Bargara Leatherboy

I would be interested in this thread. I had a one night stand with an man in his 40’s when i was about 18 or 19. he said to me that I should experience the heat of a vagina even if I had to hire an escort - as its one of the great sexual experiences - his words …. I have started to consider hiring a trans man at age 60 to experience that sensation - and a trans man with a muscular chest and maybe a beard would be the only way it could do it. looking forward to hearing of other peoples experiences

Sex On Premises. So a bathhouse, an adult book store, a cruising club.

they exist is some of the SOP venues I have been too

Asia has many male brothels that operate as a massage business, once you have chosen your masseur, either from a photo or a line up, you go have your massage, most times it will be a HE - and normally you negotiate the tip during the massage. you normally pay the masseur for the extras and the business for the massage. I have experienced these in Bali, Singapore, KL, Hanoi and HCMC , Phenom Penh and Siem Reap, Bangkok. Some have a line up of a few boys others have 30 to choose from.

Sydney and Melbourne certainly had some, Melbourne has very modern laws about sex workers, they need to be licensed and can work independently. Sydney had a handful thru the 80’s and 90’s. Bretts Boys was the one that stood the test of time, did In calls and out calls, at various times there were other ones on the scene. More recently there were two, Delivery Boys which went out of business about 5 years ago, maybe more, and Knight Call as previously mentioned. Been around for many years, but only doing outcalls. With the internet and apps it must be difficult for those type of business’s to survive.

Often it is genetic, my sister and I are both big, we are both type 2, my brother has a very different body style, shorter thinner, and a BMI in range. Guess what ? He is also type 2 . My Dr has told me that my weight had no impact on my pancreas and how it produces insulin.

Not sure if buffet type all you can eat will be available post pandemic BUT There are several amazing ones that i can recommend. Bali Mulia Hotel Nusa Dua. Has a couple sunday brunch 1130am till 4 pm has lots of seafood among everything else. There are various drink packages avail The Sushi and Sashimi Buffett every night is pretty awesome too The St Regis Bali Has another amazing Sunday Brunch Buffet again different packages avail as does the Sofitel and other hotels scattered around the Island If Buffets dont exist anymore Tokyo Fish Market Bangkok or Koh Samui - seafood markets and restaurants Singapore has lots of amazing restaurant - dont get caught up at the tourist traps for Singapore chilli - find the places the locals go to Lots of places to explore

What a bunch of egotistical bs …….

It was a great night, I have awesome memories of it, and if the circumstances were all in place to make it happen again, I would go with it. I guess my one disappointment was that on his website he talks about kink and leather, but does not have any of that great gear with him in Asia where he lives permanently. I knew that going into the appointment but if i were to improve on the evening, some leather bondage and discipline would have taken it from 5 star to 6 star for me

I have been going to the same Eastern Suburbs of Sydney Hairdresser for about 12 years now. When I first made an appointment, i signed up to a first appointment deal on their website, a style consultation, a hair cut and colour, and some product. As part of the process, I met with his PA filled out a questionaire, left some personal contact details including my credit card details, (which would be charged if I cancelled an appointment with less than 24 hours, or was a no show. Every professional cannot afford to have no shows, I know that the credit card I used 12 years ago is different to the one I use today, but after 12 years of appointments at 5 weekly intervals there is no need for a no show penalty. Loyalty works both ways

Auckland is a bit like Sydney, once you get away from the harbour it’s just another city, hard to get around. The real gem of Auckland is the west coast black sand beaches of Piha and Buckells Beach, or the amazing gulf island of waiheke and Great Barrier, there are a couple of great villages, Parnell, Ponsonby and Devonport. Pre Covid Christchurch had a lot of flight options, there were daily director flights to Singapore on Singapore Airlines, Air NZ also had a one a few days a week, and some flights every week direct to Asia, (Tokyo, Osaka and maybe China,) driven by tourism so hopefully that will Return. Air Asia flew to KL for a while but it was not profitable

While i totally get how frustrating this is, I can tell you how frustrating it is from a client point of view when providers play the same game. Some of us are time poor, or due to our personal situations (partnered work etc) our window of opportunity to engage with a provider is limited. I recently had a gap come up due to being in the city to take part in a live tv show. I wanted to take advantage of the opportunity to see a provider. I contacted him by text and it took a while to get a response. He was at the gym doing a PT session with a client. I mentioned that i would like to see him for a couple of hours, starting at 1030p and that i would be off air until about 930pm. well it was more like 10pm when i got out of the tv studio, and made ctc by text asap, silence, i then tried to ring him, after about 10 mins he said sorry i got a massage appointment as i did not hear from you at 930, but he would be available from 1130p. I said that would be fine . At 1130 I was outside his address, texted that I was ready when he was, after about 10 mins he texted come up it is apartment number * on floor *. When he answered the door he apologised but I had to say that i understood as I had not honoured the time commitment. we went on to have a great time, he did say that the previous appointment was running late and then would not stop talking and he had to eventually say - you need to leave, as I have another booking. That would explain the guy who came out and got into the car parked in front of me, and smiled at me as he walked around the back of his car. Flexibility and a lack of attitude would go a long way to improving your business

My understanding of “guy code” or “gay code’ does not exist particularly when someone’s cock is getting hard or has the opportunity to get hard. Basically if a man wants sex he will get it whatever way he can, and integrity or decency does not come into it .

