Justsomedude05

I beg my providers to eat their ass after each session. 😋🍑 I won't schedule a session otherwise. Too addicting

Speaking from experience, his content is pretty phenomenal. You can find him on X. I thought he was straight so I am surprised to hear that he tops. Definitely going on the wishlist haha. 

He told me he's going to be coming and going from DC for the foreseeable future, but here for a month or so at a time. He seems pretty good about keeping his advert current about his whereabouts so keep checking it to see if he'll be here when you're here.  Glad to respond to PMs

That sounds about right, wsc. Figuring I could choke down only about $400 worth. 

If that thing is real, which it looks like it is, and if he can get it up, it is just waaaaaay too big for me.  Anyone who attempts taking that is my HERO.
Seriously!

Yes, that balance is critical. I provide limited initial information (lest I inadvertently text to a Sunday school teacher or an idle ICE agent) and once I confirm their identity, I’m a little more forthcoming. I make my choices based on what they reveal in their ad and don’t feel the need for a detailed pre-event questionnaire. If I’m pleased with the encounter, I’m likely to return, if not, I chalk it up to experience and move on. Many providers are inundated with client queries and have little patience for ongoing dialogs. So far, this approach has worked well for me. 

The client flaked.
Thats what went wrong. 

It’s unfortunate but so many potential clients are just fishing for pics or sex chat with no or little intention to book. It makes one wary of engaging in too much back and forth to build a rapport. Plus there’s the time issue, how much time am I going to invest in a chat where someone is needing to be persuaded to book. Very little because those guys are usually flaky, they’ll book but then cancel nearer the time or even no show. So it’s not worth too much time to engage. Best approach is as someone said earlier ‘hi I’d like to book a session at 3 on Wednesday etc’. That will get a positive response. You can the ask any follow up questions. The best clients (those that get responses) have done their research and decided to book. It’s just a question of details after that. 

In my experience:
Sometimes, RM chat has a weird thing that clears out everything you’ve been previously typing.
More importantly, lengthy convos are things that some time-wasters jack off to. 
 
Providers want to have signs that a paid meeting will occur, and that you are not taking advantage of their time for free. I see warnings in bios now too: providers are tired of being  contacted by of scammers, free-jerkers, and time wasters on the site . 
 
Once you meet with them, they could indeed become more verbose. 

I saw a guys profile the other day and he gave advice as to how to reach out and I thought it was fantastic - Short, simple, polite, and serious!
Hello, my name is (Desired name) 
I’m in (Desired City) and i would like to get together with you (Desired date and time) 
I’m interested in ( Desired information)
I can almost guarantee that you will get a good reply if you use this template with a solid provider. I think a good general rule is = you get the same energy back you put into the message.

Very common and frustrating.  I move on if nothing improves on the second message.  There are many choices and many are happy to interact with you.

I met him a year ago. He was my first hire and my first experience with a man!! He was very patient and kind! 

That’s not quite true though is it. The guys requiring a face pic are choosing you. These guys aren’t really escorts; they’re guys who have discovered they can monetise their sex life. Is that going to be a fun session? 

Would you call a restaurant with a dress code unprofessional? You only see this as unprofessional because you're miffed you aren't being let in to the restaurant, not because the practice is actually unprofessional. We aren't owed service, even in this industry, and businesses have the right to refuse service to whomever. Just go to a different restaurant without a dress code. The ones that have been around longer than 18-24 years usually don't have one.

Do I sense a dead horse being beaten?

While that's true, just based on your comment I assumed there were no photos in the ad other than dick shots and that there was no text indicating anything about the service being provided.  Neither of those is true, so I'm puzzled why you posted what you did.

