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The best kind of spanking for me, is a gradual increase in intensity. starts with his bare hand, then his belt, paddle flogger I found an amazing guy in Melbourne, who mainly services straight woman, but does some gay clients as well. I booked a 2 hour session which ended up being about 5 hours, He came to my hotel suite, it was very relaxed, we had a drink and a chat, then he started working on me, as above, he must have dished out up to 1000 spanks in that time, and checked with me a few days later, no bruising, just warm hot tingling skin totally amazing I used to see a great Master in Sydney who gave amazing spankings, although the last one i had with him, he used a cane which he was very proud to have recently acquired, it was too intense for me. I have also seen a great guy in Brisbane several times, who was a master at spanking and flogging. My most recent hire in Sydney - a very hunky man , he used a riding crop, and that was too intense for me, so next time i see him it will not no riding crop. I don’t normally yelp but it did every time it hit me that night, and the bruising was intense, and lasted several weeks. Looking forward to Covid getting under control so I can enjoy some more hot spankings

Its an interesting concept. I think the only way I would really want to feel up a woman is to discover between her legs a nice hard cock and filled ball sack. However having said that I am kind of interested in trying out a trans man

I am 61 next week, i hope to be hiring hot men for the next 30-40 years

I had a session with Stephen Draker as part of my bucket list. I know of Stephen from this forum. Yes I know he was very rude and aggro to many members and hence got banned. I spent a long time searching for him before asking what had happened to him as his other online profiles disappeared about the same time. I then found out that he was banned from this forum ( a decision I wont enter into as I respect moderators need to do this) but I also discovered that he had retired from this industry. I still lust after him, but now he will only ever be in my wank fantasies and never a reality. Knowledge is power - and its good to know what has happened to people who used to contribute just my thoughts

You need to watch the last episode of series one of the White Lotus series. there a gay man takes a dump …. incredible television

My take on this that this is a marketing ploy. Thousands of people have booked flights from December, people are dreaming of a white Christmas with their extended families in Europe, or an Asian holiday, or spending NYE in Las Vegas. Meanwhile all those $$ or cashed in points are helping out the bottom line of Qantas. It will be a different story when the govt still has the borders closed at the end of the year, and QF has to do something but credits and dragging out the refund of $$ or points will happen. Its just magic accounting

Living on the outskirts of Sydney, anyone worthwhile is at least 50 Kilometers away - about an hour if the traffic flows. I normally combine a visit with a hot provider with another reason to travel. I have taken advantage of hiring when travelling,

My Australian Passport is due to expire in March 2022. For some reason I had it in my mind that it was March 2021. we had a trip to Bali rebooked last year, so we were hopefully to travel in November 2020, so it would need to be a new one for the 6 month validity. I asked last year at my local post office, where I have had a PO BOX for 20 years, I was told don’t renew it while the borders are shut, and you are a 2 year period after it expires to do the easy renewal process we normally do. Come March 2022. I think I might just get it done, so that when the borders do open up , I can use some of those million FF points I have and continue to earn. However having said that I would love to see a discounted rate based on the number of months or years that we have not been able to use our passports due to the restrictions on outbound and inbound travel from our country .

Sadly her marriage was all about power - as Erika said she could not access the books of the finances of her business. I just hope she gets out of this as unscathed as possible

Bizarre. My husband and I celebrated our 28th anniversary last week, we had a conversation about what we should do to celebrate our 30th, and Mykonos was mentioned. Hopefully we can travel by then …..

