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Thanks for sharing. Regardless of background we never know someone else's story until we find out. There may be a reason why someone comes across as unpleasant. Be The better person and reach out

Thinking about this, I am not racist. On the few occasions when I have Been in a bathhouse and had a great encounter with an Asian man, instead of that was fun thank you, you get I need your phone number, I want to see you again, can you buy me a house ? I have even had them wait outside and try and stalk me when I leave. Now I am not a hot stud so I know it's not my body they want. Of course not every Asian man acts like this, but this gives the majority who are decent people a bad name. Having said that I take everyone I meet on face value, I respect them, regardless if they are gay straight trans, white, Black, Asian, Latino, until they disrespect me. So how do I sum up, maybe if everyone can be unconditional in their respect , the world will be a nicer place. By all means if you are disrespected, treat accordingly, but let's be welcoming of all people, we have enough challenges in today's negative world, Without internal dramas about someone's racial background. Let's face it we had no choice about our sexual orientation, these guys had no choice about their racial or cultural background, let's not make them suffer a double whammy of prejudice.

Collingwood is certainly that team we all like to hate. For me the other one is Hawthorn , we seemed to clash with them in the finals during the late 80's . I used to follow the swans when I first came to Sydney, went to a lot of the games, do you remember the swantits? Drag cheer squad. Had a few riotous dinners at the Unicorn Hotel, with the swantits in one table verbally sparring ith Carlotta and Monique, who were about to do their Sunday night show. Now beng based out west my second team the Western Sydney Eagles.

Go Swannies!!! Car'n the mighty Blues. I am a member of Carlton Pride. .

Aussie Rules is the best football game ever, Fast paced and the players have the most awesome bodies.

Unprofessional but if they are unable to give me the best they can I would prefer a No its not going to work response.

His adds have been around in Sydney for a while but not seen any recently.

I read an article about travelling and how the majority in each race are attracted to their own ilk. It was about the expectation that as a Caucasian male travelling in Asia that not all Asian men chased white men. The stat was something like 10% of Asian men were attracted to non Asians. As a white male, of size and body hair, I know that some men find me attractive and some do not. In bath houses or bars I find some man attractive to me and equally in return. Sometimes it depends on the venue. This is often confused by the money boys who give us a false sense of how attractive we are Percieved as. More likely is they find our money attractive. When I am setting up a hiring meeting I always mention my basic description, similar to mid 50's large bear, some providers never respond, some say it won't work ( which is always preferable). Or go ahead and make the arrangements. Racism is different to sexual racism. Personally I find some Asians attractive, some Indians attractive, I am rarely attracted to African or Native American men, however that does not make me racist as I don't dislike those faces , I just don't find them sexually attractive. I am not a sexist man, but as a gay man I don't find woman sexually attractive but that does not make me anti feminism

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Having loved in non tipping countries most of my life, I see it as this. You either pay less up front and tip , or pay more up front and dont tip. Either way it costs the same. So we go to our local sushi train pay $45 for two, Thai $70 , macdonalds. $35 etc.

I was in Phenom Penh And Siam Reap in December 2014. I use Utopia-Asia.com as a good resource. I had a great massage in Pp. and a night at Arthur and Paul's In SR I stayed at Men's. Great massages. And the cruisy sauna was fun.

I have a rule, more than 4 hrs business class. Regularly do Sydney to Europe, prefer to fly in the am from Sydney, overnight in Singapore, then 9am out of Singapore to normally London , arriving at midnight Singapore time but 4pm in the UK, sleep on Uk time ready to go next morning. Coming home it's a late night departure from London or Frankfurt, late afternoon into Singapore, overnight, and a 7am flight home the next morning, arrival into Sydney about 8pm local time. Again sleep on local time ready to go next morning. even in Singapre Business I don't normally sleep so that works best for me. Won't be doing the non stop with a 4am arrival into London.

I used to work with Mel Gibsons brother, 1. He did not look like Mel. 2. He was one of us..... Mel did not approve.

Awesome - fabulous to see young actors making a huge contribution and role model to others.

Life is a series of rooms, this door has closed, open the next door and see what adventure is taking place tomorrow,for you.

