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On 11/23/2022 at 1:02 PM, tennisjock said:

You’re not looking for sex but you want a HE? I am confused 

My massage history suggests if both of you are neeked (or the provider is stripped to his underwear) AND there is mutual touching, a HE is almost always included. (As far as who does what to whom? Well, two butt naked men can figure it out.) From time to time, if the chemistry is good, the provider will either hop onto the table or position himself according to your wishes. This begins what many people call more sex. Best to go with the flow and enjoy. After a few minutes the provider may gently take your hand and say something like, "shall we go get on the bed?" This usually continues into even more sex. Or he may smile and say something like, "So how was your massage today?," as he gently but firmly helps you to clean up and begin to sit uprightl

If the massage, table play, and HE were sufficient you can wrap things up financially and head out the door. If it is to the bedroom you go, all sorts of experiences are in your near future. As you walk together a brief chat may be in order. "I really liked it when you rubbed your crotch onto my face;" or "that was really cool when your cock was in my hole." Sometimes levels of enthusiasm may need to be adjusted: "I love to deep throat, but not too too deep;" or "I've been really naughty. Maybe you could use that wooden spoon to help straighten me out?" Most would agree that these sorts of acts can also be labeled SEX. 

Of course if there is no bed or bedroom available, most massage tables these days can easily hold the weight of two average men tossing and turning about. But don't ASSuME automatically that it does.

Frankly I usually don't know what's gonna happen when I book a Sensual Massage at 3PM in the afternoon. Not sure what my mood will be or what the chemistry will be like. To be fair, if you book a Sensual Massage, many times that's what you get, and it's perfectly fine. Enjoy the massage, have your HE and pay the man with a smile and a hug. Any physical contact after that is between two adults who would both like to take it a bit further. Wonderful! Lucky You! That was great! Then get cleaned up, get dressed, and pay the man with a nice smile and a big hug. A generous tip would not be unusual. It would be a nice gesture.

Now I think that your initial question might have been as follows: In a massage setting, is getting a HE the same as having sex. Or to put it another way: I just had a HE! Did I have sex? In that special particular instance that we call A MASSAGE; my answer would be no. No we did not have sex. You just got a HE.

On 11/23/2023 at 12:00 PM, tassojunior said:

Seems a bounty of country boy porn stars

Tasso you're not kidding. Time to fine tune my YA'LL and head north (for me.)

On 11/24/2023 at 4:37 PM, Ali Gator said:

Giddey was asked about the speculation at Thunder practice on Friday ... and he remained tight-lipped."

Unfortunately for him, the girl allegedly gave a blow by blow (as it were) account on various social media platforms, of the goings on.

On 10/15/2023 at 11:24 AM, uclablueyes said:

Jeff Driskel, when stuffed into football pants, has the most magnificent.........

Many of us (present company included) sometimes just get overwhelmingly nervous. This is especially true for the novice. Yes, the polite thing would be to notify the provider. But some of us would be nervous about that as well. "What if he yells at me, or calls me a hurtful name. I really just want a hug. Really just want someone to help me believe I'm not as awful a person as my Dad said I was, the last time we communicated"

On 11/23/2023 at 8:44 PM, samhexum said:

As it turns out, despite canceling her celebrations after guests changed their RSVPs to “no,”

There is a special place in Gay Hell for anyone who's a no show at Martha Stewart's table.

What a cutie.....er, handsome gentleman.  In my head is playing the 70's pop tune, 

Please come to Boston for a massage.

I'm staying with some friends and they've got lots of room

You can go painting sunbeams on my toenails,

And I'll drape myself all oooover your massage table

Please come to Boston. He said no. 

But you can come all ooooover me.

Apologies to all concerned. Sorry, couldn't help it. 😁

I enjoy the soft mellow sound of instrumental "new age" when getting a massage. Don't really need music during an escort session, though if "Feeling Good" by Michael Buble` comes on I tend to get heated up somewhat.  "Me and Mrs. Jones" works fine as well.

