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That’s PRECISELY why, when MZB (Boston), https://app.rent.men/MZB, visited New Orleans two months ago, I met with six (6) times! Providers of his caliber are nonexistent in the Big Easy, and it’s rare one like him even visits the city anymore.

Well, I have just broken my all-time record! I have been hiring for 20 years, and the previous record for me to hire the same escort was three (3) consecutive days (and that was about 12 years ago). I can VERY happily report that I met with MZB for five (5) consecutive days: Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday (within the last hour). He is a VERY rare find in today's market in terms of professionalism, courtesy, manners, and just being an all-around fantastic guy. Obviously, it goes without saying that he pushed all the right buttons for me thus causing me to break my old record for consecutive days of hiring the same escort. He is presently on his way to Houston and, as fate would have it, I too will be in Houston on Wednesday of this upcoming week. I am VERY much anxious to squeeze in just one more visit before he makes his way back to Boston. He also indicated that, based on his other clients he met with while in New Orleans, he plans to revisit the city before long. When he does, I'll be an every-day client again!! Who knows,? He just may break his own record for me hiring the same escort on consecutive days :).

BTW, here is the link for his ad in the new Beta format: https://app.rent.men/MZB

I met with him three hours ago, and he was FANTASTIC! His initial communication with me via text was professional, courteous, and timely. I just submitted a formal RM review, and hopefully they'll have that live by tomorrow evening. He gave me EXACTLY what I'm seeking from a meeting, and I plan to visit him again tomorrow, and I'm hopeful we can squeeze in a third visit before he leaves New Orleans. I already know it will be a while before anyone like him visits the Big Easy and I get such a rare opportunity, and I want to seize the moment with a really great, kind, and caring young man!

For what this is worth, he has a second RM profile that has been around much longer but fails to show up in searches but frequently pops up as a “featured review.” https://app.rent.men/AndreNola

Just a quick notation to indicate that he was in New Orleans last week. I reached out to him with my usual introductory message (he provides no phone # for texting, leaving only relying upon RM's messaging system to make contact with him). As I always do, I provided a link to my own RM profile, which is quite informative in terms of the precise activities I seek (all of which he'd indicated in his profile that he was "into"). The RM system confirmed that he viewed my profile within minutes of me sending the message. I got no response back from him whatsoever. I waited until several days after he departed New Orleans to make this post so that he'd have every opportunity, if he so desired, to respond to me since he was in New Orleans for another four days after I initiated contact. I only provide this notation as an additional FYI for anyone who runs a search for his name to take into consideration if he so desires in initiating correspondence with Bryce.

Anybody have anything to report on SamFlores in New Orleans?: https://app.rent.men/samflores

Here's the latest iteration of him: https://app.rent.men/Cuteyoungsexyboy

This is my definition of “moving on.” I can do this six (6) more times for the cost of a one-hour session. I wish all the best to Chase and Alex and hope they too can celebrate with a meal they enjoy in their favorite FQ restaurant!

Well, please keep in mind that I’m speaking from my perspective and what I seek. The fact that so many ads survive for so long that I don’t even see the need to click on demonstrates that plenty of prospective clients are seeking and finding something far different than that for which I search.

WOW!! And I thought I knew a little of the history of the New Orleans market given that I’ve lived in South Louisiana all of my life and hired exclusively from New Orleans since beginning hiring almost 20 years ago (I’m 59). Obviously, you REALLY know not only the present market but also have an extensive knowledge of its history!! I am definitely impressed!

I previously posted that I’d moved on; furthermore, as I said in my original post, I made the post as a courtesy to other members who may use the search feature of this site. Nothing more, nothing less. I have zero “angst” over anything! Also, as I indicated on another post on ChaseGavin and Alexinwonderland, the evidence is overwhelming that they are together on this venture to New Orleans, so I’m going to provide a direct link to his ad (taken out the exact same day with both young men obviously being from Mississippi) so that anyone who searches for his RM screen name will see this post as well: https://app.rent.men/Alexinwonderland

Thank you for pointing that out and, yes, the double-checks were present for every message I sent. I surmised that meant that he’d read them and signaled that he had made a conscious decision to abandon communication. Thank you for making clear that my intuition was correct.

It said “newbies” beneath the screen name, so I may have erred on that and it may have been how the forum classifies members by length of membership. Not sure why it said “newbies” rather than “newbie.” Anyway, I’ll own that one. I’ve been on this forum about eight years as a member (and knew of it long before joining), and it’s an invaluable resource. I’ve been spared what would have been disastrous meetings by this forum’s contents. It’s pretty common to report sudden drops in communications. I think the term often used is ghosting, but I prefer flake. As my RM profile says, I rarely even respond to ads anymore because, as I said in the outset of this post, it’s so rare for me to find what I’m looking for. Chase was an exception, and I truthfully indicated that his pictures and profile details were the best I’ve seen enter the NO market in a decade. It wasn’t meant to be, however, and I’ve moved on. As for the title of the post, prospective clients can read it and make up their own minds if it impacts their desires to initiate contact or not.

Post whenever you'd like, but for someone new, you sure come on laying down the law! Rough introduction to the “Big Easy?” Buckle up! It’s going to get much rougher! I also sense something, particularly the screen name being plural, and that's more than a little interesting given the follow-up post I made on this forum earlier today.

