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This about made me bust. I love the unknown - the attempt to hold it back by relieving himself before the massage. Then the screaming inside your head hoping he will take care of it. And finally the massive release.

I went for a number of years without paying for massage. My first was from my own posting on Craigslist looking for a massage. To my surprise, several men enjoy giving them when you ask.
 
So my first, I went to an Asian guy’s apartment and he had a table waiting for me. I was nervous as hell and also excited and he could sense it. He approached me to settle my nerves and asked if he could remove my clothing. I agreed. It was a little uncomfortable but I stood there as he removed my shirt then unbuckled my belt and opened my pants. I was noticeably erect as he removed my pants leaving me in my boxer briefs with a hard outline there. He seemed to enjoy what he saw. He dropped to his knees so he could remove my underwear as I flopped out of my undies nearly hitting his face.
 
He led me to the table and asked me to lay on my stomach. I did as he instructed. (Pointing up, btw). He had warmed oil and rubbed gently all over my back and legs. He was in no hurry which calmed me down. While he did rub my buns, he was careful to not get too sensual early on.
 
He then asked me to turn over and I was embarrassed because I knew I was leaking a TON but I obliged. He didn’t even mention my erection or the leaking which again I appreciated.
 
He continued to massage my chest and stomach. Intentionally skipping my erection down to my legs. He would rub the entire length of my legs higher and higher to where I don’t know how he avoided contact as long as he did. I had to be screaming inside my head “just touch it!!” But it was all silent building anticipation.
 
Finally he touched it! Lifting it in a way to give him access to my lower stomach. I was literally oozing at this point and without asking a question, he gripped me as tight as I’ve ever been gripped. I literally moaned out loud. Although he went slowly, it took no time at all for me to unleash one of the biggest explosions I’ve ever had. He was such a gentleman he went to get a warm washcloth and wiped me down. He offered me water and said that I should take my time before moving on with my day. There was no discussion of what happened in a sexual way. Just a professional doing his job - and what a job it was.
 
From that day forward I was addicted. To be honest that experience was better than any other form of sex for me. So I went on my way seeking these experiences over the years - mostly without pay - all via Craigslist. Finally I arrived in New York and found the spa scene and enjoyed that element because it was close to my first experience - though with payment. I would still find success getting guys to massage me for free and then Craigslist ceased to allow m4m postings. A really sad day.

If the Masseur is a one load a day guy, I have found that the last appointment gets his load:):) After all the sexual tension from earlier sessions, it is usually a big, powerful one:)

A mild chuckle re this thread. Does anyone remember The Body Center on 6th Ave near 14th. I needed to start working out for professional reasons and it was the first gym with steam room, sauna, and a hot tub not to mention a long row of open showers that I had ever been to. If ever there was a motivation for going to the gym regularly at all different hours it was that place. My motivation was "if you finish your work out, then you are allowed to go play". Sometimes play got the best of me and I cut the work out short. I have never experienced anything like it since. Alas this was just before the dawn of the AIDs era when so much of the free wheeling open sexuality of gay gyms faded away. Sure was fun while it lasted.

A mild chuckle re this thread. Does anyone remember The Body Center on 6th Ave near 14th. I needed to start working out for professional reasons and it was the first gym with steam room, sauna, and a hot tub not to mention a long row of open showers that I had ever been to. If ever there was a motivation for going to the gym regularly at all different hours it was that place. My motivation was "if you finish your work out, then you are allowed to go play". Sometimes play got the best of me and I cut the work out short. I have never experienced anything like it since. Alas this was just before the dawn of the AIDs era when so much of the free wheeling open sexuality of gay gyms faded away. Sure was fun while it lasted.

A mild chuckle re this thread. Does anyone remember The Body Center on 6th Ave near 14th. I needed to start working out for professional reasons and it was the first gym with steam room, sauna, and a hot tub not to mention a long row of open showers that I had ever been to. If ever there was a motivation for going to the gym regularly at all different hours it was that place. My motivation was "if you finish your work out, then you are allowed to go play". Sometimes play got the best of me and I cut the work out short. I have never experienced anything like it since. Alas this was just before the dawn of the AIDs era when so much of the free wheeling open sexuality of gay gyms faded away. Sure was fun while it lasted.

