How to resist the urge to hire a masseur?

[+ 7829V]

For me calling a friend and making plans for dinner or drinks helps. Hehe. Enjoyable too and less expensive

[Hey_Jay]

For me calling a friend and making plans for dinner or drinks helps. Hehe. Enjoyable too and less expensive

 

 

I hear ya! I think more than 2 in a month it’s a luxury. Gym and meeting up friends outside sometimes works ?

[PaulM]

Jacking off usually works...

[hrlmguy]

@PaulM - It certainly does!!

[+ Just Sayin]

live in a city where the choices are not optimal!

[IntuitiveTactile]

Get a hobby

[Onamission]

Get a hobby

What if getting a massage is my hobby?

[+ EVdude]

Stop reading this Forum!

[Becket]

The great thing about this forum is i always finds people who have the similar issues. I love the process of hunting up a massage, getting ready for it, thinking about what's to come. Then, after it's done and the money's gone, nine times out of ten there is a feeling of.......MEH!!

[+ nycman]

Jacking off usually works...

I’ve found masterbation solves every “male problem”.

[dcsmlxl]

Find a buddy and trade massages with him.

[+ Just Sayin]

Find a buddy and trade massages with him.

 

there used to be a website for massage exchanges; I found this article:

 

http://wellfellow.com/gay-massage-exchanges/

 

has anyone had any experiences with any of the websites?

[Unonymous30xxx]

there used to be a website for massage exchanges; I found this article:

 

http://wellfellow.com/gay-massage-exchanges/

 

has anyone had any experiences with any of the websites?

 

I've used MMX with a small amount of success

[Redwine56]

The great thing about this forum is i always finds people who have the similar issues. I love the process of hunting up a massage, getting ready for it, thinking about what's to come. Then, after it's done and the money's gone, nine times out of ten there is a feeling of.......MEH!!

Well then Becket, you've got to work on those odds. In the NY market,

I'd say one out of 10 is meh! You've got to reward your regulars and then reach out to new ones after doing your research on this forum.

[big dale]

Maybe this book will help...

 

https://www.amazon.com/Images-You-Should-Not-Masturbate/dp/0399536493

 

[+ azdr0710]

Jacking off usually works...

 

and you'll sleep like a baby, too.....

[Bluefin]

The worst is indulging the hot anticipation of seeing the new guy, inevitably being disappointed, and then immediately hiring the reliable regular to make up for it.

[+ 7829V]

The worst is indulging the hot anticipation of seeing the new guy, inevitably being disappointed, and then immediately hiring the reliable regular to make up for it.

Haha. Are you me?

[Monarchy79]

I’ve found masterbation solves every “male problem”.

Amen!!! Masturbation:

1.) prevents STDs

2.) reduces stress

3.) lowers blood pressure

4.) mitigates mercy fucks

5.) prevents going on bad dates

 

the list goes on...

[Guest europeanman]

By masseur you mean actually masseur or escort?

[Guest]

Amen!!! Masturbation:

1.) prevents STDs

2.) reduces stress

3.) lowers blood pressure

4.) mitigates mercy fucks

5.) prevents going on bad dates

 

the list goes on...

 

6.) saves a ton of $$$

Edited November 23, 2019 by Oaktown

[+ 7829V]

By masseur you mean actually masseur or escort?

Masseur. I rarely hire escorts.

[Guest europeanman]

Masseur. I rarely hire escorts.

So just massage with no sex component. I would think that this is something like getting a haircut. There is no urge to resist in getting a haircut.

[dcsmlxl]

I've used MMX with a small amount of success

When I lived in NYC, I had some really great experiences with MMX. Pictures were generally accurate and people seemed genuinely interested in giving and receiving good massages....and if more happened, it happened organically.

[hypothetically]

Amen!!! Masturbation:

1.) prevents STDs

2.) reduces stress

3.) lowers blood pressure

4.) mitigates mercy fucks

5.) prevents going on bad dates

 

the list goes on...

 

Until it’s counterintuitive and your hunger for live-action penis is now greater than before.