I have hired many times, normally for a couple of hours, sometimes those hours just flow into 3 or 4 or even 5. I have always allowed the provider to call the shots on that, if i pay for 2 hours and they watch the clock and wrap activities up around the 2 hours thats fine by me. I have had experiences where the time I have paid for is cut short, and I would never make that a repeat visit. I have had one overnight, I was going to Asia, and contacted a highly regarded international escort initially for a few hours. I sent a message via his contact details on his website, he responded lets chat which we did. So in the course of an hours messenger call, he upsold me to an overnight, based on value to me that would come from an overnight. Logistically he could not provide an in call, where I was staying was 2 hours away, so he requested to be paid for travel time, or suggested that we do an overnight, in his locality if i found somewhere to stay. Based on that the overnight made sense. I found a one bedroom villa with pool, in an amazing setting, big bedroom 4 poster bed, outdoor and indoor bathroom, big terrace, outdoor kitchen. He told me that during that time he expected to have 5 or 6 hours sleep. So we settled on an overnight starting at 8pm, we would eat dinner, play, sleep and play again in the morning. How it panned out, the venue was amazing, he was running late, but kept me updated, he arrived, we hugged and chatted. We had talked about my interests and preferences, and I had done my research and knew he like scotch and cigars, so I had organised some great scotch and some awesome cigars. we had a drink and chatted, organised for dinner to be delivered, had some exploratory play, dinner arrived, we ate, we moved onto a great play session, relaxed and romantic, we got up, the night was warm, we sat out on the terrace, naked, drank scotch, smoked cigars, i love the smell of cigars, and I like to suck while he is smoking a cigar. we ended up in bed again, played again, slept, woke up in the morning, had some play, he took a shower, we had coffee and chat and he left about 10am which is the 14 hours we had agreed on. I think the success of the evening comes down to expectations and communications, it cost me with tip and accomodation $1600, I normally hire in Sydney for a couple of hours and pay $600, my last session was the two hours we paid for then we sat and drank green tea for about an hour afterwards. I dont think overnights would become my standard hire, but i have great memories of that night and if the circumstances were the same again I would repeat it

Thanks for sharing your travel memories, I read these with so much pleasure, as travelling is one of my great loves, and during this Pandemic, its not possible. I Iive in Australia and our borders are closed, to travel you need a permit then you have issues getting home, as you have to do hotel quarantine for 14 days at your cost $3K. There are plenty of seats but the airlines are limited by the number of available slots for hotel quarantine. So no chance of me travelling. In 2020 we had 4 holidays booked 2 international and 2 domestic, we were only able to take one of those holidays due to international and state borders being closed. In 2021 we managed to get into Queensland from NSW, the borders are currently closed again, and we are on stay at home restrictions for 14 days, of which today is day 1, we have had to cancel a trip to Europe and meanwhile we are desperate to return to our holiday home in Bali to help out our staff. The future is out of my control

I live in an Apple World at home, but at work I have to use Windows and find it just a struggle. Everytime there is an upgrade there are new pathways to learn, with less and less education or guidelines to assist. I hot desk so I have a profile that follows me around, saving a document is easy, but where does it get stored, sometimes its on this computer, but the next time i am at work, I am at a different consult, so where is my document? As a consumer I would never purchase a Microsoft or Windows product from choice, surely this domination and dictatorial approach will have some commercial implications? Or is Microsoft so powerful it just does not care

I used to do a lot of recruitment, in a previous role. We always recruited in pairs, and I know that my bias would make an appearance, and i would defeat my bias by focusing on the interview, and making sure that the decision we were making was based on what was good for the company and my focus was always how can we make this candidate successful. I remember one interview here the candidate appeared to be a non starter when he walked in the room, i was interviewing with a colleague and we both pressed him for responses, and asked more probing questions to his inadequate responses. After the interview we both made extensive notes as to why he was not successful. i know when i moved to the public sector, and a panel had to be gender balanced, and always a third person from another govt department, I remember applying for a promotion, and not getting an interview. Only one applicant was interviewed, which is so not part of the policy. Should have interviewed someone who was not going to be any good to justify the promotion of the successful candidate. Needless to say she was never any good at the job, but amazing how someone can get ahead by brown nosing the boss or maybe giving him blowies under his desk. I would always endeavour to be very fair about how I interviewed , but your plan for your candidate may work, if she can interview well and has the background and experience for the role

