledge on this matter has now benefited me twice 😄😄!! Thanks, Kyle!!

Since you renewed his membership, you don’t want to provide his RM profile so nobody else (or very, very few guys) waste their time responding to him?

I think you got lucky. Their system has now completely removed my card and, when you try to add it back, it immediately notices it as VISA and posts a blaring notice that RM accepts Master Card and crypto only and says a discount is offered for crypto.

Okay. I’ll try that and report back.

I have only one credit card: VISA. In late 2023 when my card had to be replaced, I uncovered RentMen was no longer accepting Visa. I know plenty of other members uncovered that fact too. I went a year or so without a premium membership. Then @BuffaloKyle posted a solution which was to not go with the recurring monthly payment option and instead pay a one-time payment to renew for six months. I did that and even renewed for two more six-month periods the same way. Unfortunately, my membership expires tomorrow, and BuffaloKyle’s little trick no longer works, and they inform you that you must either use MasterCard or crypto. It’s very frustrating, but I’ll just have to revert back to being a regular member. It was nice being able to leave a 5-star review when I meet a great provider, but I’m not getting a Mastercard or using crypto.

I think the vast (and I do mean vast) majority of the members of this forum would. Deposit is bad enough, but providing “substances,” too as that old saying goes, is “a little too much sugar for a dime!”

This is just a suggestion. I created my own RM client profile that outlines just about every question a prospective provider may have. I make it a point to send that link in my introductory text. I’ll just say this. I’m 62 years old, not as tall as you (5’9”), and weigh far more than you (240), and I’ve found that I never have any trouble getting positive responses and positive experiences. It probably helps my case that I like to place the provider up on a pedestal, with me taking on the mental attitude that I’m very fortunate the provider is willing to even be in the same room with me, and my profile makes it very, very clear that I seek ONLY to worship his feet, have my face sat upon by him, and be spanked by him. I make it clear that I will “take care of things later.” My problem is the opposite of yours in that I seek highly specific attributes of a provider in order for me to cultivate and maintain that mental attitude that motivates me to be subservient. It doesn’t take much to TOTALLY screw that mentality up by my knowledge that the provider is a smoker (I never have in my entire life), uses drugs (I never have), or has an abundance of tattoos. Any one of those (especially drugs or heavy presence of tattoos) causes me to perceive the provider as not even being worthy of being in the same room as me (that’s how important that mentality is for me), thus making it impossible for me to gear myself up mentally to willingly and eagerly accept a high level of pain (spanking) from the provider. If someone as unique as me with my non-standard criteria has been able to meet with dozens and dozens of providers over the last 23 years, trust me, you aren’t going to have any trouble at all!

Well, what was your impression, @wayout? Did the face pic sway you one way or the other on meeting with him?

Exactly!! In December of last year, a provider with whom I met three times in 2024 was back in New Orleans visiting with friends just as he had done then. We were going to meet up again with me hosting in my home town 80 miles Northwest on a Saturday before he departed on Monday. When he had to back out of those plans, he wanted to meet up at a $49/night (I’m not joking!) motel Sunday afternoon on the Westbank in New Orleans, I politely told him I’d made other plans for Sunday. When a good friend and relatively new client based in New Orleans asked why I backed out (I had not told him about the proposed venue), I replied, “Because I value my life!”

1. My initial contact was not with the expectation that he was a scammer. It was after the “I am available” and “I am in your city” statements he made that alarm bells went off (too easy) and I strongly intensified my research. 2. I don’t. That’s why I ceased all communication with him when he said, “I’m already in your city.” It’s also why I had no reservations referring to the pictures as “stolen” which, ironically, seems to be a huge problem for the real person depicted in the pictures given the warnings he issues about any such photo theft. Had he not made the mistake of listing my city as one he would be visiting (today), I have no doubt we would not have uncovered any of this fraudulent activity.

I bet you it will. I think this fraudster is more than willing to spend the nominal money an app like Sideline charges for you to get an alternate phone number ($15 or so for a month), so that it can look more authentic like he actually resides in the city he chooses to reside at for purposes of pulling off these thefts. He would not keep doing this if it were not working, so God only knows how many deposits he has collected, and he likely won’t hesitate to show screenshots of those receipts to falsely demonstrate authenticity. The best thing everyone can do is commit those photos to memory (which are almost assuredly stolen) because, if he is smart (and that’s debatable), he will create a new client profile to replace “Nicholas.” Doing so (committing the photos to memory) will at least force him to steal someone else’s photos to try to keep this scam going.