Bargara Leatherboy

Ha ha - yes great advice - I left the avatar - I am flattered that you remember me - and yes I will add that in a signature

Hi fellow forum members, FYI I have changed my profile name - as my previous westernsyd represented the geography of where I lived, I have done a sea change and thought it was appropriate to change my user name - it now reflects where I live and my main fetish interest. Just thought I would mention this so alleviate any confusion

This is always a fascinating post I posted a number of years ago that I had a couple of gents on my bucket list, one was Stephen (well discussed on this forum and no longer active) and Legendary Dave was the other. Legendary Dave reached out to me and said we need to make it happen. We did make it happen and it was memorable. So my three are :- Legendary Dave - an unforgettable night in Bali Brother Hazy http://www.brisbaneprofessionalsir.com and there are a number of men who tie at number 3 Dave. https://man2mansydney.com Rick http://rentmen.eu/RickDraper/. who did an amazing three way with Jack http://rentmen.eu/JackCannon/ and provider who is not currently advertising http://rentmen.eu/tangolessons/.

Well as a client I have experienced this. I made an appointment with a very well reviewed provider - who had a very detailed website. we chatted on line - made an appointment, we spoke on the phone while I was driving there - to go over some details of what I was into. I knew the suburb he was in, and the directions were to meet him on a street corner at a certain time. He came out of his building - walked up the street to meet me, his website had a pic of him in a black business suit with block out sunglasses - he came out of the building wearing that image I started walking in his direction, he led me into his building via a carpark door - up the elevator and into his apartment . When I left after an amazing 2 hour session when I blew a big load 3 times - it was via the front door. the 2nd time was a little different, again a provider who I had seen advertising for a number of years. An older man advertising domination, discipline etc etc. We set up a time - on line - spoke about my interests etc. In his information on his website - he said that he was located in this location - and the details would be provided just before the session On the day I got told to attend a street corner and to phone him at the appointed time when I was in that location - to have the fee in my pants pocket ... So I looked up the address on google st view and came up with a couple of possible locations. When I got there, I was told to look around, locate the garage roller door - to lift the roller door - enter - lower the door - turn around and face the roller door - which I did. I then heard a door open, and footsteps, he came up behind me, took off my glasses, placed a blindfold around my head, and then lead me blindfolded into his playroom. He placed me against a wall , then mentioned not sure if I said but my partner/slave is here - he is a hot muscled Russian man would you be comfortable in him participating - of course I said yes He then had a convo with the partner/slave who entered the room, door was shut. I could see a little thru the bottom of the blind fold -the younger guy was 30's blond - muscled and very hot. He undressed me, then removed the fee from my pants pocket and we proceeded to play Wild - but worth it - during the session the blindfold came off - I got to watch the slave getting a good whipping which was hot - and we shared a coffee at the end of the session. Neither situations freaked me out - they were well handled and it all worked well.

As a client - I find RM works best for me. I was working shift work until recently, and any hire had to fit into my schedule and also had to be at a specific time when my husband was not aware of it. So I found that RM communication works best for me. I hear what providers are saying BUT this is a service industry and if your clients want RM messaging well thats where you should be. I have always been upfront in my first message, I am *** and *** and looking for *** and *** on *** are you able to assist? Happy to move it to personal messaging later if thats what we need to do. Just my input but the old adage that the customer is always right - well its not always true - but it has a ring about it

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time). I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry. someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation

I visited both PP and SR a few years ago. Both are amazing cities, the food is incredible, the markets great places to shop - and the gay scene is great. Awesome places to stay and great massages are avail. with happy endings I stayed at Mens in SR they have great tour guides and tuk tuk drivers Highly recommend a visit

My husband worked in the funeral industry for a number of years, and I got roped in to help out sometimes. It does take a special calling - you have to be great with people. Sadly here in Australia many of the family run companies are being bought out by a big American company called Invercare. They buy a business - then insist on the name remaining, so people think they are still family owned. It is just one big production line. Often the arranger who meets with you is not at the funeral service, so nothing seems to work . Its very poor customer service, but would work very well at keeping costs down and making profit

