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Ive noticed a negotiation starts a 300.00 but easily gets to $500.00/2 hours plus uber.

A little on the fleshy side, handsome AF.

Jacob Hensley (bakedlean.com)

I he might have mentioned it because I'm one of those types who always wants more information rather than less. It hasn't kept me awake nights.

I certainly can't slow down the march of time.

"Papi" is great. I like it because it isn't worn out like "Daddy" is, and I generally adore Latin men.

I used to like it, but I find it tiresome now and tell guys not to call me that.

I forgot one thing - the hemo said that there is a slight chance that the mild anemia could progress to one of those bone marrow cancers like multiple myeloma or myelodysplasia. I rarely think about that, especially now since my bloodwork has improved in the last year.

I live with mild anemia: elevated MCV, HGB and HCT slightly low. They are always that way. My PCP and my Hemo aren't worried, so I'm not worried. Interestingly, in the year that I've been on Prep, the anemia has disappeared. Time will tell whether or not that change is permanent. I don't believe that Prep has cured my anemia, but it also appears that Prep doesn't cause anemia, at least not in me.

I used to care, but I don't anymore. I'm only interested in what's convenient for both parties: deposit? fine, how much. Payment app? Fine, which one? Advance payment? Fine, when? etc. etc.

I remember, in 1960, or thereabouts, my parents decided to really splash on New Year's day and take the entire family to an upscale landmark restaurant on the Erie Canal in Medina NY. The check for 7 of us, was around $50.00.

I have kind of a thing for very tall men - my husband is 6'3" and I have a FB who is 6'4". But I also go for short-ish guys with firecracker builds. Very heavy guys and painfully thin guys would be low on my list.

Venmo is so easy - I love it. A lot of providers like Cashapp, but it feels sketchy to me.

I had a FB who was polyamorous. He was an unbelievable kisser. We would get so into kissing each other that we would run out of time for anything else, but it was a great time nevertheless.

How does being polyamorous make you immune to unsuitable attachments? I don't see myself as polyamorous. I don't develop unsuitable attachments to sex workers because I'm able to compartmentalize. And I'm very clear that I'm not looking for love where it's not to be found.

That's me, also. I'm so clear that I'm hiring for sex and not for romance that I have never experienced more than a brief infatuation with an escort. I recently hired a Brazilian dream boat who was just very nice to be around in addition to being great sex. He might be my hottest hire of all time. Still, the extent of my attachment is that I want to hire him again. I believe that most of my hires have genuinely liked me, which is nice. And a few have contacted me afterward, but, still, their motivation was mostly to stay in contact with a desirable client.

A4A is the only hookup site I frequent and it is rife with scammers and frauds. Best not to believe much of what people say on there.

I've been doing it for 20 years or so. It doesn't turn you into a horny 18-year old or anything like that, but it does boost your libido and definitely improves erections. To me, the effect is noticeable, but not dramatic.

I learned to be polite as a little kid and I really learned the value of being polite and service-oriented when I was in high school and working in restaurants after school. Before I came to San Francisco, I worked in a retail business in an area where parking was really difficult. Right across the street was one of the few parking lots in the area and it filled up quickly. A nice old guy ran the lot and occasionally saved me a spot when he could. I started tucking a $10 bill into an envelope for him with a thank you card every couple of weeks and I never had to worry about a parking spot. One of the guys in management couldn't understand what magic I had worked with the parking guy to get him to save me a spot every day. He was from Morocco and from a wealthy background and had a HUGE sense of entitlement, so it had never occurred to him to just be nice and tip the guy now and then.

And my experience recently with hookup sites is that they are rife with scammers - guys who want you to give them gas money to come to your place, or they've experienced a health crisis and need $100 right away to avert a disaster. I'm used to the ones that want to teach you to trade crypto, but this is a new variety of scammer.

Congratulations on having looked reality in the face and surviving. It makes me crazy when someone comes on here and posts that they "have to hire." What is actually true is that someone has plenty of options, they just don't like any of them. By staring an unappealing truth in the face and surviving you have become stronger, bigger man. I know, it isnt a flashy satisfaction but then, a lot of life isn't that flashy.

He was in a lot of pain from a failed spine surgery.

That's actually not completely true. Once, I had a provider quote me a rate of $350, now that I think about it. I could imagine paying the right guy $350, but not this guy.

What I've been seeing is typically $300 for an hour and $500 for 2 hours. $300 for a single hour is more than I like to pay but $500 for 2 hours is right in my sweet spot.