Surprise erotic

[Jake71]

Has anyone ever hooked up with a masseur who proclaimed that they were strictly therapeutic?

 

This just happened to me and though it was fun it was also kinda weird. It was all legit right up until the last 10 minutes, where out of nowhere he went to town - really put the “H” in “HE”

 

Has something like this ever happened to you?

[+ HornyRetiree]

Has anyone ever hooked up with a masseur who proclaimed that they were strictly therapeutic?

 

This just happened to me and though it was fun it was also kinda weird. It was all legit right up until the last 10 minutes, where out of nowhere he went to town - really put the “H” in “HE”

 

Has something like this ever happened to you?

Multiple times and ofter it isn’t delayed until the end:)

[Lchnsf]

Almost always. The line that gets me "Do you want your release now or at the end?" as they start right in. Thought they were there for my pleasure??

[Michael PhD]

I’ve gotten sucked by 50% of the guys I’ve met and topped another 15-20%... i don’t expect it but I’m ready for it to happen every time I schedule a massage.

[Redwine56]

I’ve gotten sucked by 50% of the guys I’ve met and topped another 15-20%... i don’t expect it but I’m ready for it to happen every time I schedule a massage.

Oh my! It must be cause you have that "PhD" after your name or are you irresistible? We should all be so lucky.

[+ HornyRetiree]

Oh my! It must be cause you have that "PhD" after your name or are you irresistible? We should all be so lucky.

In many cases I think it is one’s “Energy”, not necessarily physical beauty - though I find Energy is a large part of one’s outer beauty.

 

I am 5’10”, 240ish w/ 44” waist and I have received oral from most of the masseurs I have used and have been topped by several.

[IntuitiveTactile]

In many cases I think it is one’s “Energy”, not necessarily physical beauty - though I find Energy is a large part of one’s outer beauty.

 

I am 5’10”, 240ish w/ 44” waist and I have received oral from most of the masseurs I have used and have been topped by several.

In many cases I think it is one’s “Energy

Absolutely it's "Energy", chemistry, how you respond, moan to the masseurs touch .. All are factors. .

So is a great cock

[+ HornyRetiree]

So is a great cock

 

Have only run into 3 size queens in my 70 years who walked away from what I have to offer — Average in length, little thicker than average, cut, nicely proportioned

[Michael PhD]

Oh my! It must be cause you have that "PhD" after your name or are you irresistible? We should all be so lucky.

 

 

Agree with above. It’s about the chemistry. I think I’m decent looking and have a nice d... but I come in confident. Really show the guys I’m enjoying it. Light sensual mutual touch. Moans when they are doing a good job. The best thing a masseur can say is “I never do this...” before the start blowing me or offering me their ass... I know I’m not the only one but as the client, I try to give them props by my body quivering at times, loud moans, and gently caressing their hole. That can go far. It’s a skill being a good client also:).

[IntuitiveTactile]

Agree with above. It’s about the chemistry. I think I’m decent looking and have a nice d... but I come in confident. Really show the guys I’m enjoying it. Light sensual mutual touch. Moans when they are doing a good job. The best thing a masseur can say is “I never do this...” before the start blowing me or offering me their ass... I know I’m not the only one but as the client, I try to give them props by my body quivering at times, loud moans, and gently caressing their hole. That can go far. It’s a skill being a good client also:).

 

BINGO

 

Moans, confidence, showing your masseur how much you're enjoying it, goes a long way towards turning them on

[Hey_Jay]

A lot of times I don’t ask details before the massage and assuming that what I’m actually getting is a massage nothing more but if it happens I’m not gonna complain. Totally agree with chemistry and you also avoid upsells coz it’s mutual consent

[MikeBiDude]

Yes, it’s so much the energy and the chemistry. I had an online friend recommend a masseur to me, my friend told me “never any extras”.

 

First time I met the masseur, he dropped his shorts halfway through, lots of body contact, HE by hand. Future visits evolved into him performing oral (hungrily), long showers together, and ultimately bottoming for me.

 

My online friend would always email me “isn’t it frustrating he won’t do more......” I always kept it to myself.

[Redwine56]

Agree with above. It’s about the chemistry. I think I’m decent looking and have a nice d... but I come in confident. Really show the guys I’m enjoying it. Light sensual mutual touch. Moans when they are doing a good job. The best thing a masseur can say is “I never do this...” before the start blowing me or offering me their ass... I know I’m not the only one but as the client, I try to give them props by my body quivering at times, loud moans, and gently caressing their hole. That can go far. It’s a skill being a good client also:).

