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  1. Even if I had the space and the resources, for me it would be a bad idea. For one thing, I’m pretty sure my husband of 25 years would object, LOL. For another, I’m too attached to the “one-night stand” aspects of this hobby—the novelty of meeting new guys, the element of erotic risk, etc. No matter how hot he is, I don’t see how the “boyfriend experience” survives the inevitable discovery, over a month of enforced togetherness, that he chews with his mouth open, or thrashes in his sleep, or votes Republican, or hates your cat.

    ...or has foul morning breath, misses the bowl when he pees or is a FOX News junkie. :eek:

  2. He kinda hints at his "model" name in the RM Ad in the About Me area immediately below the photos:

    https://rentmen.eu/Ottaviani

    About Ottaviani

    Model here that you’ll always remember guaranteed

    You guys already know who it is...

    J...A...C... I’ll leave it at that ?

     

    He references "Sean Cody Model" in the Friendboy Ad: https://friendboy.pro/boys/Roman33

    #seancodymodel

    Also lays it out in the RM Interview section:

    Q: What would you like your readers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?

    A: That I’m a pornstar for Seancody

  3. Let's not. LOL!!!

     

    Unless he let himself go absolutely if he's been taking care of himself he's still probably hot. If he has good genetics too he could be hot decades after we came to know him on Sean Cody.

     

    Three of my favorite escorts are in their 40s and have better bodies than people half their age.

    Amen! Older + Built = Hot

  4. The link you show does not work for me.

     

    I find this to work:

     

    https://hide.me/en/proxy

     

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    This link almost always works for me, on either Safari or Chrome. Another tip is that when you access the "Free Proxy" from the dropdown, another drop down that displays is "More Options." Open that, and make sure all five boxes are checked. Then choose your country button. Germany consistently works better than the Netherlands.

  5. After a lot of thought over the weekend, where this thread weighed heavily, I've made the decision to end this hobby. I remember very well the first time a provider suggested we go bare, because it was a mindfuck for me. That was November 2014, I had just turned 60 and it had been over 30 years at the time since I'd had anything sexually transmitted (crabs in my case, not sure that even qualifies as a true STD :rolleyes:).

     

    I know there's some back and forth here about whether barebacking is routine now, but based on my experience shopping through ads and hiring its totally normalized, at least in the markets where I explore. Then there's all the data shared here and elsewhere about the rise of STDs beyond HIV and antibiotic resistance. Still wondering if the risks are greater now or my willingness to rationalize condom use as "safe enough" is just less. Anyway, the bottom line for me is that I don't want to go on PrEP, so it does seem irresponsible for me to continue -- for my own health as well as the risks I'd be exposing sex partners to given that I don't take the PrEP precaution.

     

    I'm extremely grateful for this forum, even though I'll probably be using it less. More than just informative, it's been a fun and naughty escape from the daily stresses of work and life! I'll have to take up knitting or scrapbooking now, lol. Anyway, thanks to all.

  6. wow. Think this thread is thought provoking -- have been mulling on it all weekend -- and I truly appreciate all the points of view offered, especially those that emphasize avoiding blaming. But it IS giving me the creeps. Especially this point -- if I'm going to be responsible for whatever risks I choose to take, does that responsibility entail informing other sex partners that we hire escorts. Is that a distinct risk factor that should be disclosed, especially if we know the escorts we hire offer bareback services?

  7. Thanks. I'm not sure which club you're referring to above, is there a secret handshake that I don't know? ;)

     

    Foucault was in many clubs. That's one the fascinating aspects of his work.

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    Lol, I meant that he was gay of course. But I see your point, and like it. We're more than our sexual preferences, yes?

  8. Just saw him this week. Might top, not sure, definitely bottoms. He was really communicative and forthcoming in the text meeting to set things up, and he followed through on everything. Nice, interesting man. He looks like his photos but better in that he smiles much more in person than in most of his photos. Reviewed him on RM this morning, with extensive comments for those who access through an international site via VPN.

  9. Good post @adventurous old guy FWIW I feel you have made a wise decision.

     

    MP may be great but $500 an hour is a very demanding price. It doesn’t allow for anything less than a superlative session, and we’ve all known guys where the chemistry was missing.

