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    desertguy1954 reacted to whipped guy in My "pics" of the day   
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    desertguy1954 reacted to whipped guy in My "pics" of the day   
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    desertguy1954 reacted to Rudynate in Getting more and more difficult to deal with this   
    I have a small dick and I'm completely forthcoming when dick size comes up. I dont have any problems snagging men. I hardly think about it. Not sure when this transformation took place, but at some point in my life, I began to notice that my self esteem and self confidence were steadily getting better and better. And all of those things we think we have to conceal and apologize for mattered less and less. I wish I could tell you how I did it, but I cant.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + Travis69 in Getting more and more difficult to deal with this   
    I am not going to ever say a bad thing about my penis. It has entertained me too much. As long as it works I don't care how small it is.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + keroscenefire in Getting more and more difficult to deal with this   
    Sorry that you are feeling down on yourself. However, the reality is that in terms of sexual satisfaction, there is plenty that you can do regardless of your penis size. Personally, I have had a great time with many men who have smaller penises. Be confident in yourself and your own attractiveness and realize that with that attitude others will feel the same.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to calimascguy in Condoms and PrEP   
    Oh God yeah it's hotter! I'm on PrEP and just had guy do this with me. It's insanely hot knowing he's orgasming inside me, then just feeling him collapse on top of me as he comes down from it.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + JEC in Condoms and PrEP   
    Sex is not a "no risk" game gents. Even kissing has risks, as does oral sex, rimming etc. Each of us has to find what risk(s) we can live with and carry on from there. If your risk tolorance is zero, get off this site
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + StLouisOct in Kissing   
    I remember how startled I was when an escort said he liked my kissing and was tired of so many clients immediately trying to eat his face. It’s been said that the best cock sucking is by one who is making love to the cock. Not chowing down, but starting out gently with lips caressing. Same goes for lip kissing.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to hypothetically in Denver added to the “Unofficial” list of cities with the most wind-up clients:   
    I mean this with all due respect. But historically..all your post have the same tone. (Lions and tigers and flakes oh my). Maybe you should retire. This is not my experience, at all.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to Rudynate in Follow-up with a client?   
    I don't mind if escorts solicit me. With previous hires, it's definitely OK, but even cold calls are OK with me.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to Ryan Roman in Leaving a Room Key   
    I've had clients do that for me, and it's worked out very well.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to Mikegaite in Overexposure   
    I post a slew of photos in an attempt to give potential clients less of a fantasy about what I look like and more of a reality of what I actually look like. More photos give more insight into my appearance even on my bad days. I don't want to appear so hideous as to turn too many people away, but I am willing to present a more complete picture of myself rather than my best self and let the chips fall where they may. I would rather meet the people who will take me at my ugliest than the people who think I'm just borderline attractive enough to be worth hiring.
     
    Showing less is ultimately sexier and more attractive than showing more, but I personally feel more comfortable presenting a more comprehensive image of myself rather than luring people in. I'm not trying to look my best on screen just to look worse when I meet someone in person.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to hypothetically in Ice Breaker   
    Put the money on the table. Boom. Ice broken. (I’m kidding, kinda).
     
    I mean, you weren’t the one hired so technically it’s not your job to “break the ice,” but I understand some working boys lack social skills.
     
    But if you feel it’s absolutely your responsibility and makes you comfortable..I wouldn’t recommend getting all eHarmony and playing Sade or putting on a movie. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when clients compliment or bring up content/text they saw on my ad or RM interview, it leads to great convo and I feel additional research was done and time was taken to get to know me and I wasn’t just booked per physical appearance, but because there were mutual interests. I love contemporary art and have mentioned so extensively in my interview and am booked regularly by people who also love the arts. BUT, I also understand most profiles/interviews say “hung, xxl, like to work out, luxurious experience,” blah blah blah. Make do with what you have. Escorts love to talk about themselves, ask non-invasive, open-ended questions.
     
    Advice for the escort: fill out your goddamn interview and try not to sound like a tool. Yes you workout 5x a week, awesome. Most hookers do. But what else???
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + purplekow in Best sex with clients?   
    Sex with average bodied guys is usually average sex. What is average sex? Tremendous.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to hypothetically in Best sex with clients?   
    Often. Attractive physical attributes do not equal phenomenal sex.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Best sex with clients?   
    Never confuse pretty gift-wrapping with solid, time-tested technique.
     
