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I guess this comes down to honesty and how good the communication skills are. If partner A says I want an open relationship, Partner B says I could not stand the idea of someone else inside your butt, or I don’t want someone else’s lips on your cock, does Partner A agree to compromise, or does Partnear A move on. I know that when I entered my relationship at age 32, I would have opted for a monogamous relationship , yet at age 60 I know that If i played with a different man, it would not impact on how I feel about my husband of 27 years. However i know that my partner still believes that monogamy is the only way to go. So it all depends on how mature and open to discussion each partner is. In some cases that may end the relationship. However people change and sometimes years later you are not compatible. there is no definitive answer or solution. There will always be gay men who are stuck in relationships they are not happy in, just like heterosexual marriages and relationships. For whatever reason..... Personal choice reigns

The advantage is that you can design your relationship around what works for both of you. I know many gay couples who are strictly monogamous. I know many gay couples who are open. My views on open relationships is that your base has to be very secure to survive. For instance both of you would always default to each other, and that no jealousy exists. Some people manage this well, for others its an unhappy place. I have been with my husband for 27 years, we play to our strenghts. I manage all our finances, joint accounts and pay all the bills. I don’t make major decisions alone, we discuss them. I do all the shopping, I book our holidays etc, but again we have a discussion before i do that. My husband does 95% of the cooking, all the cleaning, laundry ironing etc, I do some yard work but he does most of it. He is my best friend and outside our home we are 100 %loyal to each other. Even if I did not agree with something my husband says or does I would always support him. I might tell him what I think when we get in the car or get home, but we have each other’s backs. One of the reason gay men will play away , is that sometimes couples have different interests sexually, a couple may have fantastic earth moving vanilla sex, but one partner likes leather for instance, the other does not. So the leather boy will go out to leather bars - or hook ups with leather boys and that’s cool. Again its up to you to discuss with your partner and make it work for you.

Street workers do exist, there are certain parts of our big cities where there are street workers. They tend to be cheaper and nastier than what you will find in legal brothels and people operating on their own either outcalls or i calls, which is legal. I work in a police emergency center, police dispatching and 911 calls, and we even get calls from customers who have been to brothels and not happy with the service provided. Yes the police do attend and sort the issues out.

A good looking man in a nice suit is very sexy - would be very happy to be seduced by a hot man in a suit - he could deal with me over his office desk

It depends on why they want it. If it is to choose if they want to go ahead with the hiring, I have mixed feelings about it, if it means you get a decline before the meeting rather than at the door its worth it. If it is to check your integrity or for security reasons i am fine with it. As an older gent I always say pretty honestly i am 60 old so tall this heavy and this is what i Want to happen - is that going to work for you.

Yep that is the link - thanks to Chad Constantine for sharing.

Sounds like a fantastic experience and a great memory. Would love to check out the video if you are cool with that

Check out Recon - there is a good article their at the moment explaining the processes

In australia we had two females who found love in the house with each other

You should blow a load 21 times a month to avoid prostrate cancer .....

Google is your friend.... i just search gay tour guide *city name* in Asia i search utopia-Asia on line and approach gay business’s which list their services

I can remember being taught about Sexually Transmitted Diseases when in Form 4 at high School. Grade 8 in the US system. We were shown some pictures similar to the one about about STI in the bum. I remember on of my peers saying to me when we left the film room, so you queers can catch it too. How times have changed

I now go to a health clinic where a podiatrist does my feet. Every 10 weeks. As a diabetic we need to keep a close eye on our feet. So my nails are trimmed, my feet’s are scrapped and cleared of hard skin, its $81 in Australia and my health insurance pays $30. It is safer than a nail place for hygience

The thought of trump involved in any sort of sexual activity revolts me - but he has I know. I hope I am never close enough to him so he cannot grab me on my pussy or any other bodily part

Yes still in sydney, I do remember that you live in Bali. This week I have just cancelled my second trip to Bali for this year. I am in daily contact with Balinese - so it is interesting what the truth really is. I am confident to travel to Bali during this situation, but as I cannot get an entry visa, nor an exit permit from Australia, there is not chance of that. I do see the videos of empty streets, and am helping Balinese families out with some rupiah. The sooner we get to travel again the better

There are plenty of “massage” places in Asia where you choose a service, 1 hr 2 hr 2 hands 4 hands etc then choose a boy from a line up and off to the treatment room. During the treatment the boy will offer you extras and you negotiate the extras and the price. I have had these experiences in Bali, Vietnam, Hanoi and HCMC, Cambodia, and in Thailand.

Spanking is that wonderful line between pleasure and pain ........

We are all judged, by others every day. It might be our gender, our sexual preference, our race, our politics, our religious views, or it could be our looks, our fashion choices, our food choices etc. i judge others by how they treat me. I treat everyone I meet as worthy until they prove otherwise

My pic is real, it was taken by me in my garden of a water Lilly I planted and nurtured !!! As I am not promoting my business here, nor am I using this pic to arrange meetings , I consider it a real pic !!! open to discussion

There are not many listing in Sydney who inspire me to hire at the moment !!!

why do people do anything ?

Not to mention the martial law of Mainland China

What type of experience are you looking for

awesome Dave fits that Bill

Sharing a cum filled kiss is all I want before we snuggle