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Not hiring anytime soon.

Not hiring anytime soon.

Same as my experience. Was fine. Haven’t repeated.

Perhaps I am overly cautious, but I am refraining at the moment from hiring. Sensual massages often involve kissing and other potential activities for transmission. I have enough possibilities for exposure in my work life (which does not involve kissing, but does involve many people working in close proximity in an enclosed space) so I’d rather minimize risk elsewhere. That is, until I can’t take it anymore.

Saw him recently. B massage. Body did not look like pics. I don’t think those are his pics.
Super nice guy tho and definitely handsome

Hi everybody!
 
A few friends have brought this website and thread to my attention. I figured it was best to address any concerns/allegations head on. At least, that’s how I was raised
 
First and foremost, I want to apologize to any person that I offended. I never intended to be rude, disrespectful, or crude to anybody. I sincerely mean that. I take significant pride in cultivating meaningful and fun relationships with my clients. Anything contrary would be antithetical to how I handle business.
 
Second, the past year has been rough for me regarding family (including a death). Sadly, it has forced me to rearrange my plans with clients. However, I would always offer at least 6+ hours in advance before cancelling. And this has only happened twice (I remember each one because I absolutely loath cancelling; it’s frustrating, extremely inconvenient, and unprofessional). Each time, however, my request was accommodated and (thankfully) understood + respected. If somebody had a change of heart or walked away with a bad taste, I’m so sorry. That’s on me.
 
Now have I ever had a demeaning or disparaging interaction with others? Unfortunately, yes. I know other escorts whom have faced similar experiences. I simply disengage and walk away. Professionalism is key.
 
Regarding a disappearing deposit, I have to outright deny this. Not only has this never happened, but I don’t even accept electronic payment. Two reasons for this: 1) I don’t have any means to conveniently transfer money with the exception of PayPal and, 2) years ago a client insisted he pay me via PayPal. I didn’t think much of it until he reported the transaction and flagged it as fraudulent. I was turned off from electronic payment ever again. It has always been my business practice to rely on cash and to never, ever expect it up front.
 
I don’t have a large clientele since I don’t do this full time (I work part time as a speech writer — fun fact). However, I make it a point to communicate clearly, professionally, and with compassion. I love what I do and I want it to show.
 
I look forward to interacting with others on this awesome community and I hope to make new friends. Feel free to PM me whenever and whatever — I’m an open book
 
xoxo
 
Dalton

I don't send pics either, for the same reason that I don't do social media. Once you place your image in the hands of others you can't control how it is used.

If it has been that long of a time and nothing has progressed as you would hope, be happy with the skills that are provided and don't step your bounds. You would hate to ruin a good thing. Trust me, he would already be doing more with you in eight long years if he wanted to. I've had the same experience as you with someone like you described, although in half the amount of time in years. I still keep in touch, but I've moved on from him.

Anybody have any recent experience?

The private pics are just more of the same in his basic profile. No nudity if that was what you were hoping for.

Regularly transmitting STDs, and consistently treating them with antibiotics is not to be taken lightly, and is part of the reason why some STDs develop strains that are more difficult to treat.
 
I have a friend who has always had a casual attitude towards sex... he loves bare backing, because he’s “allergic” to condoms, and is now on “prep”...he has casually admitted to having quite a few STDs over the years and over the past 10 years, he now suffers from an auto-immune, “condition”, that causes numerous flare ups, and attacks many parts of his
Body... his immune system is permanently weakened.....
 
I seriously believe that the consistent transmission of STDs over the years played a significant role in his questionable health now.

The worst is indulging the hot anticipation of seeing the new guy, inevitably being disappointed, and then immediately hiring the reliable regular to make up for it.

+1 for Aleks - He is consistently great.

At least for me, Pasha is not sensual at all during the massage.

Out of the four, I've seen Steve, Tommy and Jon.
 
Tommy - he is an excellent masseur. Professional but have done sessions with me that were quite sensual. Extremely nice guy and accommodating.

Tommy: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/3568/

Steve - he does a hard hitting, almost torture-like deep tissue massage session at his fabulous apartment in the sky. Table is set up with a clear view of the water and the city. It is quite sensual.

Steve: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38706/

Jon - I think he's the cutest of the 3. He has the good massage skills but certainly not as good as Tommy or Steve. Very nice guy as well and funny. Also sensual aspect part of the session.

Jon: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32922/

I have not seen JR. Going through his IG as well as his BF's IG pages, I don't think we will match up well.

JR: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36830/

Not sure why some people promote him so much . I found him descent masseurs . Nothing so extra ordinary even the ?? average not so big

Don't hesitate. Sean checks all the boxes. I recently tried him for the first time and was pleased. He's an all around nice guy as well. Good location, nice very private studio in an office building. You will like Sean.

He's VERY good, and delivers an incredible therapeutic massage, and can go very deep without being painful. I'm one of his regulars as well.

Sean's massage skills are excellent! I'm somewhat of a regular.

Massage was great, he was able to go deep and it felt good, on a table in his studio with some stretching involved

I have a couple of favorite people that visit NYC and I appreciate when they give me a heads-up that they are visiting. They both send similar texts saying, "Hey, I will be in NYC in 2 weeks. Let me know if you want to get get together."
Nobody has access to my cell but even if they did, the way they text, works for me.

I usually send a message like this...
 
"Hey buddy, I am planning to come to town (insert dates here).
Let me know if you are available and would like to meet up while I am in town "

I was going to write about this same problem a couple weeks ago but didn't have time. I went to someone highly touted here as a giving a great massage and he barely massaged me (less than 5 min) before he was all over me in every possible way.
It was really upsetting as I was mentally trying to balance either saying"get off" or trying to get in the mood. But it was so quick, that i was totally turned off.
It was a difficult situation to rectify during the massage because i didn't want to kill the mood all together by even subtly suggesting to back off.
I am bewildered because there were so many people in the Spa who said his massage skills were great.
Bottom line is i am not going back.

Easier said then done. On my end, I go for massages not only because they are relaxing, but also because I like the mystery of having a masseur provide my experience and not knowing what to expect next. But I’ll tell you, not very many will want 5 minutes of rubbing followed by a fuck. If massage receivers wanted a fuck only, they wouldn’t book a masseur.
 
I’ve had a couple guys go down this path and I even said things like “why don’t you massage me some more” but those types of Masseurs will eventually go their way because that’s all they know.

I know this is too late and most people are now using this post to talk about individual Masseurs, but for anyone “new” seeking a massage, I understand it’s tempting to research the hell out of this. You’re spending a lot of money and want to make sure it’s spend wisely, but at some point you have to let go and give it an experience. Sometimes if you know exactly what you’ll experience it’s not as enjoyable. Find a guy you find attractive. Make sure his reviews are positive and take a plunge.