I would be interested in this thread. I had a one night stand with an man in his 40’s when i was about 18 or 19. he said to me that I should experience the heat of a vagina even if I had to hire an escort - as its one of the great sexual experiences - his words …. I have started to consider hiring a trans man at age 60 to experience that sensation - and a trans man with a muscular chest and maybe a beard would be the only way it could do it. looking forward to hearing of other peoples experiences

Sex On Premises. So a bathhouse, an adult book store, a cruising club.

they exist is some of the SOP venues I have been too

Asia has many male brothels that operate as a massage business, once you have chosen your masseur, either from a photo or a line up, you go have your massage, most times it will be a HE - and normally you negotiate the tip during the massage. you normally pay the masseur for the extras and the business for the massage. I have experienced these in Bali, Singapore, KL, Hanoi and HCMC , Phenom Penh and Siem Reap, Bangkok. Some have a line up of a few boys others have 30 to choose from.

Sydney and Melbourne certainly had some, Melbourne has very modern laws about sex workers, they need to be licensed and can work independently. Sydney had a handful thru the 80’s and 90’s. Bretts Boys was the one that stood the test of time, did In calls and out calls, at various times there were other ones on the scene. More recently there were two, Delivery Boys which went out of business about 5 years ago, maybe more, and Knight Call as previously mentioned. Been around for many years, but only doing outcalls. With the internet and apps it must be difficult for those type of business’s to survive.

Often it is genetic, my sister and I are both big, we are both type 2, my brother has a very different body style, shorter thinner, and a BMI in range. Guess what ? He is also type 2 . My Dr has told me that my weight had no impact on my pancreas and how it produces insulin.

Not sure if buffet type all you can eat will be available post pandemic BUT There are several amazing ones that i can recommend. Bali Mulia Hotel Nusa Dua. Has a couple sunday brunch 1130am till 4 pm has lots of seafood among everything else. There are various drink packages avail The Sushi and Sashimi Buffett every night is pretty awesome too The St Regis Bali Has another amazing Sunday Brunch Buffet again different packages avail as does the Sofitel and other hotels scattered around the Island If Buffets dont exist anymore Tokyo Fish Market Bangkok or Koh Samui - seafood markets and restaurants Singapore has lots of amazing restaurant - dont get caught up at the tourist traps for Singapore chilli - find the places the locals go to Lots of places to explore

What a bunch of egotistical bs …….

It was a great night, I have awesome memories of it, and if the circumstances were all in place to make it happen again, I would go with it. I guess my one disappointment was that on his website he talks about kink and leather, but does not have any of that great gear with him in Asia where he lives permanently. I knew that going into the appointment but if i were to improve on the evening, some leather bondage and discipline would have taken it from 5 star to 6 star for me

I have been going to the same Eastern Suburbs of Sydney Hairdresser for about 12 years now. When I first made an appointment, i signed up to a first appointment deal on their website, a style consultation, a hair cut and colour, and some product. As part of the process, I met with his PA filled out a questionaire, left some personal contact details including my credit card details, (which would be charged if I cancelled an appointment with less than 24 hours, or was a no show. Every professional cannot afford to have no shows, I know that the credit card I used 12 years ago is different to the one I use today, but after 12 years of appointments at 5 weekly intervals there is no need for a no show penalty. Loyalty works both ways

Auckland is a bit like Sydney, once you get away from the harbour it’s just another city, hard to get around. The real gem of Auckland is the west coast black sand beaches of Piha and Buckells Beach, or the amazing gulf island of waiheke and Great Barrier, there are a couple of great villages, Parnell, Ponsonby and Devonport. Pre Covid Christchurch had a lot of flight options, there were daily director flights to Singapore on Singapore Airlines, Air NZ also had a one a few days a week, and some flights every week direct to Asia, (Tokyo, Osaka and maybe China,) driven by tourism so hopefully that will Return. Air Asia flew to KL for a while but it was not profitable

