JungleForest

I have -- maybe too many.  Sometimes, I feel like I am too trusting and share too much about my personal life.  Perhaps that's the reason why they respond in kind.  Many providers tell me about their families, real-life jobs, dating histories, traumas, etc.
I won't necessarily label the feeling as "guilty"; I'd rather call it empathetic.  I often think: he's such an attractive person (physically) with such a gentle, kind, and lovely soul/personality.  Why does he have to do this to earn some extra $$$?  But then I'd wake up and realize that I, too, hate my job.  The "job" is just a means to an end.  So we are not necessarily any different in this respect.
Yeah, so, no, you are absolutely not alone in this feeling & experience.

Yes, I've had several, some quite deep, and I think the same, the provider has felt comfortable enough to trust me with disclosing, venting or just connecting. I am married, and some of those providers know it, so I don't have any reason to believe that those conversations imply a deeper connection. They are just being human. We all a times need certain type of connection. I've done the same and have never expected that the provider gives me anything other than a listening ear for the time we're in business.
I don't feel guilty for decisions that other clients make and for the way the provider conducts business. In fact, I don't think it's my place to get involved in that, though I have given some life advice to younger providers and it seems like it has been welcome. I just leave it at that; to me that's just part of being a decent human being, not necessarily anything with deeper meaning.
If that kind of thing affects you, I'd suggest to take care of yourself and protect your emotions, but not to dwell on it.

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me. 

I think in the long run you will benefit more from being trusted than challenged by it.  

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me. 

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me. 

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me. 

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me. 

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me. 

Yes, I’ve had conversations like this with providers. Just as we’ve learned to look for red flags from blogs like this or trial and error, successful providers must do the same. The conversations that I recall were mutually beneficial with shared perspectives and advice. Rather than feeling guilty, I felt that the relationship was strengthened and we both (or at least me) had a richer experience. 

Met a provider that I have seen a couple times before, we are very comfortable with each other and he has even recommended other providers to me when I’ve been traveling. We have “known” each other for about a year. But during this conversation he brought up the difficulties of being a provider - some of the horrible clientele he’s had to deal with etc. He talked about what he’s done with learn how to deal with people like and he says things are better now. 

I did get a bit in my feelings about the nature of the conversation. I know he doesn’t feel like that about me and it was more of a moment for him to vent but still left feeling weird about the whole thing. I do believe that although the nature of our meetings is transactional that we have a pleasant rapport with one another. 
 
Has anyone else had a conversation like this with a provider and it almost made you feel guilty - maybe not the right word but I’m struggling to find the right ones right now. Was just curious of anyone else’s experience. 

Reverse image search leads socials for a 31yo man who is a former competitive bodybuilder and who is currently in a relationship with a woman and who appears to be father to two small children.  
All indications are that he has moved on from adult entertainment.  

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

I’m one of the reviewers here that is not easily impressed and am pretty truthful about my size descriptions. One of my pet peeves on this site are men that are overly deferential to their favored scort and would rather launder fake info about their exaggerated dick size then share accurate info to the community on this site.  I definitely hire based on size as Cock is as important to me as Face, Body, and Age. My tip is if you see a pic of an abnormally sized dick then more likely than not it’s fake unless they prove it with a corresponding video. Most guys that have good dicks will advertise it on the site with a clear pic plus clear videos. Pics with fake humongous members are typically very soft around the corners meaning that the provider is using photoshop to elongate the image. Another way to discern a fake pic is to see if the lower body seems strangely stretched or strangely proportioned  to the rest of the body. A good determinant of size is a fuck video, if you see them topping a guy and the stroke is long when they are pulling out then you know his dick is truly big. If it’s a small jackhammer pound where he’s not revealing the dick during the pull out then he’s most likely small. 

To get closer to the truth, you may need to subtract two inches 😂.

He ignored inquiry re face and services, but did offer opportunity to share my pics elsewhere and see if I fit his profile of potential clients.  Seems to think he's on Grindr Pro.

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I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up. 

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

Forest, it is a jungle out there.
You are not the first one, and won't be the last.
 

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it.