Bargara Leatherboy

Auckland is just a city, its beauty is the harbour and the gulf islands. Christchurch is quite charming, but that was before the devastation of the earthquakes, and Christchurch is still recovering, with infrastructure etc. Wellington is worth a visit, and in the South Island well there is just so much to choose from. Lake Tekapo, Wanaka, Queenstown, Milford and Doubtful Sounds, Hamner Springs, Nelson

Gisborne or Gizzy as the locals call it, is a delightful place. Remote even by New Zealand standards, and really just a small town on the east coast. Great beaches and rugged inland landscape. Best approached from around East Cape. Lake Waikaremoana is worth a visit

I always ask how they provider prefers payment when setting up the meet

The only things I use for cash these days, is the social club at work which has a table full of bad things to eat, like chocolates, sweets, (candy) chips etc, the Vietnamese bread shop which only takes cash, and the provider who prefers cash. For everything else I use American Express, or Visa/MasterCard for all those wonderful Frequent Flyer points. I dream about the time I can travel again and have a huge bank of points to use. I used to take out $400 cash every fortnight, and these days I still withdraw $400 when I go to an ATM but my visits to an ATM are few and far between. I have got in the habit of having enough to for my next appointment with a provider tucked away, as I always seemed to be pushing time to get to an ATM on my way to an appointment. I don’t have any issues with a paper trail, as sex work is legal in Australia

My Dad was 35 when I was born and My Mum was 40, so yes you beat me. Did you have issues with the age difference like I did... old fashioned and strict parents

My husband has worked as a funeral celebrant and with a couple of small family run funeral companies. He has done everything from arranging to body collection, body preparation, etc. In Australia we have lots of funeral companies but many are owned by an American Company called Invocare (https://www.invocare.com.au/). This company owns many brands, Simplicity, White Ladies, Guardian etc. They work out of warehouses, and there is no continuity of customer service. So your arranger wont be at the funeral, the staff working the funeral will have not met the family, might not have got the notes for what you want, may forget important things like flowers to place on the coffin during the service etc etc etc etc. I have been to many funerals in the last 15 years, some I have worked as an extra when the business has needed an extra pair of hands, I know a well run funeral when I see it. I have sat at funerals of friends loved ones, who have chosen to use another company like the ones mentioned above, and been embarrassed for them when little things go wrong. there is not dress rehearsal, only the one off performance, and everyone deserves a well run funeral. Also these companies charge a fortune, we used to charge lets say $5K for a basic but respectful service, a decent looking casket, without ripping off the family, and we made a reasonable profit on them too. The other companies mentioned might charge 10-15 or even 20K for the same service. Work it out for yourself. Newspaper notice are expensive in Australia, we always charged the family the exact amount charged to us by the newspaper, we would pass the invoice onto them. A standard notice would cost about 250-300. A colleague of mine had a charge for her dads for 1200. One phone call or fax to the newspaper and you charge a fee of 900. Nice money if you can make it!!! So if you have to arrange a funeral for a loved on, be careful who you choose and get everything in writting

May he enjoy the great rainbow lounge in the sky with lots of delicious hot men

there are times when size can be important, but not very often. I have two memorable experiences, one with a man with a very small dick, he was one of the best lovers I have ever been with, it was like he made up for his lack of penis size with better than average skills everywhere else. we did not do anal, but I left very satisfied and with great memories. Another is a nice when I was at KKK (Ken’s Karate Klub) a very well known and popular bathhouse in Sydney. I was cruising a very good looking guy in his early 20‘s he was very much lacking confidence, anyway eventually i got him into a cubicle, and when i removed his towel and went down on what was a small soft cock, I was very surprised as he grew to a very decent 8 inches. I told him that hard, he was bigger than most men there that night, and to never be ashamed of what he had between his legs. I hope he took my advice. I have always believed its not what you have its what you do with it, that really counts. As for surgery, I would never consider it, as the risks of it not working are too great

Growing up I drank ordinary full cream milk, that was the only kind. It was delivered to the door, in glass bottles. there were a few years when a smart doctor kept me off milk, due to chest infections. I have drank very little milk since then, black coffee and tea, maybe some in cereal, but the most of my diary consumption would have been in cheese and ice cream. Fast forward 50 years and I get diagnosed as lactose intolerant, wish I knew that when I was 5, and now that I totally understand that, I only touch plant based milks, so soy or oat or almond. I dont drink milk straight, but if i need to add milk that’s what I use, or coconut milk in Asian cooking. I even prefer to soak my Oat‘s for my Bircher muesli in apple juice.