While i totally get how frustrating this is, I can tell you how frustrating it is from a client point of view when providers play the same game. Some of us are time poor, or due to our personal situations (partnered work etc) our window of opportunity to engage with a provider is limited. I recently had a gap come up due to being in the city to take part in a live tv show. I wanted to take advantage of the opportunity to see a provider. I contacted him by text and it took a while to get a response. He was at the gym doing a PT session with a client. I mentioned that i would like to see him for a couple of hours, starting at 1030p and that i would be off air until about 930pm. well it was more like 10pm when i got out of the tv studio, and made ctc by text asap, silence, i then tried to ring him, after about 10 mins he said sorry i got a massage appointment as i did not hear from you at 930, but he would be available from 1130p. I said that would be fine . At 1130 I was outside his address, texted that I was ready when he was, after about 10 mins he texted come up it is apartment number * on floor *. When he answered the door he apologised but I had to say that i understood as I had not honoured the time commitment. we went on to have a great time, he did say that the previous appointment was running late and then would not stop talking and he had to eventually say - you need to leave, as I have another booking. That would explain the guy who came out and got into the car parked in front of me, and smiled at me as he walked around the back of his car. Flexibility and a lack of attitude would go a long way to improving your business

My understanding of “guy code” or “gay code’ does not exist particularly when someone’s cock is getting hard or has the opportunity to get hard. Basically if a man wants sex he will get it whatever way he can, and integrity or decency does not come into it .

I have hired many times, normally for a couple of hours, sometimes those hours just flow into 3 or 4 or even 5. I have always allowed the provider to call the shots on that, if i pay for 2 hours and they watch the clock and wrap activities up around the 2 hours thats fine by me. I have had experiences where the time I have paid for is cut short, and I would never make that a repeat visit. I have had one overnight, I was going to Asia, and contacted a highly regarded international escort initially for a few hours. I sent a message via his contact details on his website, he responded lets chat which we did. So in the course of an hours messenger call, he upsold me to an overnight, based on value to me that would come from an overnight. Logistically he could not provide an in call, where I was staying was 2 hours away, so he requested to be paid for travel time, or suggested that we do an overnight, in his locality if i found somewhere to stay. Based on that the overnight made sense. I found a one bedroom villa with pool, in an amazing setting, big bedroom 4 poster bed, outdoor and indoor bathroom, big terrace, outdoor kitchen. He told me that during that time he expected to have 5 or 6 hours sleep. So we settled on an overnight starting at 8pm, we would eat dinner, play, sleep and play again in the morning. How it panned out, the venue was amazing, he was running late, but kept me updated, he arrived, we hugged and chatted. We had talked about my interests and preferences, and I had done my research and knew he like scotch and cigars, so I had organised some great scotch and some awesome cigars. we had a drink and chatted, organised for dinner to be delivered, had some exploratory play, dinner arrived, we ate, we moved onto a great play session, relaxed and romantic, we got up, the night was warm, we sat out on the terrace, naked, drank scotch, smoked cigars, i love the smell of cigars, and I like to suck while he is smoking a cigar. we ended up in bed again, played again, slept, woke up in the morning, had some play, he took a shower, we had coffee and chat and he left about 10am which is the 14 hours we had agreed on. I think the success of the evening comes down to expectations and communications, it cost me with tip and accomodation $1600, I normally hire in Sydney for a couple of hours and pay $600, my last session was the two hours we paid for then we sat and drank green tea for about an hour afterwards. I dont think overnights would become my standard hire, but i have great memories of that night and if the circumstances were the same again I would repeat it

Thanks for sharing your travel memories, I read these with so much pleasure, as travelling is one of my great loves, and during this Pandemic, its not possible. I Iive in Australia and our borders are closed, to travel you need a permit then you have issues getting home, as you have to do hotel quarantine for 14 days at your cost $3K. There are plenty of seats but the airlines are limited by the number of available slots for hotel quarantine. So no chance of me travelling. In 2020 we had 4 holidays booked 2 international and 2 domestic, we were only able to take one of those holidays due to international and state borders being closed. In 2021 we managed to get into Queensland from NSW, the borders are currently closed again, and we are on stay at home restrictions for 14 days, of which today is day 1, we have had to cancel a trip to Europe and meanwhile we are desperate to return to our holiday home in Bali to help out our staff. The future is out of my control