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  1. Noticed that there's an influx of out of town service providers in Chicago now, where our numbers are also low (positivity rate hovering between 2 and 3%). Increasing demand because buyers are more ready to connect because of lower risk? Or providers reducing their risk by offering services in places where clients are more likely to be Covid free?

  2. You make a very good point. Maybe I am just lucky, but all the bad experiences I have had, were short. Hosting? I agree completely, I want it in my hotel where I can control the cleanliness and the situation if need be, I have to say, the scammers are usually apparent before you ever get to a meeting. Now there are some old pictures and great photography, but after a few texts, the scammers are obvious. At least that has been my experience.

    We're basically on the same page. I can think of just 3 times when I would book a shorter session if i had a do over, so hardly a pandemic, lol. Still, I changed my behavior. And probably got better at vetting.

  3. You make a very good point. Maybe I am just lucky, but all the bad experiences I have had, were short. Hosting? I agree completely, I want it in my hotel where I can control the cleanliness and the situation if need be, I have to say, the scammers are usually apparent before you ever get to a meeting. Now there are some old pictures and great photography, but after a few texts, the scammers are obvious. At least that has been my experience.

    We're basically on the same page. I can think of just 3 times when I would book a shorter session if i had a do over, so hardly a pandemic, lol. Still, I changed my behavior. And probably got better at vetting.

  4. I've talked to him. Looked at his site where his different time/charges are listed. It's reasonable with talent of his caliber. In fairness his rates may discourage the one hour in my hotel room guys, but them most quality people do the same. He comes across as confident but not cocky. I'm going to see him later in the summer. Cut him some slack.

    In defense of the "one hour in my hotel room" guys, I was often one of them. Here's why: Only hired when I traveled, and found it much more palatable to host at my hotel where I knew the sheets were clean, vis-a-vis wherever the service provider stayed, sometimes sharing a room with another, sometimes with the bed still unmade after whoever was there before me. As for time, I prefer longer too. But on a handful of occasions with a new provider, despite the set up communications, the man who showed up and I didn't click for one reason or another. So I learned to default to a one hour appt for a first meeting with an offer to go longer if we hit it off. Worked well for me in meeting "quality people" and often seemed to be appreciated by the provider too, given that I was an unknown to him as well.

  5. Sot this is a story not exactly on point, but close enough. I was once on a team at work with a very beautiful young man, in his prime, 20 years younger than me, who escorted on the side. He was from a wealthy family, well educated and did it for the thrill. Told me his first sexual experiences were being "tipped" for great service he offered some of his dad's friends after caddying for them at the country club. Had issues with his parents, this was his way to rebel as a teenager, and it still gave him a rush to be paid for sex. Anyway, this all came out over drinks one night at a hotel when we were both traveling for work. I was the lead of our work team, and had gone to bat for him in meeting when his boss, who was a jerk, was criticizing him while simultaneously taking credit for his work. Anyway, his life story was a prelude for offering to have sex to thank me for my support. I declined -- never thought it was a good idea to have sex with co-workers -- but we were both relaxed and what ensued was a really fun, flirty conversation where he kept teasing, "You know I'm really good at this. You know, people pay me for this."

     

    Great memory and fantasy material, that I role-played a couple times since with service providers, Said yes instead of no, lol, in those sessions.:p

  6. Well thank you. :)

    Although it’s probably not who you think it is. Lol! :D

    Oh OK, was making an assumption. Still, whoever it is, glad he's got someone to call his man. Was a sweet moment in a crazy world to see that.

  7. I've talked about him on the forum before, but one has turned into more than just a FB.

     

    He and I hit it off immediately the first time we met. As time wore on, each subsequent meetup, he wanted less compensation but spent more time in my company. Then one day he just said to me I don't have to give him money. I was in disbelief and I asked him many times was he sure he wanted no compensation. He replied, "absolutely!"

     

    As of today, we talk frequently. When we get the chance to see each other we spend almost the whole day together. Although we aren't officially in a relationship (we have talked about it extensively) he calls me his man. Make of that what you will. :D

     

    I will say because he often drives a long distance to see me, I will sometimes give him money for gas and tolls. I figure if he drives all this way to see me and spend hours together... gas money is the least I can do.