Wow really my type which is harder and harder find these days. If anyone has any direct experience with him, I'd love to hear pm. Admittedly, not the amount of dough I usually spend.

Agree. Each time I’ve had that experience it has not been planned. I guess just good chemistry!

It's just Icy-Hot. A topical analgesic with Menthol.

I might be wrong about this but when I came to NYC during the War of 1812, I think there was a law that a masseur had to be licensed to advertise. Getting a license required some degree of training. So most of the masseurs I found back then, not only gave happy endings, but were decent masseurs as well, and it was also not unusual to find a few that went well beyond the happy ending. All in all there were very few disappointments.

Generally speaking, if a masseur takes the meeting another direction from the start, they don't have the skills to give a good massage. Sometimes the best course of action is to "just go with it" and enjoy it for what it is.
 
Seriously, maybe the masseur was so attracted to you he just went for it.

The plot thickens!!!
I knew there was more to this story... you didn’t provide him with the expected “services”, so he then demands a refund for his “allergy”....
 
?

I do not believe that you owe him a refund. You provided the agreed upon service sufficiently . As Judge Judy would say "He ate the Steak".
 
As far as the allergic reaction goes, you as the professional could have asked him if he had any allergies,...but ultimately it's up to him to let his sensitivities be known.
 
If you want to show good will, you could offer him a discount on his next session...using a different lotion of course. However, he may not choose to return.

Honestly, I find that rather ridiculous. Why on earth would you want to spend $160 on a therapeutic massage when you can get one with a HE for the same price from equally hot guys?

Via hastags. But AFAIK figuring out if they are local to you is the hard part.
 
For example this guy
 
[MEDIA=instagram]BrPT87wAax4[/MEDIA]
 
I had already seen his profile here before
 
https://rentmasseur.com/thejohnsmithy
 
And that's just from the #massagetherapist hash tag. He used a lot of tags so you can see what he used and browse through the tags. But you can probably put LA or NYC in front of massage or massage therapist and widdle it down.
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I actually have met him socially not for massage and know that he is working to compete. He is dedicated to the sport of body building and is much bigger than when I first met him a number of year ago. He lives in my neighborhood and we always say hello and I ask how the competitions are going. Really nice guy, and maybe a bit shy. I had no idea that he was doing massage until this thread. I think I would be just too uncomfortable to go to him as a client, but if anyone does, I'd sure like to know what kind of massage he's giving these days. PM is always acceptable.

I understand the frustration with the not knowing unless you have lots of money to spend and find the unknown "will he or won't he" erotic. However, aside from all the speculation, is it me or is 150 a pretty high price for therapeutic even if he is on top of you?

Rentmen ad may or may not mean anything, I was pretty surprised to find out that this other dude started to advertise there.
https://rent.men/Europeann
A quick exchange of messages revealed it was still the same deal, "sensual" (yeah, right...) massage with "now you can finish yourself" offer in the end. Note the list of "available for" on the right, that gives you some guidance but not much. Just like "sensual" and "erotic" on rentmasseur mean completely different things to different people. I am not saying it's necessarily bad, I would just send him a message asking whether what you want is on the menu.

How can you post provocative pics on rent mass. and say you are not open to anything erotic. Perhaps he was protecting himself by not verbally admitting anything over the phone. But to include erotic as part of your ad and then say no in my mind is outrageous.

At poolboy's suggestion I've retitled my original post just in case anyone else has useful info they would like to share for our FL residents and who knows perhaps Cal will we return to NYC from time to time.

At poolboy's suggestion I've retitled my original post just in case anyone else has useful info they would like to share for our FL residents and who knows perhaps Cal will we return to NYC from time to time.

At poolboy's suggestion I've retitled my original post just in case anyone else has useful info they would like to share for our FL residents and who knows perhaps Cal will we return to NYC from time to time.

Because it's a false accusation! Now they wanna start suing!

And why does the masseur get to remain anonymous?

Yes, it’s so much the energy and the chemistry. I had an online friend recommend a masseur to me, my friend told me “never any extras”.
 
First time I met the masseur, he dropped his shorts halfway through, lots of body contact, HE by hand. Future visits evolved into him performing oral (hungrily), long showers together, and ultimately bottoming for me.
 
My online friend would always email me “isn’t it frustrating he won’t do more......” I always kept it to myself.