He's been advertising for many, many years and has a, shall we say, checkered history. Listen to your brethren and step away.

Lotta cute quarterbacks this year. Nice list.....but DAMN Joe Burrow is fine!

He even looked hot walking off the field with a busted wrist. Would be happy to rub him down to help him feel better. O well. Hope he gets some rest. At least he'll now have plenty of time to decide what to do with his new $250 million contract. See ya next year, Joe Cool!

Nice ad. I like the way he presents himself and his services. I'd be interested from just reading and seeing what I did.

Wish I had. Guy I found on RM comes into my hotel room and first thing asks for his money. He was really cute, so I handed him the $200. He tickled my chest for five minutes then got up and left. I cursed at him as he walked out the door, giggling. Told RM about my experience and after a few days his ad was pulled, never to be seen again. Boy I felt stupid. I had had a weird feeling when setting up the appointment but ignored it because the dude was beautiful. Since then I have been more attentive to my hiring gaydar and as of yet have not had a repeat experience. Probably missed out on a few perfectly honest providers, but I never want to experience again that feeling of being screwed with my pants on. Live and learn. 

No, but I got a great spanking from his buddy, Tom Sayoww.😁

10 hours ago, samhexum said:

 

 

Sadist!  I bet you laughed when Humpty Dumpty fell.

It was the greatest day of my life.

Easy Key Lime Pie

• 2 eggs
• 1 can condensed milk
• 1 tsp. vanilla
• 1/4 cup key lime juice. (Available in upscale grocery stores or order online.)
• pinch salt 
• graham cracker crust

whipped cream or cool whip topping

Beat eggs well. Add next four ingredients and blend well. Pour into a pre packaged graham cracker crust. Bake at 325 degrees for 25 to 30 minutes until custard is set.

Chill, then add topping. This is a very rich tasting dessert so serve in smaller than usual slices.

I use whatever is in the bottle that says Russian Dressing. I didn't know there were different types of Russian. The jar of jam is a regular size, not large. It's six or eight ounces methinks. 

Recently I saw the movie Beach Rats. Kinda sexy, kinda sad. Seemed to be an accurate portrayal, IMHO, of the struggle many of us share with gay and bi teenagers. There was one scene of the main character looking at pics online of men looking for sex. He would cover his eyes with his hands, then spread his fingers out and cautiously peer through. It was like he wanted to look at the ads, but couldn't stand himself looking at the ads. KnowwhatImean? His internal struggles looked very real, very familiar. 

Lovely post and tribute. Thank you.

Charlie they built a new ball park a couple years ago. Beautiful facility with roof that opens. It's gorgeous on those rare cooler summer nights when they open the whole thing up. 

YIPPIE!!!!!!

Most recent medical news says no "drugs" found in his system. Heavy user in the past, yes. But he did his best trying to get clean himself and help others get clean as well. Addiction is a bitch. If you haven't been there, that's great for you. But no one but a user knows how bloody hard it is to get clean, and even harder to stay clean, day after day after day. Not asking for pity from the non users among us. Hope you are and stay that way forever. The addicts among us know the hell he went through. 

Everything looks better in porn. Reality is usually sorta "MEH". Stick with one guy you really like and have him lay on top of you. Same effect. 

Good news! Rangers up 3-1. One more to go. Please God, just one more win!  Bad news. Best player A. Garcia is out for the rest of the series. Sherzer is probably out as well, though that may not be a bad thing. He has only been a shell of his former self. (But aren't we all. LOL) Baseball is crazy. Arizona may well win the next three. They're really good. O well. Cross my fingers, toes, tongue, and nose.

Looks like he is a candidate for the bentcarrot.com site. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. 🫠)

Series tied 1-1. Next three in Phoenix. Both teams play well on the road, so I expect we'll be back in Texas next week for game 6. They both play really exciting baseball, and it's nice IMHO to have some teams other than the usual Yankees/RedSox/Cardinals/Dodgers repeat. Flyover country rejoices.