You have your definition of "flake," and I have mine, and by MY standards (and I've been hiring for 20 years), he flaked!!\. Pure and simple! I was polite in asking him what day and times may work, and he said, "this weekend could." I then proposed a date and time, and he discontinued all correspondence. That's a classic "flake" in my book! I even inquired, if my proposed time didn't work, suggest one that will work and I should be able to make it happen. I started the correspondence by giving him the direct link to my own profile, which told him tons about me including the only three activities I'm interested in (very specific and conveyed via hashtags). If, upon seeing that material, he, "wasn't interested," all he had to do is say so. Other providers have been very courteous in that regard, and I've indicated to them that I appreciated their honesty.

Last Thursday (12/8), I made this post entailing ChaseGavin: In a nutshell, Chase surfaced as a new ad in New Orleans (noticed it on Thursday, 12/8) and I found it quite appealing. After a few exchanged texts trying to set something up for this past weekend (which Chase indicated "could work"), Chase flaked and went AWOL on communications (which were only available through RM's message system as no phone # was applicable). Well, today I notice this ad by "Alexinworderland:" https://app.rent.men/Alexinwonderland. I was already suspicious that, at the time Chase said, "this weekend could work," that he wasn't even in New Orleans but was hoping to be there by the weekend. What made me think that? Chase showed "near travel" to include Meridian, Mississippi, which is not near New Orleans at all (198 miles, but a mere $23 one-way fare on Amtrak, is at least cheap to get there) but it also begs the question of just how strong the market in Meridian (with is 2010 population of 41,000) would be for escorts. Hence, it was illogical to me that someone from Meridian would reach out to Chase to set anything up, but obviously he could set something up for a return trip back "home" under my theory. Well, Alex's ad was taken out the SAME EXACT DAY as Chase's ad (15 days ago), and here's the entirety of the text of his ad: FROM MS., IN NEW ORLEANS RIGHT NOW !! 12/10/2022 😍😍❤️ Gee, 12/10/22 just happens to be Saturday, which was the beginning of the timeframe that Chase indicated "may work." Perhaps Chase figured Alex, who would appear to be the more dominant of the two, may be more what I was looking for and that perhaps I would respond to his ad once it was up and active. If that was the logic (giving the benefit of the doubt that there is ANY logic to be had), it was flawed as the two middle-finger salutes among Alex's photos don't endear him to me at all! Add in the fact that he responded, "yes" to being a smoker, and there would be no desire on my end for Alex! So, I think we have two young men from Mississippi who have relocated to New Orleans for an undetermined amount of time, but I see no way all of the above (ads taken out same EXACT date -- both available effective the same EXACT date, 12/10/22) similarities are a coincidence.

That’s been the case for a long time! Guys like Chase were plentiful in NO 15 - 20 years ago, but for the last 10 - 12 years, they’ve been almost nonexistent! I was also happy that Chase divulged his rate in his ad, and I would gladly pay that and would anticipate being a client who would enjoy many more meetings, but it appears that was all just a mirage. The only consolation is the fact that I can purchase about 40 pounds of boiled crawfish for the cost of a one-hour meeting with him, and they bring a ton of happiness to me too. 😀.

It’s my understanding that RM requires you to have actually met to submit a review. Since we did not, I wouldn’t seem to qualify. As pointed out, his ad is only 13 days old, so I seriously doubt he’s had an actual meeting yet.

I’m certainly not holding my breath!

That’s precisely why I contacted him! It’s been nearly a decade since a new entrant to the New Orleans market could even come close to the appeal he has for me.

Just a quick flake alert on Chase Gavin in New Orleans: https://app.rent.men/ChaseGavin I decided to initiate contact because he epitomizes what I'm looking for, and that rarely happens anymore. His ad is only 12 days old, and he has no phone for contact, and I've always been reluctant to use RM's message system, but he's so appealing to me I did go ahead and use it. Here's our correspondence: Me (3:35 p.m. CST yesterday): Hi, Chase. My name is <first name supplied>. I like your ad! Here is a link for my own profile, which has as hashtags the only things I seek: <like supplied> Chase (4:07 p.m. CST yesterday): hey there yeah we could work something out how are ya? Me (4:51 p.m. CST yesterday): I’m well. Are there days of the week and times that work best for you? Chase (4:56 p.m. CST yesterday): this weekend could work Me (5:09 p.m. CST yesterday): Okay. Would Saturday about 2 pm work well for you? Me, after an extended period of no reply yet the system showing he'd logged on several times (7:39 p.m. CST Yesterday): If it doesn’t, just indicate which day and time does work for you, and I should be able to make it work. I can also host, but I live in Baton Rouge. I checked several times today, and RM's messaging system shows him having logged on within a couple of hours from me having done so (notwithstanding that his ad itself shows it's been two days since he logged on which is not correct because even the ad itself earlier today showed he'd logged on today). Hence, I'm chalking this up as a flake experience and wanted to memorialize that fact in the event anyone runs a search on this site.

https://preferred411.com/ I used this site several years ago and was pleased. What you’ll find, however, is that most of the providers require positive referral from another provider (typically two). Hence, you need that first referral to become accepted into the game, so to speak. Beyond that, I found female prices to be about on average 30% higher than male prices. Hope this may help some, and good luck!

Only Fans has been very useful for me as a screening tool. My click thru rate on RM ads is less than 10% (zero interest in the other 90%). I can safely say that, of those I do click through on and my interest is peaked, of those who have OF pages, I don’t hesitate to take a month subscription (I hit “don’t renew” first thing). It’s great because you can see tons of historical posts for one low flat amount. In 70% of those instances, the OF page lessened my desire to meet rather than increased it. Hence, OF has saved me a ton of money and disappointment and I therefore am a big OF fan!!

Curious as to whether anyone has any intel: https://app.rent.men/LukeDillon