maninsoma

I'm the one who posted in the other thread that I thought he might have lived in San Francisco a decade ago, escorting under the name Grayson. I just looked at the current ad under the Jaime name and these photos are definitely not of the same person I met as Grayson, so either that previous ad featured someone else's photos, BoyJaime was not formerly BoyGrayson or I was simply mistaken when I wrote my previous post.

Please don't post pictures of children!

Already two active threads here on this. Maybe an admin can merge them into one?

It's nice to be "grandfathered in" to a rate, but I don't begrudge someone needing to increase his rates over time. What I don't understand is someone thinking his client base will automatically be comfortable with a 20 or 25% increase. I've never received a pay raise anywhere close to that percentage; only when I've changed jobs has my salary increated that much at one time. For the extremely well off, it might not matter whether the rate increase is $50 or more per hour. For many of us, that may move a provider too far away from what we can justify spending on this activity.

Interesting articles -- thanks for posting the links. I guess I was under a similar impression as Mr. Higgins -- I thought that pornography had a greater legal status in the United States by the late 1970s.

I am not sure whether this is the same Amir. The men look quite similar, but none of the photos overlap: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-amir.127121/

When I was in college, I had a dentist who was super hot. I loved being in his chair and having him put his fingers in my mouth. I was surprised when I saw him on my front porch one day; turns out he was dating a woman in the apartment upstairs. My current dentist is also quite handsome...and gay.

I basically typed a response very similar to yours but then erased it when I realized you already made the points I had. I feel it's fair to point out, though, that "europeanman" isn't the person who started this thread so I wouldn't avoid making suggestions for the OP just because someone else decided to come here and make snide comments about men in their late thirties to early fifties as if that age group is "elderly."

Unless someone decides to escort just short term (or is really just looking to make a quick buck by overpromising and underdelivering), I've never understood the otherwise above average guys I've met who just seem to lack any ability to engage on a personal level. I'm not necessarily talking about doing things off the clock but rather just being engaged as a normal human being would if the situation was non-sexual. I'm sure there are a multitude of reasons why an escort would choose to come across as distant (or maybe he's just that way 24/7), but there's a reason why a very small percentage of the guys I hired were hired more than once and an even smaller number of guys were hired more than five times. If it's just mechanical, then I might as well roll the dice and choose someone new every time.

Who has changed his name? This thread, originally asking about Max, has morphed into a discussion about several different providers.

Who is "he?" This thread was originally about Max and then people have mentioned others - Karl Kang, WillSF (who is now in LA, I think), Chad, and Alextravelerxx. I assume you were referring to the latter given the context, but then the subsequent conversation of "Bumping..he's currently in NYC" and "Changing names...never a good sign" makes me feel like we need more specificity as to who is being discussed now.

I'm not sure who the performers are, but that's clearly a Chaos Men porn scene with the opening and closing credits cut off.

His Rentmen ad is now https://rentmen.eu/xMrL Still no one who has first-hand experience?

It's a porn scene. That bottom has been in many other scenes (I cannot recall his name off the top of my head), so I doubt he's finding the ass play painful. The studio that produced that scene seems to have a fetish for dad/son role playing, so I assume the bottom acting like it's the first time he got fucked was all scripted to fit that fantasy. If he was in pain while filming, then he needs to find another line of work. I surely wouldn't be in pain if Myles Landon fucked me.

If there are any sexy "influencers" near me who want to invite me to watch them receive the sun's energy, I'll be more than happy to watch them spread their legs up in the air. The video was taken from the wrong angle.

I've been guilty of taking the plunge without asking many questions. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. As to the "boyfriend experience," I saw an ad recently that did not include any mention of kissing, oral or anal. For that matter, it didn't seem like the guy was willing to do much of anything since he did select a few categories (one of them "muscle"). I surmised that the guy really just wanted to be paid and admired. Maybe some guys want a "boyfriend" like that, but I generally would expect a lot more than that from a boyfriend.

I hired Rainer just a couple of times, around 8 years ago. I will say this: He's one of the most handsome men I've ever been with. I was immediately smitten when I walked into the apartment he was working out of. Such a handsome face, sexy eyes, and nicely muscled physique.

The top 3 in my life probably all cracked 100. One of those was an escort. The rest of the top 10 also has a few escorts, but the most times I've seen any other escort is probably closer to 20.

Maybe there are still venues that working guys frequent (not sure about that, but there are obviously still lots of gay bars in San Francisco), but for all intents and purposes the internet changed not just the commercial scene but also cruising in general. Even lots of guys who still go out to bars are cruising on an app while they are out.

All I can say is this: The area around Polk between, say, Sutter and California is not what it once was. Gone are most of the gay bars, including the ones frequented by the type of guy you mention. And -- this is a good thing, at least in my opinion -- I don't see street "trade" that once was common in the area (typically very young, desperate looking men).

I have never been asked this question at my private physician's office, either. I'm guessing that a public clinic might have this as one of their questions simply to try to help people who are engaged in sex-for-money who don't really want to be in that position. Particularly for the provider, some people might feel pressured to take risks they don't want to. If I were at such a clinic, though, there is no way I would provide an honest answer to that question since paying or getting paid is not a risk factor in and of itself and I don't trust that that information would remain confidential.

A couple of things may be at work, similar to what I see when I travel to Mexico: 1. There are a lot of listings for guys who are visiting Bangkok. I think guys who are traveling versus the local talent typically look to get the same fee they get back home. That may work for some guys like porn "stars," but for a more average guy I wonder how much of a market there is abroad for a higher-priced import versus the local talent. 2. Guys ask for more online than the guys you can meet in person. One of my least expensive but most superlative hires ever was a fantastically sexy young man in Puerto Vallarta. For a little over $100 he spent around 90 minutes with me and we did everything I wanted to, including having some pillow talk at the end of our time together. The guys online -- all less attractive to me than this guy, whom I met at a local strip club -- were all asking for much more. Less stunning guys were asking for even less when I was approached by them on the beach or in a bar.

If by "loving his stats" that includes his purported age, then think again. Those pictures are probably as old as the day I first started hiring regularly, which was nearly 20 years ago.

Relaxing massage but ultimately not therapeutic or particularly erotic for me.

I don't think so. The original "nut in my butt" headline sounds like he's sitting on the client's bare cock until the client ejaculates. I don't know whether he decided to change that to simply BB (which, of course, could simply be interpreted as bodybuilder) or whether the guys running rentmasseur forced him to remove the explicit headline, but I don't see any other interpretation for "nut in my butt." Then again, given the low price for that location for that level of interaction, maybe it's just a false advertisement. One of the worst guys I ever hired had a very long ad which went beyond suggestive; the massage was him fully clothed with nothing erotic about it.