Having traveled in Malaysia - there is a complete scene occuring there - and there seems to be little regulation or enforcement about whats going on. Having said that - if a hetro couple check into a hotel they normally are expected to show a marriage certificate - two men not even considered that they are doing anything unusual. I have taken several hook ups to my hotel room - in 5 star hotels - meet in lobby go up stairs - never had an issue Plenty of boys on all the usual apps = many of them are Money Boys

There are some shifts when I do not know the status of the moon - and I will say - gee its like a full moon tonight - and someone will say yes it is. In my job any shift can be a nightmare - but yes full moons do have specific volumes of mental health issues and domestic violence etc which is related to Mental Health concerns

I work in emergency services and YES it totally does

I have a couple of regulars who insist on payment up front. One states that very clearly on this website - he is a total professional and I have nil issue with that. Sometimes he asks for it, sometimes I offer it, we have a very brief confirmation about was that a 2 or 3 hr booking - I always pop the donation in an envelope - he hides it away somewhere and from what I have seen never checks the contents in my view. Another of my regulars - states in email before hand that the donation is to be folded notes in the right back pocket of my pants or jeans, normally what happens is he blindfolds me, restrains me, then invites his very hot slave boy into the scene- who undresses me, sometime later I can sense the slave taking my notes out of my folded pants. I normally ask when we are having a drink after our session - you got the donation. If I am having a gentlemen visit me in a hotel ( I never host at home) I will have the donation in an envelope with their name on it, on the desk where they can see it, most guys don't take it - they wait for me to give it to them at the end. I think payment up front is fine if its spoken about first - and the gentleman is a gentleman and has a good reputation. On the odd ocassion when I have paid upfront = without doing my due diligence the experience has been less than stella.

I travel to Bali often , and have been to many of the spa's, with some great experiences and some not so great. Lots of new places around at the moment. http://www.utopia-asia.com/balimasa.htm is a good reference. In November of 2017 I visited Adams Apple - had an amazing 90 minutes massage - for 400 000 Rupiah - about $40 AUD and tipped the masseur the same amount for the additional services, very interactive. I wanted a good massage - and certainly got that as well as the magic moments. I also visited Banana Spa -in their new location - yes you can go and sit in the cafe - have a swim - and a massage. had a great massage but not interactive at all, not sure if that was just the chemistry between us or not. 285 000 Rupiah . Previous years I have visited Coco Grand Spa on numerous ocasions and have a good interactive time. Antique has a good reputation but I have never attended. At all of the above you do get to choose your therapist. If you are on the apps - they will get very busy when you log in, fresh faces in town are always popular. Lots of MB or Money Boys - and if you got to the bars - they are full of money boys too. So enjoy. If anyone wants to PM me for direct questions happy to help out. I have been travelling to Bali for 20 years, and sometimes that will be 3 trips a year - and the shortest trip I have made is 14 nights, mostly they are 28 nights.

For those who are following along this is how it worked out :- Well it did not happen. when I had suggested the date - I was told that he was avail before 2pm or after 10pm - so I said after 10 works for me. so did not hear from Zayn - sent him a message at 330pm - are we still good for tonight - he replied I am if you are - so I replied with my phone number - and suggested he call or text me. He had logged out of Rentmen by 4pm. 10 pm I was showered and waiting in my hotel room - Having already mentioned which hotel, which was across the rd from where "map me" showed him as being. 1110pm - he said where and when I said at the ** hotel - what time suits you - he then logs off again at 2350 - he goes - got caught up at work - how about sometime in the next few hours or early hours in the morning I replied well early hours in the morning might work he logged off again - until 940am when he suggested 10am I logged out and did not reply SO not sure what to make of that Maybe he was working on a project and got caught up - maybe he is escorting on the side But i was cranky as I had given up on a couple of other guys - and a few grindr dates as I had made what I thought was a commitment to spending time with Zayn. Anyhow a buddy I know thru this network - managed to get a meeting happen (there was a couple of attempts) and said that it was a fabulous experience and well worthwhile for him.

Adams Apple Spa is my fav . Jl BatunBelig.

Totally disrespectful

I want the time that I booked for and PAID for!!!! I make the effort to be on time - and expect to leave either on time or after time. I rarely need to shower - 1. because I shower before the appointment 2. I prefer to keep the oil on my skin for the maximum benefit. I can cum pretty fast sometimes - so its really annoying when the HE happens and they do not know what to do with the rest of the time. I booked a 90 mins session with a new guy, and that happened - so we finished up - but he only processed my credit card for the hour - which I noticed the next day. I have been back many times - and he knows not to use lube on that part. If the HE happens and there is still 10 mins or more- a facial massage or a relaxing shoulder massage is the way to go. I had a hot man and he said he did not know what else to do after the HE - he offered to refund the difference between the 90 mins and the 60 mins but I said no its ok. Never been back. Its the journey not the destination for me. If I had a fantasic massage sensual - and no HE I would still be happy. Maybe the key is to communicate. BUT if you give me the time I pay for regardless of the HE or when the HE happens I will return many times. Cheat me on time or finish after an early HE - and it will be a one time appointment. Hope this helps those budding masseurs out there who want to turn their average business into a fully booked with a waiting list business

wearing underwear during a massage does restrict the flow of movement - those sweeping moves from knee to waist etc however in legitimate spas I have kept mine on - and its a different experience often in asia when i just want a massage - the local massage joint with mainly females (no happy endings offered) are just that - strip down to your underwear - often they will give u a very nasty plastic g string to wear - i prefer to wear my own underwear