    Some of the best sex I've had was with guys who were normal, everyday gents.
     
    On the flip side, some of the worst sex I've had was with the 'hottest' looking guys. They were entirely too self-aware to just let go and give into it.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to whipped guy in The art of rimming!   
    Would that I could be the guy with the smile in his face from this shot!
     
    http://24.media.tumblr.com/cf12cfbb631bc6173aa2f8a1fdb7fe80/tumblr_mt8naid2vm1sycvlfo1_500.gif
     
    PS to PK: ...and especially since the rimmer in the above GIF has a beard. I have used that technique on other parts of he body and have been told that it tickles. So I guess it depends on the type of beard/stubble. I doubt that a coarse sandpaper effect would do it for me. Though I do like the effect when a stiff scruff or stubbly beard rubs on my nips. I also like like the rough effect when making out... but I doubt that overly coarse-grained would work for me down there... For example, having a flogger with soft leather tails gently caress my butthole can drive me insane. Once I thought it was going to make me fall right through the floor! Use a flogger with stiffer tails and it leaves me cold.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to TruHart1 in Looking for the biggest cocks (monster's only)   
    Well...the obvious recommendation is our latest Escort of the Year, JD Daniels: http://rentmen.com/JDDanielsXXX
    He is 35 years old and is gifted with a very handsome face, a winning smile and engaging personality and a sexy, swimmer's body which serves to emphasize his 11 inch endowment! Oh, and he travels quite a bit so he may be in your area quite soon!
     
    TruHart1
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    desertguy1954 reacted to mike carey in Looking for the biggest cocks (monster's only)   
    Ah, so that's 'small' @Lance_Navarro. Ok, got it!
     
    One day, a personal assessment, one day!
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + PapaTony in Swallowing   
    My motto: “Good to the last drop” and you damn well let me take my time nursing out every SINGLE drop. Don’t give me that twitchy, sensitive cock after shooting BS - what’s mine is mine and you’re not going to deny me.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to Rudynate in Haircut And Shave   
    Very economical, but having someone cut your hair and trim your beard is one of those little luxuries that you shouldn't go without.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + Just966 in Pissing   
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    desertguy1954 reacted to Rudynate in What happen to Gay Gen Xers and Baby Boomers?   
    I'm not single. I have a relationship of 26 years' duration and we got married a little more than three years ago. I know lots of older gay men who are single. I believe they are single because it's what they want. Being single for all or most of one's life extracts a steep price - it IS lonely, they miss out on opportunities for intimacy and partnership and sharing. Yet they don't make the emotional and behavioral adjustments needed to sustain an intimate relationship with another man. They don't because they prefer the benefits of being single, most notable of which is an extreme autonomy. They don't answer to anybody. A result of this extreme autonomy is that they are strong, independent, resourceful men. As I said, that comes with a price, but I think they are willing to pay it.
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    desertguy1954 reacted to + peterhung85 in The best guy with NO face pics   
    Hello Gentlemen,
     
    First of all, I would like to thank ALL OF YOU (especially @kaboom35 @sexymonk @kenomora @Gar1eth @hornytwells @GLEE and @TruHart1 ) for making such a wonderful remark about me. I can't tell you how much I appreciate your kind and generous words.
     
    I completely understand and accept that advertising without face pictures has its drawbacks. I am fully aware of the fact that it influences the "buyer's decision" and if I am a client, looking to hire a professional, I would NOT obtain the services of anyone without face pictures, so I totally understand some people's concerns when they say that they would not see anyone without one.
     
    I have just met a gentleman in Los Angeles and he told me that even though people on this forum told him that I am "safe to see" and that my face is "beautiful" it did not necessarily mean much to him, simply because - as they say - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because X amount of people consider me good-looking, another set of people may not be into me and that's totally acceptable.
     
    I am fortunate enough to say that my regular work, as well as my amazing regular clients, keep me busy enough. While I still welcome new clients, I am not actively soliciting for new ones and while I no longer send out face pictures to prospective clients, I do offer a 5-minute public meet and greet at absolutely no charge. That is the risk I am willing to take.
     
    I thank everyone for his courage who decides to take the plunge and decides to see me and do my absolute best in my actions to resonate my gratitude so that the next time we meet, it will be less concerning and even more fun-filled!
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    desertguy1954 reacted to marylander1940 in Silver foxes and DILFs   
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