Hmmm . . . Makes me think of "When Harry Met Sally". I'll have to keep this in mind. Seems there's a skill and craft to everything. Your mindset holds true when getting it on full blown with a partner. The moans, groans and shaking raises the excitement for both participants. :rolleyes:

[Redwine56]

what makes someone take up sensual massage as a full time job? are they highly sexualized? i wonder how it relates to their everyday lives outside the massage room. any insights from the masseurs on here?

OZP - you bring up a very interesting perspective. Sometimes, I find that a private masseur is more of an introvert and almost on the shy side. On the other end of the spectrum, they can be highly sexual. Think about the dynamics. Guys will make an appointment to visit them in the privacy of their apartment and they get paid for seeing a willing male specimen shed their clothes, mount their message table and lay naked awaiting their hands to rub all over their body head to toe. To support this theory, I have heard of masseurs who when they get a serious BF, suddenly change their message techniques and remove certain services from their menu.

[Guest JakeAsherXXX]

I had Aussie Alex lick my butt into a well over hour massage. I thought it was just going to be therapeutic. Oops

[Kody S]

As a client skill (in addition to the above) using good manners, showing respect for them, and treating them well like you are genuinely glad to see them, welcoming their touch, and knowing how and when to touch them (should they invite that) goes a long way also...in my experience

[Terpmaniac]

Good lord, that has probably happened to everybody at least once! Of course after the "nastiness" is over, I love this lie: "I don't USUALLY do this sort of thing with my clients." I always think to myself yeah right! Terp

[IntuitiveTactile]

I don't USUALLY do this sort of thing with my clients."

Isn't that part of the illusion that's being paid for?

" Make me feel special Pa"

[+ Funguy]

Isn't that part of the illusion that's being paid for?

" Make me feel special Pa"

 

I know I'm special!

[Inkdnaija00]

Definitely for me. Sometimes they start doing their thing like 20 mins before the massage ends and am like "that's what we doing" lol

[+ HornyRetiree]

Yes, it’s so much the energy and the chemistry. I had an online friend recommend a masseur to me, my friend told me “never any extras”.

 

First time I met the masseur, he dropped his shorts halfway through, lots of body contact, HE by hand. Future visits evolved into him performing oral (hungrily), long showers together, and ultimately bottoming for me.

 

My online friend would always email me “isn’t it frustrating he won’t do more......” I always kept it to myself.

 

Agree, I keep quiet about all the extras I enjoy:) let others work out their own situations - don't want them going in there saying I said................ Not going to chance wrecking the good things I have going for me:)

 

One masseur even said after he blew me on the first visit - it is good to massage you, you appreciate and enjoy what I am doing, not everyone does -- so I wanted to make it special!!! and special it was -- of course I go to him monthly.

[Typical]

The downside of sites like this is that a number of masseurs curtail the experience for fear of being blabbed about in a public forum.

 

It's my opinion that if a masseur doesn't publicly advertise certain enhancements those situations should remain confidential. I can't say 100% I have lived up to that expectation, but will going forward.

 

Sometimes things happen that are not standard operating procedure. That's great! Those instances should be kept private for numerous reasons.

 

In this day and age discretion is a valuable and appreciated quality.

[+ g56whiz]

I’m addicted to therapeutic massage but I prefer the masseur to be as naked as me. I’ll even state that I don’t require a happy ending. But I warn that if their penis lingers by my mouth for a bit I’ll feel free to nurse it. And then the fun sometimes begins.

[Kody S]

The downside of sites like this is that a number of masseurs curtail the experience for fear of being blabbed about in a public forum.

 

It's my opinion that if a masseur doesn't publicly advertise certain enhancements those situations should remain confidential. I can't say 100% I have lived up to that expectation, but will going forward.

 

Sometimes things happen that are not standard operating procedure. That's great! Those instances should be kept private for numerous reasons.

 

In this day and age discretion is a valuable and appreciated quality.

Completely agree on privacy considerations.

[LivingnLA]

I strongly prioritize therapeutic skill and knowledge over everything else. I've had my share of "surprises" with therapeutic only providers and I don't share details here, even in PM. Many of those "surprises" are strongly based on personalities, chemistry, and just "the moment." I believe it's unfair to the provider to publicly or privately broadcast details because it creates false expectations.