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2 hours ago, msclwrsper said:
Guys, Matt was not playing around with the headliner last night. JD is one of the most beautiful men that has graced the Adonis lineup. Still stunning, body to die for, and a grower tool that satisfied! And such an incredibly sweet and natural guy. Comfortable and at ease just making men happy! If you missed him, I am truly sorry!
Plus, Matt had an incredible lineup! All the guys listed didn’t show but there were plenty of dancers to go around and anything to satisfy the craving you might. I was talking with someone else and there really were all kinds of guys in the room (laughingly, we commented - unless you want them to look like they’re 15 or they still need to eat a sandwich! None of the Adonis guys fit that bill!) Just so many beautiful men of various heights, body types, color tones, hair types. Just something for everyone and I was tired by the time I went home. I still played with my regulars but I added some new talent to my roster and they were delicious!
Every Adonis is fun for me but some nights are just more special. Last night was fire!!!
Pics of JD for us who are not in the know?
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3 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:
If you can give, give instead of lending. There.
You're missing the point. OP has no problem whether giving or lending. He's paying escorts for recreational fun, which means he can easily recoup lost money. OP has feelings for the other guy, and the guy has now ghosted him. The attention, devotion, and time that OP gave to the provider and was never returned is what hurts the most.
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6 hours ago, Alex93108 said:
but bring someone who can speak Portuguese with you if you only speak english
Where do you find one? And how do you tell them that if they're willing to translate for some prostitution venture with it being socially/legally acceptable?
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On 5/13/2024 at 10:09 PM, dbar123 said:
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on. He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.
The guy obviously has feelings for the other guy. This is not about money. If you hire escorts recreationally, suffice to say you can easily recoup lost money. This is about being ghosted by someone you devoted attention and energy on—and that shit stings.
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On 5/10/2024 at 11:54 AM, ToddH said:
There were several (10-20) guys working and not too many clients.
At the front desk reception when you're about to pay for entrance, ask them how many guys there are. (cuantas chicos hay). Ten seems to be the norm for a weekday afternoon in my experience.
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3 hours ago, builder boy said:
Are we that interested.
Seriously. Plenty of Freshmen in the sea. But I guess, some follow other members here akin to following a soap opera series.
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6 hours ago, BananaBagel said:
I’m wondering the same thing.
Just one of the recent year's freshman crop. We just get older, they stay the same age. Just wait another year, we'll have another crop coming in. Alright, alright, alright.
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20 hours ago, robberbaron4u said:
With the young and beautiful, once the rain is over, an umbrella, however nice, becomes a burden.
So deep.... I appreciate poetry, and yours is something I haven't ran into. Had to ask technology to breakdown its eloquentness:
"This quote seems to suggest that when the metaphorical "rain" or difficulties in life pass, the protection or support offered by something, like an umbrella, may no longer be needed and could even feel burdensome. It could be about letting go of unnecessary safeguards or dependencies once the situation improves."
Bravo. 🌨️☂️🌞
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16 hours ago, nycman said:
As my father once said to me when I asked for a loan, "Son, if the bank doesn’t think you’re a good risk, why the fuck should I?"
He had a point and I learned a lesson.
Whenever someone asks me for a loan, I either say "no" or I give them the money and never expect it back. I will not ask nor hint to be repaid. I will however, never make another "loan" until the first one is repaid.
So far that has worked for me. I’m not an ass about helping others. But I’m also not a sucker. And in general our friendships have remained intact. Whether or not they repaid me.
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7 hours ago, Deadlift1 said:
He is breathtaking. I'm under his spell. Was he AI generated?
Photoshopped generated, probably.
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19 hours ago, Rick M said:
I hesitate to post this in case the subject recognizes me and takes umbrage, but to him I reiterate I do not hold him responsible, and in fact, I still trust him.
A while back I engaged a provider several times. We seemed to get along well, and when he revealed he was in financial difficulty, I offered to bail him out of debt. I drew up some papers to formalize the transaction, and went to the bank with him to oversee a transfer of funds. I will not cite the exact amount, but it was a considerable sum. There is no hard due date on repayment.
He left town the week after, and I asked him to stay in touch. This is the disturbing part: whether he is embarrassed to acknowledge his reliance on my generosity, or if he is simply scamming me (though I know his debt was real and he needed help), he has refused to reply to any message I send him. I don't want to exert pressure on him, but I do have an ongoing interest in his well-being, and wish to support him emotionally if he would allow it.
I now attempt to write him twice a year. Each time I reaffirm that I am not looking for reimbursement. I hope some day he takes my earnestness to heart and writes back even it's to say "I'm doing okay."
Like others have said, you've been scammed. This is more typical in the hetero world. One of my former friends started seeing a female stripper more often and they formed some rapport—am sure sex got exchanged at one point. One day, she opened the topic of financial difficulty. The rest pretty much ended up the same way in your story.
This is more common in the hetero-world because of the inherent "damsel in distress" and here's the "knight in shining armor" to save her day. In the LGBTQ world, similar can be said, but we fail to recognize it because we rarely hear such stories about a guy being the "damsel in distress" who's faking it just to steal from the knight.
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13 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:
I’m unsure. This was how it was left. He had messaged me and invited me to lunch. Then the plan just kinda didn’t happen. No more was said. He’s still in my will though.
I'm surprised/impressed you put escorts in your will. Can't help but be reminded of Hugh Hefner.
