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Do you all go all the way with the masseur? (ie, do you hire them as escorts too while at it?)

Wondering what your thoughts behind it.

EDIT: pardon the typo in the title. I meant, "why not just hire escorts instead?"

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@Coolwave35 what are your thoughts about requiring PrEP or having proof of recent testing for the guys to attend your events?

Keep us posted!

How was that experience for you?

2 hours ago, wallnut said:

Agreed, I much prefer having a massage in on a table rather than a hotel bed. 

Does a massage table able to support two adult bodies? I'm wondering if there's an upsell and the masseur agrees to sit on you, would you all have to move on a bed?

And if they take you up again, do they give a worse, better, or similar service?

14 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

But if you get a "you tip me well" comment, he isn't talking about $ 20.

What's a typical "you tip me well" for a $150 massage? I'm not a big fan of the tipping culture where I have to subjectively figure out what number they want, and I'd prefer if they give me a rate straight-up that they're happy with.

12 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Absolutely at the discretion of the masseur.

A blowjob crosses the line from masseur to prostitution so as Jamie21 mentioned you are crossing into legal matters when you start paying someone for sexual favors.

My advice is to do less planning and go with the flow. Book your happy ending massage.

See how your provider approaches the happy ending on his own, and if you like this person, discuss afterwards if there are other menu options that they might be interested in providing for the next time.

If the masseur crosses the line on his own (eg. gave a blowjob without any prior discussion), is it usually expected that the rate changes? If so, by how much? Trying to find out if there's a song and dance or expected etiquette.

2 hours ago, FrankR said:

 I’m betting he’s gonna turn into a FWBs. 

Would it still be "Friends with Benefits" if he's monetarily compensated? Or would it be more of a good 'ol business partnership?

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

"Happy Ending" 90% of the time is a hand-job.

But I've had various other erotic techniques applied ( rimming, face fucking ) before I get my hand-job.

Ok. So this means that going beyond a hand-job is at the discretion of the masseur.

Is blowjob common when hiring a masseur for an erotic or sensual massage?

Is it restricted to handob alone? Or can it be any sort of ending? Newbie here.

I'm talking about when you offered someone who was not in the "providing" business to become a provider. This might have been in person (eg, bar, club) or virtual(eg,  instagram, grindr, etc.). Basically, they've never done it, but you gave them an offer they bit on. What are your success or fail stories?

2 hours ago, dctraveler said:

If you click on grand's profile, he lists all three options as his offerings: therapeutic, sensual and erotic. 

Also HE = happy ending 

Thanks, I see those now. Do those three have the same $180 price? I don't see any separate for price for each.

On 1/5/2023 at 9:24 PM, Becket said:

Check out Grant at jock massages. Great body, really friendly, nice massage, mutual touch, HE. Easy to get to.  I'll be back for sure. He's in Dallas at rentmasseur.com.  My cut and paste skill are lacking on this device sadly.

Hi Becket, with Grant is it just pure massage? Or does he go all the way?

And I'm assuming "HE" means Hand Ejaculation? (I'm a newbie)

I saw a posting on rentmasseur and it says incall is $180. How much ideally is the tip?