    Was happy to see this post. Gave me a grin. ;)

  8. Cornfed and “holesome”? Clever spelling or misspelling? ?

    Wondered about that too, lol. According to the sources I consulted, he's wholly (or "holey"?) versatile. :rolleyes:

  9. He advertised under a different name pre-Covid. I'm not caffeinated enough yet today to remember it, but he goes by Ty. Had good reviews on RM. I vetted him with other RM clients, all of whom had really good things to say and I had a nice conversation with him. Just didn't have the opportunity to connect before I retired from this hobby. Curious that he would change his handle when his reputation was so good -- maybe to advertise his Double A grades, lol?

  10. I always found it intriguing how 3 straight brothers ended up doing gay porn.

    Maybe this way: There's four or five brothers who dance and hook up out of the Corner Pocket hustler bar in New Orleans. Have chatted with a couple of them, and basically they brought one another along. The oldest loves to chat if you buy him drinks and was kind of fascinating to talk to -- one of 12 or 13 siblings. Takes credit for bringing the younger ones along, teaching them the ropes. My sense is they're looking for regulars, or maybe sugar daddies. I had a bunch of N.O. travel last year, and stopped in whenever in town. The roster of brothers ebbed and flowed, but there were always a couple there.

     

    A million stories in the city...

  11. I’m jealous. :) Max Grand was one of my favorite porn stars. He had the most perfect uncut dick, beautiful chest, and great skin. I would have loved to have met him, but he retired before I began hiring.

     

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    I KNOW you would have liked him. Like PDR, I wasn't sure how well he'd do as a bottom. He had some preferences in how he wanted it, and got totally into once we went there. Another facet of the peak experience is that I didn't know I was hiring him. His ad was in the Washington Blade, headless shot of a perfectly proportioned torso. Recognized him right away from this work, so big happy surprise!

     

    Misty, water colored memories lol.

  12. I had mixed experiences with the porn stars I hired, the best being Max Grand who was just phenomenal in the flesh and the most disappointing being Mitch Branson (Super nice guy, came ready, willing and looking great --alas, just no chemistry)

     

    The number #1 guy I drooled over was Mitchell Rock. He seemed all in when in action. Please tell me he never escorted -- I'll kick myself if he did and I missed him, lol.

     

    Btw, where did he go. On forward to new horizons I hope.

  13. Feel free to read my post in response to this thread. Instead of talking shit without any proof, take a second to ask for it. It's hysterical that you never asked me a single question but you think you know everything about me. Hmm who's the dumb one now?

    Medjock, as the original poster here I just want to say that I didn't mean to attack you personally, much less stir up a storm. Your ad struck me as "first to market" and I commented on that as a novel approach, actually giving you kind of lame compliment for being opportunistic. I'm a consultant who markets myself opportunistically too, so please know i mean this as a compliment too, not a criticism.

     

    Do admit, however, that you were vague about your credentials in healthcare on a platform where there is a lot of spin in the pitches. The vagueness made me suspicious when I could have given you the benefit of the doubt. I see your point, own that and apologize for the comment about your ad copy being bullshitty. You've done a very good job of clearing up the vagueness. I do admire your professional ambitions as well as your willingness to engage here and stick up for yourself. And I wish you the best.

  14. Admire? That's just good old-fashioned fresh, steaming bullshit. It's also an uneducated lie.

     

    Reinfection is very possible. We also don't have a stable antibody test yet. Strike three.

     

    Sure, he's trying to survive, but his copy is irresponsible and shady as fuck.

     

    If you're an escort who's going to work right now, just own it. No games. No shtick.

    Hmm, when I used the term "admire" it was tongue and cheek, probably not the best choice of terms as I think about it. Just to be clear, I don't really believe him or buy that he knows what he's talking about. The claim to be in the "medical field" is vague enough to strike me as particularly bullshitty.

     

    Still, going forward I think we'll see more people marketing their C 19 status as a distinguisher in a time when users of escort services feel deprived of sex/touch/human connection.

  15. This pitch caught my eye this morning. Service provider whose ad now leads with "fact" that he's had the virus, and is past it.

     

    https://rentmen.eu/HotMedPro/#platinum

     

    First thoughts:

    1) Admire his entreprenurial spirit. Think he's identifying a new market, i.e. people who haven't had sex or otherwise been touched for weeks eager to hook up with someone who is allegedly safe/safer.

    2) We'll see more of this, the shape of things to come.

    3) Ad would be more effective if he posted when he had it.

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