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On 4/29/2024 at 11:14 PM, azdr0710 said:
as Marc says, that has been the classic stereotype about Parisians for many, many decades......some truth to it, I suppose, but there are also many levels of toleration in Paris, just as in any large city!.......always make an attempt to speak French, smile, try, and you'll get along, mostly......
No need to quote Marc. I've actually put him on my block/ignore list. 😃
And I totally agree with you: smiling and trying to speak French goes a long way... 😃
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6 hours ago, MscleLovr said:
I disagree with your reasoning @newdad. Yes, the beaches are used by everyone but I’d say that means that the prevailing ethos is “Live and Let Live”
The beach in Barceloneta, close to the W Hotel, is popular with gay men, lesbians, trans people etc and nudity is unremarkable. (That does NOT mean that people have sex on the beach).
I’ve often gone there with my boyfriend (who is a younger muscleboy) and we might kiss and cuddle as part of lying in the sun together. No-one would object. The Spanish set great store by discretion and it would be seen as seriously uncool to take issue with the PDA or nudity of others.
Equally I’ve been with my boyfriend to other beaches in BCN and visited seasonal beach bars (chiringuitos) to eat and drink - there is a relaxed atmosphere and gay couples are very welcome.
thanks for sharing. Yes, that makes total sense. I found luck in Sitges personally moreso than Barcelona beaches, so my experience is biased.
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2 hours ago, tassojunior said:
As much as I love Stiges and the week-long gay pride there, the main attraction of BCN to me after several visits is frankly Thermas and if it's permanantly slow now, I'd rather spend more time this summer in Nice. Last year I skipped a week in BCN for an extra week in Nice. While the sauna there is not many escorts, the nude bars and the Eagle have plenty of "negotible" guys who are attractive. And Romeo and RM are plentiful I find the rates online are the same in both, even though Thermas is much less. I really want to try the French Navy in Toulon too. Several gay bars there I've never been to.
How is Nice in general? I plan to visit Paris this summer, and was told that Paris is not to happy about foreigners who don't speak French. I'm thinking of stopping by Nice.
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4 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:
I have had many many many amazing experiences with him. I met him on seeking years ago. I’m not surprised he’s escorting. He’s very good at what he does and you won’t be disappointed.
Did he not find any sugar daddies on seeking? He seems really good looking to not have found any.
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1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:
Thank you. I'm staying 5 nights in Barcelona then 3 nights in Sitges. I was planning on visiting the gay beaches in Sitges while there, but was wondering if I should even bother spending a day at the gay beach in Barcelona with so many other tourist things to see. I think I'll check out Barcelona's gay beach for 1 day, and keep the church, Picasso museum, and something else on my to do list for the other days... Always remembering to be back to Sauna Thermas by early afternoon.
The beaches in Barcelona are accessible for everyone. Hence, you can't do gay stuff.
The beaches in Sitges are harder for other people to get to. There's 3 of them in Sitges, and Playa del Muerto is the one that's very secluded—and where sex is likely to happen. FWIW, I'd only go to Sitges if it's the weekend, unless there's a big event on a weekday that you're guaranteed to expect an influx of people. When I went there, it was just a one day trip (Saturday). Train ride from BCN to Sitges is about 40 minutes for 4 euros one way. You can also rent a car.
Here are a few resources on how to find the nude beaches in Sitges:
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5 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:
I’ve often wondered why Thermas works in BCN and nothing comparable in Madrid.
The most similar one in Madrid would be Sauna Gran Via. It's starting to have a reputation to be escorts only sauna. However, I don't think SGV advertises itself as an escort sauna like Thermas does.
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1 hour ago, tassojunior said:
a very important aspect at Thermas is the ability to rent "Room #1" by the hour (or whatever it's called now) Instead of a little cubicle it's a double bed size room with porn vids. Much better sex than in the dressing-room size cubes. Also it has sauna hour crowds and empties out quickly early evening.
Ah thanks for the response, but I already left Barcelona. Thank you though.
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Oh forgot to add... if you're into architecture, check out Gaudí's houses in Barcelona. He's the same architect that laid the foundation for La Sagrada Familia Cathedral, but there's a few houses that he was involved in in Barcelona.
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On 4/24/2024 at 3:59 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:
What were the Barcelona attractions that you saw that you recommend? I would like to do one attraction each day besides the Sauna/bars/beach.
Architecture: La Sagrada Familia (it's a cathedral) if you like architecture. (TBH, if you've been to St. Peter's Basilica in Rome, any cathedral/church is not worth visiting after that because St. Peter's Basilica is the best one I've seen and it's free.)
Beaches: Sitges Beach (the gay nude beach part of it), Barcelona Beach. They're free.
Museum: Picasso Museum
Avoid: Park Guell — it's basically just a regular park, but they charge people to get in.
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On 4/25/2024 at 6:00 AM, Wolfer said:
20 providers is a lot though, you'd be surprised. Then again, it's incredibly hard to gauge an actual number since on the busy nights, almost all the providers are in cabins with clients at any given time.
You can actually ask the person at the entrance even before you pay. That's what I did those nights. "cuantos chicos hay esta noche"
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Oh, I did not mean photos from the event. I was talking about general SFW pics from IG or the like. I'm assuming they're pretty well known and have a good following in the gay community. But it sounds like they don't want to share photos, like you said.