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1. Convenience- hiring allows me to select a guy who can host in a convenient location at a convenient time.  No endless back and forth or messaging dozens of guys with no responses.
2. Safety- a guy with reviews on here and RM is more vetted than a stranger on an app.
3. Sexual health- providers are more likely to get tested often (and be on prep etc) as their careers depend on it.  I also have less apprehension requiring condoms since I’m the one paying and thus calling the shots.
4. Activities- I can engage in whatever (consensual) activities I like without fear of judgement or worrying about pleasing my partner (though of course I still want him to have a good time).  And their sexual prowess and experience allows them to better work with my relative inexperience.
5. Attractiveness- I can select a guy with any “look” I’m in the mood for and who would not be likely to give me time of day on an app.

Because I can.

I love to play with no lights...no talking..hot anonymous make out....sucking getting sucked and getting topped...group of people even better 

So much fun… I love careful attention to my nipples~ The feeling there is identical to the sensations I have in my cock~ It’s like having three penises~ Variable play on my nipples makes my hard cock harder and drip non stop~ I’ve cum in the past from guys playing just with my nipples~ I feel the sensation in my dick, my ass, my chest, lower back, fore arms and sounds of my feet… also the back of my neck and top of my head~ 
 After I cum, they just wanna be left alone for awhile… after a short time, they are ready to go and it’s often the precursor to another hard on and fuck session~ 

Relax and enjoy. The important thing is to communicate with each other as to what some of the expectations you both have.
The first time I hired for 24 hrs, I was very nervous. I let him know that and we texted back and forth for the months leading up to our meeting. I started relaxing the minute I opened the door and saw that wonderful smiling face.
Sometimes the text from him was to just say hello and see how things were going. I found a nice place close to the beach and we had a fantastic time. This year, we spent three fantastic days together. I got a place right across from beach. Looking forward to the next time we see each other.

That can happen ,but for us it has just been about great sex and some nice cuddle.

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

That can happen ,but for us it has just been about great sex and some nice cuddle.

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

Dane is everything that people have said and more.  I have enjoyed his company for several years and it is still wonderful time.  He always leaves me with a big smile.  Dane is the complete package, the smile, that body and just a great guy.  I agree with others, he never disappoints.

Dane is everything that people have said and more.  I have enjoyed his company for several years and it is still wonderful time.  He always leaves me with a big smile.  Dane is the complete package, the smile, that body and just a great guy.  I agree with others, he never disappoints.

The feel of the tops tongue on my hole and I just surrender.

I've have been paying for my PreP prescription out of pocket using a GoodRx coupon.  The copay on my Part D plan was $150/month.  Yesterday when I picked up my refill the pharmacist told me I no longer have to pay anything since Medicare Part B now pays the total cost.  This great news.  I'm now considering switching to the injectable form of PreP to avoid taking a daily pill.
https://www.hiv.gov/blog/now-medicare-part-b-coverage-pre-exposure-prophylaxis-prep-for-hiv-prevention

The feel of the tops tongue on my hole and I just surrender.

Asspig.com is a site for fist fuckers, and if you're in an area of any size there should be guys near you. They are typically very experienced, willing to share their expertise, and are a chatty bunch, so you can talk through your expectations ahead of time. Most guys into fisting both top and bottom, so your odds of finding someone to top you are very good.
The men on the site are mostly middle-aged or older. If that bothers you you may need to look elsewhere. Right now an experienced hand is what you need, so be open-minded.

The feel of the tops tongue on my hole and I just surrender.

'Well kept' being the determinant I suspect!

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I know that this is a thread about providers who rim, but I just want to memorialize a friend/client of mine who passed away last summer.  I have a rim chair and one of our favorite things was for me to sit in it, him underneath.  I'd have my coffee, and we could stay like that for nearly an hour.  My butt would be so sore from sitting and so happy from liking.  His neck would NOT be sore because we knew JUST the right pillow to put under his head.  HAPPY DAYS!

As someone who has travelled out of the country with a few guys and had it go really well, here's some questions you need to discuss before you go anywhere: 
1. What time do you normally wake up and go to sleep? Are you a morning person or night-owl?
2. When do you generally like to go to the gym, mornings, mid-day, afternoon?
3. Do you eat three square meals a day or just one huge one and when is that?
4. What interests you about [travel destination]? Is there something you want to do there? 
5. Should I take the lead on making all the plans or do you want to be a part of it? 
6. Do you have a contact in case anything bad happens to you? (This is crazy important; I went to a really disconnected mostly third world country with one of my guys -- a place where if he was put in the hospital I couldn't even make a phone call without making it a huge issue)
 
Those are just some to get you started. There's more, but it's a good base. 

I basically agree with you. For me it's one of those characteristics that go in the Bad or Negative column when considering to hire someone new. Especially if the provider is young. PNP with a young twenty year old is not a turn on at all. Guess I AM getting old and cranky.

I have yet to hire someone who lists PNP. I've come close but ultimately it violates a boundary I set for myself early on. TBH, I'm thinking about dropping that boundary (not to do PNP myself but to at least try well reviewed providers who list it). It just makes me nervous, and I'm very cautious.