JungleForest

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

I’m one of the reviewers here that is not easily impressed and am pretty truthful about my size descriptions. One of my pet peeves on this site are men that are overly deferential to their favored scort and would rather launder fake info about their exaggerated dick size then share accurate info to the community on this site.  I definitely hire based on size as Cock is as important to me as Face, Body, and Age. My tip is if you see a pic of an abnormally sized dick then more likely than not it’s fake unless they prove it with a corresponding video. Most guys that have good dicks will advertise it on the site with a clear pic plus clear videos. Pics with fake humongous members are typically very soft around the corners meaning that the provider is using photoshop to elongate the image. Another way to discern a fake pic is to see if the lower body seems strangely stretched or strangely proportioned  to the rest of the body. A good determinant of size is a fuck video, if you see them topping a guy and the stroke is long when they are pulling out then you know his dick is truly big. If it’s a small jackhammer pound where he’s not revealing the dick during the pull out then he’s most likely small. 

To get closer to the truth, you may need to subtract two inches 😂.

He ignored inquiry re face and services, but did offer opportunity to share my pics elsewhere and see if I fit his profile of potential clients.  Seems to think he's on Grindr Pro.

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I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up. 

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

Forest, it is a jungle out there.
You are not the first one, and won't be the last.
 

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up. 

I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up. 

I appreciate having a provider’s perspective, as well as everyone else’s perspective here. I decided to be upfront and just outright say it and he basically asked me to raincheck our meeting. It was a bummer for sure.
I ended up scheduling time with someone else though and that ended up being great.

I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up. 

I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up. 

I appreciate having a provider’s perspective, as well as everyone else’s perspective here. I decided to be upfront and just outright say it and he basically asked me to raincheck our meeting. It was a bummer for sure.
I ended up scheduling time with someone else though and that ended up being great.

I appreciate having a provider’s perspective, as well as everyone else’s perspective here. I decided to be upfront and just outright say it and he basically asked me to raincheck our meeting. It was a bummer for sure.
I ended up scheduling time with someone else though and that ended up being great.

…and you hired a provider? 
 
I don’t want to bail but at the same time I wanted to get rearranged. I’m just worried about the provider being annoyed, idk how to proceed. Would love some friendly advice, as I’m new to not only gay sex but hiring providers, please keep that in mind when responding.

At that price point and given your prior conversation, I wouldn't think sending a pic is a crazy request.  I see this as a red flag and you may not get what you are looking for.  $400 is on the very high side for massage even  if you've negotiated escort type services.   If it were me, I would move on.....

You're not being unreasonable Smyth your request,  but if that's something he's refusing or is uncomfortable with, just let him know it's a deal breaker and move on. 
He certainly shouldn't be offended by the question, and you certainly shouldn't feel bad for asking or refusing to hire him as a result. 
Plenty of fish in the sea. Someone who's willing to meet your criteria is just a few clicks away. 

He has every right to withhold the photos and you have every right to not hire him for doing so. Neither position is unreasonable.  

400 is way too much for sensual massage that has no guarantees of erotic content.  Especially without nudes.