desertguy1954
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desertguy1954 reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in Discussion: Stop Slander:Rejected Clients Smearing Providers
Bozo has never met Jacob. and as @Pd1_jap stated it is difficult to discern what is true these days. Without any other facts it really is a "he said/he said" situation. And both the member who wrote the positive review and the member who wrote the negative review have only a handful of posts between them.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/161383-411-on-jacob_session-new-orleans/#comment-2474650
However, in general, when trying to deny that you are a drug user, it is not helpful to your case to write in your RM Bio that you are "Into PNP". That's not a good look:
from AI:
PnP stands for "Party and Play," a term primarily used within gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) communities to describe the deliberate combination of recreational drug use with sexual activity. Also known as chemsex, it involves high-risk behaviors and specific substances, often leading to significant mental and physical health risks.
BTC
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desertguy1954 reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Escorts and PNP
There is no need to dehumanize the friends that Daniel lost. People who battle substance abuse deserve our empathy and help to recover, not your judgment.
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desertguy1954 reacted to + Jamie21 in Providers cumming on overnights
When you do sex as work (whether that’s escorting/massage or porn) it can become difficult to cum. So often you’re trying not to cum because ‘it’s not time yet for the film or the client …you get used to not cumming. In addition sex becomes so normal and commonplace that you become desensitised to some extent. I expect this is probably the reason he was trying to set expectations. I always try to set expectations with clients, we’re human. Things don’t always work.
Some clients can have quite unrealistic expectations of an overnight (although to be fair those guys never actually book…they just talk about it). Overnights are more about companionship than endless full sex and cumming. It’s about chatting, cuddling, bathing, eating, watching tv or porn together, going to the hotel gym, kissing in the elevator, holding hands at the bar, kissing him passionately while he’s pinned up against the corridor wall, visiting a local sauna together, hiding under the duvet sucking him off while he phones his partner 🫣, showing him how your new prostate massage toy works, walking out of the bathroom in nothing but a leather harness and jock just as room service has wheeled in dinner…. (Ok so some of these may be autobiographical 😂). What I mean is these kind of longer sessions are about connecting much more deeply than is possible in a shorter 90m session.
Tbh I prefer to do them as an afternoon rather than overnight. They work really nicely as a 2pm to 8pm or something like that because it’s sexy to have afternoon fun while everyone else is working, there’s no sleep involved (I like my sleep uninterrupted!) and somehow it feels more illicit. Day use hotel rooms make such a thing possible.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from + claym in Escorts and PNP
Today, I was on RM and was checking a profile. His pictures and profile were perfect. Right age hairy, versatile, then when checking on what he was into, he had listed PNP. That is where he lost me. I am finding this in several profiles that I look at. Is now listing PNP in your profile a necessary item? For me, it is an immediate click and on to the next profile. How d you guys feel about that in an escorts profile?
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desertguy1954 reacted to ShortCutie7 in Why do you pay for sex?
1. Convenience- hiring allows me to select a guy who can host in a convenient location at a convenient time. No endless back and forth or messaging dozens of guys with no responses.
2. Safety- a guy with reviews on here and RM is more vetted than a stranger on an app.
3. Sexual health- providers are more likely to get tested often (and be on prep etc) as their careers depend on it. I also have less apprehension requiring condoms since I’m the one paying and thus calling the shots.
4. Activities- I can engage in whatever (consensual) activities I like without fear of judgement or worrying about pleasing my partner (though of course I still want him to have a good time). And their sexual prowess and experience allows them to better work with my relative inexperience.
5. Attractiveness- I can select a guy with any “look” I’m in the mood for and who would not be likely to give me time of day on an app.
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desertguy1954 reacted to tightroundass in Dark anonymous suck and fuck
I love to play with no lights...no talking..hot anonymous make out....sucking getting sucked and getting topped...group of people even better
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desertguy1954 reacted to + Tygerscent in Nipples
So much fun… I love careful attention to my nipples~ The feeling there is identical to the sensations I have in my cock~ It’s like having three penises~ Variable play on my nipples makes my hard cock harder and drip non stop~ I’ve cum in the past from guys playing just with my nipples~ I feel the sensation in my dick, my ass, my chest, lower back, fore arms and sounds of my feet… also the back of my neck and top of my head~
After I cum, they just wanna be left alone for awhile… after a short time, they are ready to go and it’s often the precursor to another hard on and fuck session~
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from ansh0620 in First overnight
Relax and enjoy. The important thing is to communicate with each other as to what some of the expectations you both have.