I saw him last Saturday for a 90 minute massage. It was EXCELLENT. He was fully committed and knew exactly what he was doing,and was engaged and friendly throughout. Afterwards, he made me a cup of ginger tea and we chatted about various things for about twenty minutes. Loved it!

long, long history behind the "DaddysReviews".......
I'm no expert, but for those new or curious:     the near-daily posting of reviews submitted by forum members who had met with providers goes way back to early "Hooboy" days (about 1999-2000).....Hooboy was the founder of the discussion forum (and review page) which is now called COM.......he evidently constantly traveled the world, often losing his laptop, and was obsessed with getting the daily reviews posted on time....... Hooboy suddenly died about 2006 (?) and, after estate squabbles and dispute between his then-assistants, "Daddy" emerged as the sole operator of the old Hooboy forum and reviews.......Daddy also was very dedicated to getting the daily reviews, now under the domain name daddysreviews dot com, out on time and greatly allowed the providers to have the last word in the event of a dispute.......all thru the late 2000s and 2010s, the near-daily reviews (usually about five or so each day) were a much-anticipated read for many forum members, if only for entertainment value and occasional  juicy negative reviews with related occasional response from a provider......both well-known providers and new ones were included.....Daddy was pretty strict with vetting the entire process and occasionally bemoaned the time it took.....fake reviewers and crooked providers were publicly shamed by Daddy when appropriate.......some reviewers loved to practice their flowery romance-novel writing skills and others were to-the-point and very professional.......it was easy to submit reviews of a provider-client meeting and it was all very fun and entertaining.....
Daddy died in 2021 and there was much angst among forum members about how the forum, always very friendly and "community", and reviews would continue....Daddy held very tight control over the entire operation and nobody knew his passwords, etc......the daily reviews, of course, ceased and the forum was eventually rescued by hard-working @RadioRob, who came out of nowhere suddenly one day and announced, "I have this"......after much exchanging of email addresses and phone numbers by members who feared the worst, a collective "whew!!" was heard across the forum......
but the daily reviews are a labor-intensive endeavor........hours of work and I assume that's why they haven't been resurrected.......plus liability, disputes, what-have-you are not inviting concerns to face......setting up a new and clean review-submission process would be a colossal chore even if daily updating was eliminated.......a new review site has been discussed by forum operators, but I certainly understand its delay........   

I see Keenan Smith from Maryland and RickP from NY from the old review site are still advertising on Rentmen. Bozo has met both of them - many, many years ago. Nice guys, both gay, and both are/were COM contributors.
Also, both are MAJOR age shavers. Their claims to be in their mid-30's are truly comical. They are both approaching 50. But hey, if there's a market out there for that..... the more power to them!
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20% retention rate isn’t bad. You’ve only been going a year, needs longer. It takes ages to build a regular client base.
You say you use a script post session. I wouldn’t do that. A script feels like a hard sell. Have a few messages you’d like to get over but do it in a personal way that is tuned towards the client. You need to get to know them at a more personal level. My guess is they feel ‘sold to’ and massage (whatever the style) is a very personal one to one service. Make it so they feel you see them as a whole person not another client. Contact them after the session to see how the session improved their pain (tell them you’ll do a follow up call in a week or so and are they ok with that?). You’ll get re bookings on those calls (but don’t force it). 
Also I think offering a one hour session is a good idea. People want to try you out before committing to a longer session. You could do the 1 hour and then offer the next 90m at a reduced rate. That reduces the barrier of the unknown for them and gives them the full experience at a reduced cost. Once you build in them the habit of coming back they’ll come back more. 
Business courses aren’t the place to learn this stuff. Learn it by doing. Ask the 20% of customers who do come back why they do so. Ask all your customers how they found you and what made them book. Listen to your customers. The answers are there , not in a business course. That would be a waste of money and time. 
Basically the number one rule is know who your customer is, understand what they want, and give it to them in a way that is satisfying but leaves space for more. In everything think of your customer first. You don’t go wrong if you think about who they are and what they want. Oh and whilst you’ll get great advice on business on here from successful providers (☺️) your client base is unlikely to be on here….
 
 

Is up to the Judge, the jury, and legal scholars to decide what's admissible as evidence or not. 
May I remind you he comes from a rich family and he's also white and handsome. I still think he'll be convicted and I think he's also a terrorist because he killed for a "political cause". 
I know... you and me usually don't agree much 😂 

And we agree!
Sadly, neither the cold-blooded murderer Mangione nor his wild-eyed supporters have a moral compass.
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The point is economics.  Have you considered that your expectations about free or cheap travel time may not be reasonable?  And the cost involved in travel is higher than you think.  Do the math.  Or just keep complaining about it. Whatever makes you happy.

The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson. Absolutely incredible book. 

The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson. Absolutely incredible book.