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Cambodia - any recommendations?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to musclelover's topic in Africa/Asia/Australia
I was in Phenom Penh And Siam Reap in December 2014. I use Utopia-Asia.com as a good resource. I had a great massage in Pp. and a night at Arthur and Paul's In SR I stayed at Men's. Great massages. And the cruisy sauna was fun. -
I have a rule, more than 4 hrs business class. Regularly do Sydney to Europe, prefer to fly in the am from Sydney, overnight in Singapore, then 9am out of Singapore to normally London , arriving at midnight Singapore time but 4pm in the UK, sleep on Uk time ready to go next morning. Coming home it's a late night departure from London or Frankfurt, late afternoon into Singapore, overnight, and a 7am flight home the next morning, arrival into Sydney about 8pm local time. Again sleep on local time ready to go next morning. even in Singapre Business I don't normally sleep so that works best for me. Won't be doing the non stop with a 4am arrival into London.
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411 on this guy: 6' 220 lbs of Power and Healing
Bargara Leatherboy replied to Hey_Jay's topic in Spas & Masseurs
I used to work with Mel Gibsons brother, 1. He did not look like Mel. 2. He was one of us..... Mel did not approve. -
Jim Parsons to be honored by GLAAD next month
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + Avalon's topic in Comedy & Tragedy
Awesome - fabulous to see young actors making a huge contribution and role model to others. -
Roommate moving. Should I feel something?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to gallahadesquire's topic in The Lounge
Life is a series of rooms, this door has closed, open the next door and see what adventure is taking place tomorrow,for you. -
Musclemen Spa Shah Alam Malaysia
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + g56whiz's topic in Africa/Asia/Australia
Having traveled in Malaysia - there is a complete scene occuring there - and there seems to be little regulation or enforcement about whats going on. Having said that - if a hetro couple check into a hotel they normally are expected to show a marriage certificate - two men not even considered that they are doing anything unusual. I have taken several hook ups to my hotel room - in 5 star hotels - meet in lobby go up stairs - never had an issue Plenty of boys on all the usual apps = many of them are Money Boys -
Do You Think The Full Moon Affects People?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + Avalon's topic in The Lounge
There are some shifts when I do not know the status of the moon - and I will say - gee its like a full moon tonight - and someone will say yes it is. In my job any shift can be a nightmare - but yes full moons do have specific volumes of mental health issues and domestic violence etc which is related to Mental Health concerns -
Do You Think The Full Moon Affects People?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + Avalon's topic in The Lounge
I work in emergency services and YES it totally does -
What do you do when he wants payment upfront?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to InterestingGuy's topic in The Deli
I have a couple of regulars who insist on payment up front. One states that very clearly on this website - he is a total professional and I have nil issue with that. Sometimes he asks for it, sometimes I offer it, we have a very brief confirmation about was that a 2 or 3 hr booking - I always pop the donation in an envelope - he hides it away somewhere and from what I have seen never checks the contents in my view. Another of my regulars - states in email before hand that the donation is to be folded notes in the right back pocket of my pants or jeans, normally what happens is he blindfolds me, restrains me, then invites his very hot slave boy into the scene- who undresses me, sometime later I can sense the slave taking my notes out of my folded pants. I normally ask when we are having a drink after our session - you got the donation. If I am having a gentlemen visit me in a hotel ( I never host at home) I will have the donation in an envelope with their name on it, on the desk where they can see it, most guys don't take it - they wait for me to give it to them at the end. I think payment up front is fine if its spoken about first - and the gentleman is a gentleman and has a good reputation. On the odd ocassion when I have paid upfront = without doing my due diligence the experience has been less than stella. -
I travel to Bali often , and have been to many of the spa's, with some great experiences and some not so great. Lots of new places around at the moment. http://www.utopia-asia.com/balimasa.htm is a good reference. In November of 2017 I visited Adams Apple - had an amazing 90 minutes massage - for 400 000 Rupiah - about $40 AUD and tipped the masseur the same amount for the additional services, very interactive. I wanted a good massage - and certainly got that as well as the magic moments. I also visited Banana Spa -in their new location - yes you can go and sit in the cafe - have a swim - and a massage. had a great massage but not interactive at all, not sure if that was just the chemistry between us or not. 285 000 Rupiah . Previous years I have visited Coco Grand Spa on numerous ocasions and have a good interactive time. Antique has a good reputation but I have never attended. At all of the above you do get to choose your therapist. If you are on the apps - they will get very busy when you log in, fresh faces in town are always popular. Lots of MB or Money Boys - and if you got to the bars - they are full of money boys too. So enjoy. If anyone wants to PM me for direct questions happy to help out. I have been travelling to Bali for 20 years, and sometimes that will be 3 trips a year - and the shortest trip I have made is 14 nights, mostly they are 28 nights.
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For those who are following along this is how it worked out :- Well it did not happen. when I had suggested the date - I was told that he was avail before 2pm or after 10pm - so I said after 10 works for me. so did not hear from Zayn - sent him a message at 330pm - are we still good for tonight - he replied I am if you are - so I replied with my phone number - and suggested he call or text me. He had logged out of Rentmen by 4pm. 10 pm I was showered and waiting in my hotel room - Having already mentioned which hotel, which was across the rd from where "map me" showed him as being. 1110pm - he said where and when I said at the ** hotel - what time suits you - he then logs off again at 2350 - he goes - got caught up at work - how about sometime in the next few hours or early hours in the morning I replied well early hours in the morning might work he logged off again - until 940am when he suggested 10am I logged out and did not reply SO not sure what to make of that Maybe he was working on a project and got caught up - maybe he is escorting on the side But i was cranky as I had given up on a couple of other guys - and a few grindr dates as I had made what I thought was a commitment to spending time with Zayn. Anyhow a buddy I know thru this network - managed to get a meeting happen (there was a couple of attempts) and said that it was a fabulous experience and well worthwhile for him.