The first time I hired for 24 hrs, I was very nervous. I let him know that and we texted back and forth for the months leading up to our meeting. I started relaxing the minute I opened the door and saw that wonderful smiling face.
Sometimes the text from him was to just say hello and see how things were going. I found a nice place close to the beach and we had a fantastic time. This year, we spent three fantastic days together. I got a place right across from beach. Looking forward to the next time we see each other.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from soloyo215 in Worst experiences of 2024?
That can happen ,but for us it has just been about great sex and some nice cuddle.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Worst experiences of 2024?
I actually had two. The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock. I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm. So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard. The second one, nicely built very hairy guy. Give him my stats age included. Said that he liked older guys, that works for me. Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more. This guy had a very nice thick cock. Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow. I told him forget it and did not hear back from him. Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from Callas in Worst experiences of 2024?
That can happen ,but for us it has just been about great sex and some nice cuddle.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from Callas in Worst experiences of 2024?
I actually had two. The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock. I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm. So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard. The second one, nicely built very hairy guy. Give him my stats age included. Said that he liked older guys, that works for me. Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more. This guy had a very nice thick cock. Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow. I told him forget it and did not hear back from him. Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from thomas in Worst experiences of 2024?
I actually had two. The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock. I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm. So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard. The second one, nicely built very hairy guy. Give him my stats age included. Said that he liked older guys, that works for me. Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more. This guy had a very nice thick cock. Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow. I told him forget it and did not hear back from him. Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from Yukon21 in Worst experiences of 2024?
I actually had two. The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock. I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm. So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard. The second one, nicely built very hairy guy. Give him my stats age included. Said that he liked older guys, that works for me. Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more. This guy had a very nice thick cock. Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow. I told him forget it and did not hear back from him. Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from marylander1940 in Worst experiences of 2024?
I actually had two. The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock. I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm. So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard. The second one, nicely built very hairy guy. Give him my stats age included. Said that he liked older guys, that works for me. Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more. This guy had a very nice thick cock. Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow. I told him forget it and did not hear back from him. Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from jonnychgo in Dane Scott 411
Dane is everything that people have said and more. I have enjoyed his company for several years and it is still wonderful time. He always leaves me with a big smile. Dane is the complete package, the smile, that body and just a great guy. I agree with others, he never disappoints.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from Moke in Dane Scott 411
Dane is everything that people have said and more. I have enjoyed his company for several years and it is still wonderful time. He always leaves me with a big smile. Dane is the complete package, the smile, that body and just a great guy. I agree with others, he never disappoints.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from thomas in ass eating/rimming???
The feel of the tops tongue on my hole and I just surrender.
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desertguy1954 reacted to chitownguy in Medicare Now Paying for PreP
I've have been paying for my PreP prescription out of pocket using a GoodRx coupon. The copay on my Part D plan was $150/month. Yesterday when I picked up my refill the pharmacist told me I no longer have to pay anything since Medicare Part B now pays the total cost. This great news. I'm now considering switching to the injectable form of PreP to avoid taking a daily pill.
https://www.hiv.gov/blog/now-medicare-part-b-coverage-pre-exposure-prophylaxis-prep-for-hiv-prevention
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in ass eating/rimming???
The feel of the tops tongue on my hole and I just surrender.
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desertguy1954 reacted to Mark_in_SF in Fisters in DC
Asspig.com is a site for fist fuckers, and if you're in an area of any size there should be guys near you. They are typically very experienced, willing to share their expertise, and are a chatty bunch, so you can talk through your expectations ahead of time. Most guys into fisting both top and bottom, so your odds of finding someone to top you are very good.
The men on the site are mostly middle-aged or older. If that bothers you you may need to look elsewhere. Right now an experienced hand is what you need, so be open-minded.
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desertguy1954 got a reaction from liubit in ass eating/rimming???
The feel of the tops tongue on my hole and I just surrender.
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desertguy1954 reacted to DBWEHO in ass eating/rimming???
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