As someone who has been large most of his life, I had a period where I walked a lot and swam a lot and was very trim, but that did not last. I feel good about myself , self love is important, but I also am smart enough to know its not attractive to some, and of course there are the health issues. The heaviest I got to was 320 pounds and currently i am slowly loosing and at 275 today. When i see a new provider I always send a description, in a email or text message, “I am a 60 year blonde bear 275 pounds looking for …..” and take it from there. If someone says does not work for me - I thank them for the honesty and move on. I have a couple of great providers who make me feel great, and we have a fun time exploring pleasure. I could go to a bathhouse, pay my $25 and wander around all night, maybe get lucky, maybe get rejected, maybe end up in a cubicle giving myself a hand job. Or I could spend $300-$600 with a provider and have a wonder couple of hours . A lesson there for providers who are looking to improve their business. I reflect back on an evening i spent in a gay B&B which was closing optional. I spent a couple of nights there, the middle night I was the only guest, the owners were out of town and they had a guy in who was looking after the place and me. We had chatted briefly when he arrived, i did not take much notice, i was swimming and sunbathing naked, had a walk on the property and a swim in the river that passed thru their property, i had a long relaxing outdoor shower, and thought nothing of it. I went into town in the late afternoon, had a walk on the beach and some dinner. When I returned the host offered me a glass of wine, and wanted to see a pic of my husband, so i grabbed my iPad and found one, he came and sat very close to me while looking at the pics. He then suggested a moonlight swim. I dived in first, he joined me and of course he was very handsy. We had a fun night, drank some wine, soaked in the hot tub, played, I particularly remember bending over the balcony as he ate my ass out. he told me that what attracted him to me, was the way I just showered that afternoon without any self consciousness. The really professional providers will see past your excess weight and will discover your inner sexiness and enjoy you as a sexual being and an interesting person

Billy Santoro started advertising on Rent Man in Sydney around Christmas 2020. He pinged in the next suburb to me, but said he was living in the CBD. The messages I had with him were pushy and not motivating me for a visits

I thought it was a very truthful representation of how it was ....... I will give away my age..... i remember Halston around on the scene in NYC.

As an Aussie with a holiday home in Bali, I am very frustrated with this, however I understand the reasons behind this policy. Australia is basically COVID Free, compared to the US UK EU and parts of Asia. I have many friends who were international Cabin Crew who no longer have jobs. From a domestic travel point of view, that is difficult too. We have experienced state borders being closed, Western Australia has been closed for a long time, the border between NSW and Victoria for approx 150 days, the NSW Queensland border was closed for what seemed like for ever. We are currently in Brisbane and heading further north by road today, a trip we tried to do last November and we are currently scoping our retirement home. Meanwhile Domestic tourism has taken off, Qantas is reporting heavier loads for domestic travel than ever before, and from my personal experience, the cost of accomodation has at least doubled due to demand. For the travel we had planned for 2020, we are currently sitting on credits in excess of $6K, the bulk of that credit is with an international airline (not Australian based) which is valid until December 2022, so hopefully that will be extended. Its never as simple as it seems

I certainly find Facebook to be homophobic. I think the issue is actually the people they use to manage the complaint process, I believe this is done in the Philipines and most Filos are Staunch Cathoics, so they see nil issue with someone calling me a pedophile because I identify as gay. So i cannot get those posts removed, but I get posts of mine removed for being critical of homophobia or homophobia hate.

To be honest I think you say nothing, it gets hard, the therapist has seen it all before and the therapist will guide the situation. Draping or focusing on another body area, or then you might get lucky and the therapist may indulge in some mutual fun

The use of language is a method of communication. Did the writer convey what they meant? Escort or Scott - I think we all know what the meaning is. While I support the use of high language, I find it impossible to maintain. I lived in a number of countries growing up, every time we moved it was a different schooling system, and there are some gaps in my education. Having said that I did get a graduate degree, ( I do have an essay with the comment, you use of language is 3rd rate journalise) and am employed as a communicator in emergency services. grammar and correct spelling is not that important when someone is having bullets fired at them, or someone is having a cardiac arrest. So Yes its great to maintain standards, but when the so called Grammar Police come out, I just find it a superior attitude looking down on the rest of us. The is not a positive experience except for the bully saying the words. I am sure I am being offensive here but - honesty is always good

Tried to log In Monday night in Australia and no find. Again during our Tuesday. Sinking feeling - its gone..... So happy to see it alive and well on wednesday morning Sydney time. Much appreciate the work you do for us all