     

    As an aside, I was amused by the “$950 for 2” hours. That’s not a discount; it’s a rounding error. Anyone who had a magnificent time for 2 hours is going to add the implied tip of $50.

    Right on! My thinking exactly. Chemistry IS a thing, it matters, and sometimes it's just not there. Laughed out loud at your take on a "rounding error." :rolleyes:

  10. Just a quick follow up on Mark. I contacted him this week when we overlapped in DC. Very polite, but quoted me $500/hr or $950 for 2. It was my birthday so I was prepared to splurge, and responded that $500 was not out of the question for me, but not for a first meeting, someone I'd never been with before. Countered offering $400 with a promise to be generous if I had a great experience. He read that but didn't respond. It was early in the day. I assumed he was probably waiting to see if he got a better offer. Gave him two hours before pulling my counter and going with someone else, specifically this guy: https://rentmen.eu/AlexanderLatin. Very different look than Mark, but beautiful, super nice, flexible and fun. Just reviewed.

     

    Got a nice final note from Mark later in the day saying "no worries." So want to underscore he was friendly and communicative throughout the back and forth. And as a consultant myself I certainly don't begrudge him sticking to his price. Goal of this post is just to update intel about his pricing.

  11. Regarding Mark Parker 6’3” gorgeous man with beauitful swimmers build.....very handsome.....super charming and friendly...he took control and led me down an hour of pure delight.....topped magnificently

    Just a quick follow up on Mark. I contacted him this week when we overlapped in DC. Very polite, but quoted me $500/hr or $950 for 2. It was my birthday so I was prepared to splurge, and responded that $500 was not out of the question for me, but not for a first meeting with someone I'd never been with before. Countered offering $400 with a promise to be generous if I had a great experience. He read that but didn't respond. It was early in the day. I assumed he was probably waiting to see if he got a better offer. Gave him two hours before pulling my counter and going with someone else, specifically this guy: https://rentmen.eu/AlexanderLatin. Very different look than Mark, but beautiful, super nice, flexible and fun. Just reviewed.

     

    Got a nice final note from Mark later in the day saying "no worries." So want to underscore he was friendly and communicative throughout the back and forth. And as a consultant myself I certainly don't begrudge him sticking to his price. Goal of this post is just to update intel about his pricing.

  12. Sartre is good for challenging and opening minds. Foucault is too. After opening minds with the classics, bring in current ideas and research to build on what was right and correct what was wrong.

    Amen. And Foucault was in our club!

  13. This whole topic gives me pause.... Big head vs little head.... and also makes me want a BF in the worst way.

     

    For me, BB sex is a total fetish.... The act of getting bred.... totally a mental fuck...

     

    I have a regular provider for over 3 years and we have only engaged in BB sex. I trust him, but I know with the majority of his clients, he is barebacking.... video on his ad shows him fucking raw. We're both PreP and tested regularly.

     

    I have also BB'ed with a few other providers.

     

    The whole topic ultimately depresses me because I wish I had a BB BF. I also feel people are 'judging' those of us who choose to BB. And let me reiterate... 'FEEL'.... its in my own head.... and my own nagging concerns that I may be taking unnecessary risk.

     

    Just want to say that I resonate and totally appreciate your candor. Made me recall my college philosophy courses. Sarte wrote some really thought provoking stuff on fetish/perversion. I'm bastardizing, but the gist is that sex is a profound act of human to human communication. Fetishs no matter how exteme are not perversion as long as some real person to person exchange is going on, whereas banging it out in the hetero missionary position is perversion if its rote, routine and objectifying. Talking about those ideas in class at the age of 21 as I was coming to terms with the reality that I was attracted to boys much more than girls changed my life.

  14. I will add that I find it difficult to find escorts willing to go bare in Las Vegas and London. You can find them, but they may not be ones at the top of your list. I have never had an escort push for bare but maybe that's because I asked before we meet.

    Good practice wise words. I do that too. Interestingly, the provider who proactively insisted on a condom before I did was European.

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