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The personal trainer in the video is hot hot hot!!!  They show his amazing ass and vpl in the jock sock he wears.
 

The personal trainer in the video is hot hot hot!!!  They show his amazing ass and vpl in the jock sock he wears.
 

The personal trainer in the video is hot hot hot!!!  They show his amazing ass and vpl in the jock sock he wears.
 

The personal trainer in the video is hot hot hot!!!  They show his amazing ass and vpl in the jock sock he wears.
 

He does gay porn under the name Phillipe Massa.

1) PARTICIPATE. 
2) know your own body and have an active idea of what you want out of the experience. Or even baseline, what it takes to get YOU off - not just to get us off (if that’s your thing). That’s ultimately what we are for - to make you happy. 

Actually both Muscle Matt and Carlo had ads on Rentboy in NYC. From the wording of the ad it was more them trying to get people to film on their site. I would have hired Matt in a heartbeat if they were working as normal escorts.

I finally got to meet Sherman. We both had a great time. He was passionate and always in the moment.
Looking forward to seeing him again some day.

I'm a veteran here, and in all of the years that I've engaged the services of escorts worldwide, I have never shared any photos or stats.  The few who've asked for photos received only a reply from me and were satisfied with that feedback.  
Guess this is a practice now during the 21st century and the advent of the cell phone.  
Two years ago, an escort sent me two unsolicited photos of himself via his cell phone after we'd agreed to meet each other.

I don’t think so. Clients hire us for privacy, relative anonymity, and for us to not care what the client looks like but to service him anyway. That’s part of the inherent value of hiring; not having to appeal to another person’s tastes and preferences, particularly with regard to the way you look. This dynamic may be weird in other contexts but totally normal for this one. We providers are used to it. 
Imperfect as the comparison may be, I might hire a therapist in some small part based on the way they look in their photos. Are they inviting, compassionate, and open, or closed, judgmental, and creepy? They have never seen me before but I hire their services and show up sight unseen, and their job is to help me with some rather personal, emotional, and intimate aspects of my life. In that limited way, hiring a therapist is somewhat adjacent to hiring a provider. I can’t imagine feeling compelled to send my therapist a photo of myself before our first meeting. 
Sending a photo is a nice courtesy, and I welcome it, mostly just to help me remember the client better and to add to their contact as a quick reference along with my notes. 
More often than not a client expects us to offer some commentary or react to the way they look. He wants validation, but there is no good way for us to give it to him. No matter what we say, we can’t win:
1) We say something positive. You assume we’re not genuine.
2) We say something positive. You believe we are genuine. You might conclude we lack professionalism because we’re meeting with you for the wrong reasons.
3) We say something vague, neutral, or even negative about the way you look. You assume the worst about us and how the meeting will go. Perhaps you cancel because of it.
So…that leaves only one reasonable option: say nothing about the way the client looks. Consider this when you send a photo. Expect your provider to say nothing. When he says nothing, would you still want to send it? If yes, you’re sending for the right reason. Conversely, are you feeling disappointed that your provider does not comment on your looks? Then you’re sending photos for the wrong reasons.
Our work is very different from other businesses in many respects, and the client is hiring us based on many factors, including in large part based on the way we look, both above and below the neck. This business has unique norms and expectations on both sides of hiring, but it’s a business nonetheless. I don’t find seeing clients sight unseen to be at all weird given the specific context.
This topic brings to mind hookups and how different they are to hiring. Yet even there, context matters. Looks are very important for most hookup situations, or even a date. You need mutual interest and attraction for both parties to agree to meet. Not always though. I suppose it depends on what you want. “I’m ass up, face down, in a dark/dim room and I want your anonymous load. Come in through my unlocked door at: [insert location and other details here].” Sometimes what the other person looks like is immaterial. Meeting sight unseen is not weird in a context like this one.

I saw Turkish about a month ago. I tried to see him last year when I was in San Diego, but he was leaving town as I was visiting. He was super friendly and personable in communications. So when he was in my area I contacted him again.
Long story short, he gave a decent massage. It started off therapeutic but it was mainly and very sensual/erotic.
I enjoyed my time with him. I don't know, maybe it's a "ymmv" situation, but honestly, he was kinda aggressive in wanting me to do things to him. LOL!

I saw Turkish about a month ago. I tried to see him last year when I was in San Diego, but he was leaving town as I was visiting. He was super friendly and personable in communications. So when he was in my area I contacted him again.
Long story short, he gave a decent massage. It started off therapeutic but it was mainly and very sensual/erotic.
I enjoyed my time with him. I don't know, maybe it's a "ymmv" situation, but honestly, he was kinda aggressive in wanting me to do things to him. LOL!

Is there a reason why most bottoms can't top? Does it hurt when they top someone or they just don't feel anything? 

Just because someone eats ass, doesn’t guarantee that they’re going to eat EVERY ass. 
More than likely, this practice is done on a “case-by-case” basis. 
 
 

There's a lot of projection in posts like these. Speaking for myself, I am conventionally attractive, look ten years younger than my (middle) age, and am a lot of fun in and out of bed. But you - and a few others on here - seem to think most of us are hideous and obese.
A significant number of us hire, not because we can't find sex but because it's much more convenient. We're paying, so we don't have to spend hours on apps to schedule a hook-up. And "good looking" is incredibly subjective. I'd say 80 percent of the providers who get posted here by members looking for information, hold zero appeal for me. But most guys are salivating over them. 
Lastly, the "slavery" comment is just horrible. Not only do we have a history of chattel slavery in this country, but there are people all over the world, including the US, who are being trafficked to have sex against their will. And, they do not get paid. In fact, by definition slaves don't get paid. 
And that rimming is what set you off, feels very personal. It's a practice you find distasteful or abhorrent, so you cannot imagine someone enjoying it. So it's worse to you then "fuck me or I won't hire you", "let me fuck you or I won't hire you", "blow me or I won't hire you." Really, they're all the same. 
Lastly, no one should ever coerce a provider into doing something they are uncomfortable with. But if I hire someone who says they provide a particular service - and let's stipulate that everyone involved is pristinely hygienic - and they will not perform, I would let it go. But I also would not hire them again. 

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.

Have a meeting scheduled.  Acceptable discount for multi-hour appointment.  Will give not-a-review thoughts when complete.  

I think it’s strange that some commentators view bi as being ‘not really into guys’ or somehow ‘gay lite’. I’m bi and I love playing with guys, including kissing and all sorts of activities (I’m vers) that some seem to think of as gay only. I also love playing with females, indeed even better is playing with both at same time. I don’t regard one as better or more fun than the other, they’re just different. If the person or persons I’m with are relaxed about sex and open minded then it’s always a great session. 
I agree that if you come across a guy who describes himself as bi but who lists fairly vanilla activities with guys that he won’t do then that’s probably a signal that he is probably more straight but there’s also gay providers who won’t kiss for example, so orientation is not a good predictor I think.
I think it’s best to not put too much interpretation on how a guy describes himself and look more at what he will do and other signs about whether he’s doing the work because he genuinely enjoys it or is he doing it because he has to. The former should be the providers you prioritise, regardless of their stated sexual orientation. 

 

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.