Nue2thegame

Sometimes my nose gets congested but, depending on how things are progressing, it’s more often the congestion in my groin that makes me want to turn over.

It also may mean that you are imminently fuckable.

Depending on who and where you are, the economy is contracting and unemployment is rising. While I haven’t noticed a drop in rates, I suspect some of the new talent are just trying to make ends meet, so to speak.

Some say it’s a security precaution, which is dubious If things go south, they know who to go look for. Alternatively, they may use it to screen clients for whatever parameters they are looking for or wish to exclude. Once a photo is sent, it’s permanently in the cybersphere. I’ve almost never done it and have very rarely been asked for one. It’s a red flag for me.

What kind of “therapist”?

I don’t think that her influence in the US was marginal. I remember having a poster of her in a very scant bikini hanging in my bedroom as a pre-pubescent adolescent. But tastes change ……

Not sure where you are but that’s way above normal for anywhere in the US. Many, if not most, have provided exactly what you are seeking. I would go with their standard rate. You might tip them, if you feel the need to offer more. You should have your pick of many. Good luck with your pursuit.

Leaving some flyers in an STI clinic or their public restroom might help recruit some interested volunteers.

Fascinating and informative. Your path clearly worked for you. Thanks for sharing this.

You certainly have a more mature approach than many of us. I rarely host, so delays and cancellations are more problematic for me. That said, I have seen some providers that aren’t great time managers (sometimes that works to my advantage), are chronically late but provide over the top experiences. We have an understanding and I’m happy to roll with the flow with them. Others aren’t worth the time and aggravation and I haven’t followed up with them. In the end, it’s a judgement call that comes from experience, some good ones and some bad ones. In the OPs case, if he’s a regular, contrite about this episode, sincere about making an earnest effort in the future, and, if I really valued his company, I would probably cut him some slack. Failing any one of those conditions, I would move on.

Or a probing into another kind of probing.

I’ve encountered this twice and both times, all were cool with it. But I can easily imagine a situation where the dynamic between the couples was less ideal and things could quickly go south. I don’t think that there is a hard and fast rule here but you should go with your instincts.

From an ad promoting “footing” as an alternative to fisting.

I don’t think that I’d like dating the “expert”!

Agree with all of above except that I didn’t find him to be a clock watcher - we went overtime without comment.

And then there is the matter of what to about the personal toys, dildos, P Diddy volume of lubricants, costumes, harnesses, S&M regalia etc. all left for the unsuspecting to discover.

Bump

We feel your pain. I think the consensus here is to go slow. No need to get married now but see how all of the issues that have come up in this thread evolve. Your relationship may strengthen as a result or you may ultimately go your separate ways. Either way, you should have greater clarity.

Call me anything but late for dinner.

Tipping should always be discretionary although it’s often expected in many service encounters. I don’t think there should be a difference in expectations for in-home vs. spa tipping. If anything, in home service might warrant a greater tip because of the extra effort involved. That said, if I felt that I had already overpaid for the service, I might be less inclined to tip or offer a more modest one.

I don’t like it either but have learned to tolerate it when it’s shouted in a moment of exceptional passion (few and far between). But, “who’s your daddy” can mean something entirely different. Papi has a little different connotation from “Daddy “. In addition to meaning father, it can also be used as a substitute for buddy or pal, according to this gringo.

Nice to be back on track with this discussion. Previous contributions, now redacted, seemed to suffer from the misconception that we are a Bible Study Group.

I’m not sure that covered shoes would have offered much protection to an 84 year old woman’s big toe from a 190 pound guard landing on her foot.

I have known a few providers, including married couples, that have been in ongoing relationships but none for more than 3 years. I’ve met many more that have talked about the trials and tribulations of seeking a long term relationship and many have given up, expressing the expectation to pursue that goal after they stop escorting. While I’m sure there are more successful examples, my impression is that it’s a long hard formidable challenge to have a committed relationship with a provider unless both embrace the same lifestyle. The fact that you are just learning of this doesn’t bode well. I wish you luck.

I’m more troubled by the massage on a table with no cover! Uggh!