I lived in New Zealand for a number of years, growing up, and most New Zealanders are pretty blase about earthquakes. They are part of life, and they take them in their stride. However the bigs ones in Christchurch certainly had a big impact, and I am sure plenty of people are rattled. North Americans and Europeans deal with snow and blizzards every year, Kiwis deal with earthquakes

it north of Auckland .....

when I read this thoughts went immediately to a classic piece. A great blazer or jacket that he can wear for year, something that would look great with jeans or casual pants, and can be dressed up for something more business like or formal. Maybe a really good leather jacket. Maybe some great accessories like a Hermes belt or a great pair of handmade shoes. Depends on the guy and what you want to achieve with the gift. I do like the suggestions of sexy wear, maybe a nice harness or leather jock strap, sorry that’s my fetish thoughts coming to the fore

When i am holiday (think tropical) I normally get a massage at night, i prefer the oil or cream on my skin after a day in the sun. regardless of the HE or not!!! Most often its not with HE. At home it depends when I can fit a massage into my schedule. Being a shift worker, my schedule is all over the place, but some of my memorable massage and escort sessions have been mid morning to late morning. However saying that a great massage can happen at any time of the day or night, for the physical and emotional benefits

Worst job, for me it was during a summer off from University, working in a large bottle shop - the working conditions were pretty, bad, the colleagues were yobbos and management was woeful. It was closely matched by a job I had making appointments for an insurance sales man. Working alone in an office, making phone calls no one wanted to take. But then there was the one I had first week out of High school, working for a Life Insurance company, owned by the Govt, and I was placing a rubber stamp on the account cards, so the information could be captured as they were moving to a computer based system. 6 months later - and the system changed so i spent 2 months stamping cards for no purpose. I did however get paid good money and met some great people, one of whom I am still friends with today. Looking back on 45 years of employment, very few of the jobs I had were much fun, the people made them fun, and even today that’s true. Some of the people you work with are total ass holes - but the best job is the side gig I have, coaching people on how to lose weight, improve their health and lifestyle, while using clean products that are good for the environment as well . Looking back, I have never been without a job, and never taken govt assistance, and at age 60 have a reasonable amount to retire on, and own our own house and have no car loans, just a bit of credit card debt. So it has not been all bad

I had an incredible massage with a muscle bound Aussie who was living and working in Bangkok, on my last visit to Bangkok. He seemed to go all the way with regular clients, anyway, he asked in advance what i would like him to be wearing, i said a joke, so when he stripped off he had a well filled yellow laced jock on, and when it came to the HE moment for me, he suggested I feel his jock , he did not remove it, but I did shoot a memorable explosion

I always have to ask myself, is he into a foot fetish, or is he trying to communicate the correlation Between foot size and dick size ?

Yes it is the gay version of airbnb. There is certainly some cross posting, some people on airbnb see the advantage of advertising on a gay site, and vice versa. misterbandb does have a profile for each host, so its more personsable. I have had success finding great places to stay on Misterbandb but in my home country Australia but overseas as well

If you want it, can afford it , go for it. Life is too short for regrets. Having been to friends funerals (younger than my 60 years) I say live and let live. When I lived in the inner city, supermarket 1 block away bus and taxi’s at the doorstep, I did not own a car, but every few months I would rent a car to run errands or get out of town for the weekend sort of thing. Now that I live in the suburbs and work shift work, a car is essential. However sometimes we will rent a fun car for a weekend away, we justify that by having a hatchback for our regular car, which is great for local trips, awesome for parking and not very thirsty at the gas station, but not a lot of fun for a decent trip.

I always make a point of asking how payment can be made. Personally I prefer not to use cash, but if a provider requires cash, then cash it is. As someone use does not use cash during day to day regular living, I never have much cash on me, and going to an ATM (when you can find one these days) is always a pain the ass, but being prepared is what you need to do. To be honest the two cards I use the most, American Express and Visa Credit Card, are the only ones in my phone wallet, I have to find my regular wallet to find my ATM card. As for paying up front, on of my regulars asks for payment up front, he has that on his website, and I have never had an issue with it. He provides a great service and is honorable. I believe in doing my due diligence before hiring a new guy, with reviews on this site and associated sites, i sometimes send a PM to a reviewer asking for more details. If a new guy is well reviewed or has a substantial website like man2mansydney, or jamie21, there is little risk of a dud session even if you pay upfront.

His description is accurate, he is no oil painting but equally does not have the face of a smashed prawn. Does an excellent sensual massage, extremely tactile and sensual. Very personable, his massage room is covered in a decoupage of very attractive men .

I always enjoy the mind game of are they partially clothed or naked during a massage. i prefer the start wearing something, shorts or jock, or speedo, that then comes off at some stage.....

Having been a regular of man2mansydney for many years I can vouch for the reality of the pics and description

F**king is not chemical. - if he cannot manage that he should not be taking the $$

Wow , sorry that your much wanted experience was lacking. Yes you give an honest review. after all you did your research and relied on that . I know I do read reviews on sometimes on RM I will message a reviewer for more clarity. As gentlemen who hire, we owe our fellow gentlemen the respect of honest reviews. It is how we keep this industry honest

I love a cruise holiday, BUT with Covid - would you ? Got no control over cleanliness and infection control, cruise ships were a well known Petri dish for gastric virus’s the are perfect super spreader devices for Covid. Just my opinion coming from a concern to eradicate this virus