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OK so delete the messages or reach out to admin and ask for them to be deleted. 
 
A good example of how careful people must be when publicly publishing damaging stuff like that.  And to be straight up lying 'just to hurt' a provider - jesus christ.  It never fucking ends with the shit we deal with EVERY DAY. 

OK so delete the messages or reach out to admin and ask for them to be deleted. 
 
A good example of how careful people must be when publicly publishing damaging stuff like that.  And to be straight up lying 'just to hurt' a provider - jesus christ.  It never fucking ends with the shit we deal with EVERY DAY. 

OK so delete the messages or reach out to admin and ask for them to be deleted. 
 
A good example of how careful people must be when publicly publishing damaging stuff like that.  And to be straight up lying 'just to hurt' a provider - jesus christ.  It never fucking ends with the shit we deal with EVERY DAY. 

OK so delete the messages or reach out to admin and ask for them to be deleted. 
 
A good example of how careful people must be when publicly publishing damaging stuff like that.  And to be straight up lying 'just to hurt' a provider - jesus christ.  It never fucking ends with the shit we deal with EVERY DAY. 

Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

Yes it’s not Wendy’s. What happens is clients would book the cuddle and hand job session but then expect to fuck bareback just because they got more horny in the moment. Then it gets awkward…mid session negotiations on extra services. I’m not going to up sell in a session nor do I want to negotiate extra services mid session. It kills the whole thing. Pay his rate and do whatever you’re comfortable with within the boundaries of his services. 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

It's poor form to post them publicly, as they may differ in differing cities taking into account hotel/travel, incall or outcall, for clients who do want different things. 
Best practice is to DM someone, or for the most accurate advice on rate - as the provider. 
 

Hello Everyone,
I have exhausted all attempts on trying to find this thief so I'm reaching out to the only place I know that will keep it real. He recently came to Denver, CO his original name on rentmen was 'kingPush' but since the incident he has changed his name to 'PPARZWHIL.' I have to say that I've enjoyed the escorts on rent men, I have good ones, and some okay escorts but this individual has completely ruined, and changed my entire perspective on men, the signs of someone who is going to rob you, and the aftermath after the incident. 
 
Before we met, everything was normal there wasn't anything that stuck out to me until we had a conversation about the money. I would rather pay via Zelle only because it's instant, and we take care of business ahead of time so there are no discrepancies. In one of the screenshots Iet him know that I wanted to just use my cards but he insisted that I have cash only. For 15 minutes he kept going back and forth with me on how he doesn't do the online stuff only cash. It was turning me off, but because I lead with a horny mindset, I gave in and told him I would do cash, and half of it on cash app. The payment was $400 for one hour and I was okay with it. 
 
I got a hotel room to keep this rather discreet, and just so he would understand that he could trust me. Anytime I book an escort I make sure that above all else they are comfortable, etc.. He arrives and he definitely was a "looker" in which he looked better than this photos which was a plus. I was very excited and wanted to get to business. He asks to use the bathroom, I say of course, he spends some time in there, but I didn't think any of it. He's comes out and he sits down. He immediately asks for the money. I let him know I have it but let's have a conversation because he was rather tense for some odd reason. He doesn't want to talk further he then firmly says, "I need the money." Respecting his space, I hand him first the $200 in cash. He counts it, and then talks about how he's from Chicago so things are a lot different and he's doing this for his two kids (boy and girl) and that this was the easiest way he could make money for the kids. I admired that, then we do the cash app deal. First, I was a little caught off guard because he gave me the name of someone completely different and I was skeptical on doing it....but again me leading with a horny mindset did not prepare me for what happened next. 
After sending, and the dust settles he then grabs his jacket and tries to run out of the door. I was stunned for a split second, but I ran after him. We start to fight, he's punching me, and I'm punching him. I scream and then he says if I had my blade I would kill you. I'm not allowing him to leave then he tried to uppercut me, I dodged it, went around the hallway corner, and tripped. He guns for if down the hallway, outside, and I never saw him again. 
After that brief scuffle, I felt so betrayed, so dumb, so hopeless because I trusted him, even put him, before myself, and he managed to play me to the point of no return, and rob me of $400.
All I ask is that you all please if there are any red flags to PLEASE just say no. It was early and he was adamant about having to leave to go back to Chicago, and I just wanted sex. I blame myself for a lot of this because the signs were there I just did not take heed before destruction. If anyone knows this man's name please comment but I view black men a lot different now, and my trust is completely gone for everyone around me. It wasn't about the $409 it was the fact that after I text him from possibly 3 different numbers he called me a goof, and said that he should have stolen more from me. Please be aware of this man. And moreso I have learned to be taken heed on signs before destruction. I had a busted lip, and knee scrapping from the fall, but I am doing well. If ANYONE knows this man's name please respond in the comments. I reached out to authorities already if they find him he goes to jail for robbery it was all caught on tape and the police have it. Sorry for the long media but I must FIND HIM. Thank you for your time.....
 

 
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Next time, let the guy go...your fight could have ended up costing you a lot more than $400.   Think with your big head.

I think @JB_Studio38 vents his frustration here sometimes. I try to see things from his perspective (after all I am doing similar work, so feel that I can empathise with a little more gravitas than some commentators who seem to know a lot about sex work without actually having done it…).
There are a lot of frustrations with the work: the marginal legality (in some jurisdictions), the very flaky clients, the variability of income, the lack of structure, the dealing with the public (there are some very stupid people out there…it’s astonishing sometimes). But on the other hand there’s great benefits to doing the work; flexibility, meeting fantastic people, great experiences, the money, the feeling one gets when someone says to you that you just delivered one of their all time fantasies (only sex workers will be able to understand that). And you can manage and structure your business to mitigate for all the drawbacks I mentioned above. 
The biggest challenge though is that there’s so few people to talk to about the work because only those who do it can really understand how you feel. It can be very isolating. I think this is where he is coming from.
And I’ll add you can make decent income from Onlyfans (I do) but it’s not without a lot of work. It’s not quite as simple as it looks. 
 

Why do you always have to write such a long essay? Get to the point...

Brevity is the very soul of his writing style.

Dont believe what you see on social media.  Most escorts barely get by - there is a reason why 90% of them have roommates.  They may get 20 inquiries but will be lucky to get 1 booking a day. They frequently go through dry spells.  They dont make the money you seem to think they do.  Onlyfans only pay off if you are in the top 1% which is hard to do in a saturated market. 

I have had a regular who said he wants to see me more but can't afford it, so I reduced my rate to 250 and he now sees me weekly. 
In order to get discounts like this - you would need to be a regular first.  
To be clear, that would be to see someone more than 4-5 times. 

Life was simpler when all you had to do was this:

I have accepted amazon gift card as deposit from a client who lived abroad and was traveling to my city, as a non American electronic payments like venmo and cashapp were not available to him. I wouldn't accept it as payment for service as there you need to load it to your amazon account before you can verify it is  valid card. There wouldn't be much to stop  "client' giving you a used card as he leaves.  
 
With the deposit i was able to just receive the code. 

I wont see clients, especially new ones generally after midnight. They are always drunk/high and it's a more vulnerable place to put myself in.  My safety is paramount. 
When they are in this state it is harder to satisfy them also, too drunk to get hard etc. 
 

Ebori - My dude when you read this forum, don't stress or feel bad.
You are 21, you have a great body, beautiful eyes, a head full of hair. You are very sexy and most of these guys commenting are lurkers who have absolutely nothing going for them in life and they get off on talking shit about guys who would never look twice at them.