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Adams Apple Spa is my fav . Jl BatunBelig.
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Totally disrespectful
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I want the time that I booked for and PAID for!!!! I make the effort to be on time - and expect to leave either on time or after time. I rarely need to shower - 1. because I shower before the appointment 2. I prefer to keep the oil on my skin for the maximum benefit. I can cum pretty fast sometimes - so its really annoying when the HE happens and they do not know what to do with the rest of the time. I booked a 90 mins session with a new guy, and that happened - so we finished up - but he only processed my credit card for the hour - which I noticed the next day. I have been back many times - and he knows not to use lube on that part. If the HE happens and there is still 10 mins or more- a facial massage or a relaxing shoulder massage is the way to go. I had a hot man and he said he did not know what else to do after the HE - he offered to refund the difference between the 90 mins and the 60 mins but I said no its ok. Never been back. Its the journey not the destination for me. If I had a fantasic massage sensual - and no HE I would still be happy. Maybe the key is to communicate. BUT if you give me the time I pay for regardless of the HE or when the HE happens I will return many times. Cheat me on time or finish after an early HE - and it will be a one time appointment. Hope this helps those budding masseurs out there who want to turn their average business into a fully booked with a waiting list business
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Have you ever not stripped naked when receiving a massage?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + 7829V's topic in Spas & Masseurs
wearing underwear during a massage does restrict the flow of movement - those sweeping moves from knee to waist etc however in legitimate spas I have kept mine on - and its a different experience often in asia when i just want a massage - the local massage joint with mainly females (no happy endings offered) are just that - strip down to your underwear - often they will give u a very nasty plastic g string to wear - i prefer to wear my own underwear -
Question about private-message etiquette here
Bargara Leatherboy replied to NYCguy10011's topic in The Lounge
Carpe Diem (seize the moment) send the PM - just be honest and polite - and the rest is up to the recipient. -
Ease and simplicity - and at the end of the day the promise of a good time on your terms. I like kink - so often its safer to negotiate with a professional than run the risk with a hook up. There is a large amount of trust given out when you allow someone to tie you up and take to you with a flogger. It has to be with someone you trust.
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I have not had a flu or a cold for at least 10 years. I do get that run down feeling and take the most amazing herbal supplement when I do. Within 12 hours I am on top of the world again. Flu shots are bunk in my opinion.
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Indonesia declares homosexuality a 'mental disorder'
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + Avalon's topic in The Lounge
While I certainly deplore this action - its interesting. I spend quite a bit of time in Indonesia and find it to be a very moderate society. However there are pockets of Indonesia like Banda Aceh which are very strict Muslim and follow Sharia Law. I spend most of my Indonesian time in Bali which is an island with 90% of the population as Hindu - the rest is a mix of Christian and Muslim. Indonesia is a total double standard, in Bali there are gay bars, gay massage venues, gay saunas, and certainly lots of men looking for sex online - how many are gay and how many are just maybe gay for pay I don't know. I do know that most Balinese gay men either live in the closet and get married to solve the family pressure situation - or move to Jakarta and live pretty open lives. In Bali most of the gay men you meet are from somewhere else, Sumatra, Java or Papua. They are doing the same as their Balinese brothers - escaping family and living a more honest lifestyle. Some are working in the sex industy - others in hospitality. Be interesting to see where this leads ... -
Thanks BluDay , and rvwnsd for sharing.
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What Advice Would You Give To A Guy With A Small Dick?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to + Avalon's topic in The Lounge
If a small dicked man is well skilled who cares. I met a men in the West Side Club in NYC way back in the early 90's who was tiny and statues tiny, but he was excellent in bed. Passionate .... I met a reluctant partner one night at Kens a bathhouse in Sydney ( now closed) bak in the 90's , he was reluctant to remove his towel, eventually he did I went down on him very small. But he was a grower. Soon I was choking on him.. Most of the men in the bathhouse would have Been smaller when he was erect . -
What do escorts do after retiring?
Bargara Leatherboy replied to Walker1's topic in Questions About Hiring
I am 57 and rarely look at a provider under 30 years old. My fav go to guys are in their 40's and they are amazing . A 70 yr old who knows how to work a bod would still get hired by me -
https://rent.men/ZaynRivers/ I noticed that Zayn will be in my area soon - he looks hot - anyone got any experiences with him. No reviews on Daddys - a couple of positive ones on Rentmen Thanks in Advance
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https://rent.men/ZaynRivers/ Guys I noticed that Zayn will be travelling in my area soon, and he looks hot. Can anyone share this - no reviews on Daddys - just a few good ones on RentMen. Thanks in Advance
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Atlantis cruise - "drugs on the party boat were plentiful"
Bargara Leatherboy replied to MiamiLooker's topic in The Lounge
It will only be a magnet for police attention - i know that in Sydney the drug dogs often make an appearance at gay events to sniff out drugs - and the cruise terminal is no different when they think they will catch a bunch of gays with drugs
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