Yes it is technically rape - having worked in law enforcement - the issue is then how do you report it - and how do you get to press charges. Sadly often its not worth the trauma and drama to do so - so rapists then think they can get away with it

I prefer to visit - particularly in my home city where i play on the Down Low - its the only option. I like kinky fun so if the provider is set up for that, then it works so well ! Recently i was out of town, and the providers were reluctant to host. So I had a hot 2 sum in a Leather guesthouse - set up for that kind of play, the other gent came to my airBNB so that was nice and discrete and a good time was had by all. Hotel rooms normally work quite well for me

I have always had the philosophy of what I did and what the love of my life did before we met is irrelevant to our relationship. Some people are very judgemental about paying for sex, its wrong in my opinion. i prefer to hire and get what i want than standing around in a bar, or bathhouse and either settling for whats available or going home alone and horny

I don’t care - i pick up other clues about the provider, like reviews, and how they respond to an enquiry.

Wow amazing

News reports that I saw in Australia on Saturday November 20, some were about the rejigging of the Melbourne Tennis Centre, new updated courts and the addiction of a beach area where fans could watch the games on big screens, mention was made of the policy that all participants needed to be double vaccinated. Comment was made that it was not certain if Djokovic if attend, as up until now he had stated that his vaccination status was private. He would need to prove that he was double vaccinated to play. (the privacy claim seems to be double speak for no I have not had the jab) While I personally am cautious about big phama and am concerned about the vaccines, I have been double vaccinated as I was required by my employer to continue working. Having said that it seems that the vaccination does work for the vast majority, although I do know of a few people who have had medical concerns, from passing out to having seizures

Nothing like a good spanking session.

It is and he does a really good Just For Fans site as well

Saigon is the old name for Ho Chi Minh City, yes its still Saigon on the railway timetables and station, and many Vietnamese still call it Saigon

If the RTW cruise was like the leather cruise I went on one Mardi Gras - OMG I would love to do a RTW cruise but not at the moment. My cousin spent many weeks floating up the coast of South American in feb/March last year, when they were refused entry to many ports, the covid broke out on the ship courtesy of some new crew who came on in Punta Arenas, eventually she got to Fort Lauderdale and a police escort to the airport, a long 48 hr delay in SFO when United refused to carry any cruise passengers, and then 14 days quarantine in Melbourne before being able to get home to Sydney

I appreciate that its a downer but better to be aware of the possible implications of your actions

I can remember how good that felt BUT Vaseline is a petroleum based product so by using Vaseline you are allowing oil petroleum into your blood stream and this could cause health issues for you at some tage

Lots of products have toxic ingredients that cause reactions on your skin. It takes 20 seconds for a topical cream or substance to enter your blood stream so you need to be careful. Most people do not realise this until they have a reaction. I eliminated toxic ingredients in our home 12 years ago and we have never looked back. We use a brand that we trust, after doing a lot of research

Delicious

We always stay at the Intercontinental Park Lane, at Hyde Park Corner. It straddles Piccadilly, so the Queen is one of your neighbours (actually she was born in the house which was torn down to build the hotel), its in Mayfair and a hop step and a jump to Knightsbridge, with Hyde Park across the rd. Hyde Park underground station is right on the doorstep.

Mentoring works really successfully in every other industry, so it should work here too. I guess it comes down to the fact that everyone is self employed and possibly competing for clients so it does not happen

Living in Australia I have not been able to view the SLC housewives show. HOWEVER I have watched every episode of BH. Erika Gerardi has not been charged with anything, at worst she was a rich older mans wife, who was kept in the dark as far as what he was really doing at the office, and where the money came from. While Erika might come across as cold, she isn’t she is just very controlled. I doubt if she would protest her innocence if she wasn’t !! I find it bizarre that the US attitude is that the minute someone is associated with a crime or a moral breach is that person is judged as guilty, before the Westminster system of justice kicks in and make her innocent until the courts can prove she is guilty.