PoundMeOnaPlane

The first man I ever had sex with, was twice my age. 
Now...most men, twice my age are long dead.  
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In addition to being a smart marketing move by providers, I think daddies are having a bit of a moment. I’m in my early 50s and get far more attention from guys in their 20s than I did when I was in my 20s.

Daddies have "Dadditude" 😆

PREACH!

You take the good
You take the bad
You take them both and there you have the facts of life.
 

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Many are also old, fat, and bald....
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There’s a type and attraction to certain older men that get the label daddy. I think a lot of providers are really just inviting older men with disposable income to hire them by listing daddies in the “into” list whether that’s what they’re really into or not.

Daddies (older men whether they're childless or not) usually have money if they did things right growing up. 
Not all "daddies" become DILFs.
 

A topic near and dear to my heart. LOL I love a daddy, though some days I feel more like a granddaddy myself. 😂 Why providers list it, I can’t say. For me, whether as a client or in my personal life, a daddy is a mix of both. Sure, the physical presence is appealing, but what really resonates is the behavior: that grounded blend of authority, steadiness, and care. Age can play a role, but for me it’s more about the energy someone brings into the dynamic.

Flakes suck. All of them.
 
Clients who flake? Suck.
Providers who flake? Also suck.
Snowflakes? Beautiful, but still technically flakes.
 
Let’s be clear: contrary to what seems to be the majority view, both clients and providers take losses when someone flakes, and neither side gets to declare their loss is greater by default. Loss is personal—it’s measured by the person who feels it. Time, money, energy, libido… all valuable currencies in this hobby.
 
I’ve never ghosted. Ever. But yes, I have cancelled—because after a provider moved the time three times over three hours, I realized I had aged a full decade waiting and still didn’t have a door number. At that point, what were we doing? We both lost—me an encounter, him a donation, and both of us a shot at something fun. Equal-opportunity disappointment.
 
Look, many great points have been made about how ghosting hurts providers—especially those who’ve prepped, traveled, or blocked out time. I totally agree. But the idea that providers are somehow immune to causing damage? Nope. When they fail to communicate, constantly reschedule, or underdeliver, they lose something too: goodwill. And in this world, goodwill is the glue that holds things together. (Well, goodwill… and lube.)
 
This hobby is a risk, plain and simple. No one walks into it bubble-wrapped and insured. Both parties can and do get burned. That’s exactly why flaking—on either side—needs to be treated like the venereal disease of behavior: preventable, irritating, and contagious if not handled.
 
If something comes up for a client (and I do mean comes up 👀), then at the very least, send the provider their fee. Don’t be that person. Be the kind of person you’d want to book.
Conversely… what should a provider do when they waste the client’s time? That’s the part where things get hazy—and honestly, it’s infuriating. It feels like when providers flake, the response is “Oh well, he’s probably tired.” When a client flakes? Out come the pitchforks.
 
And finally, as a Public Service Announcement to all the non-newbies who are warming up their fingers to pile on me for saying any of this:
 
Please know, I absolutely enjoy being at the bottom of a pile of moaning men.
(Just make sure you’re on time.)
 
Cheers and lube to all. 🥂

Well, after all, men can better appreciate the value of a big tip. Especially when it goes in.

I can’t even remember when it happened but over the years I’ve become reliant on escorts, both as a stress relief, and of course to fulfil my needs.  It’s been a costly habit but I’ve met some great guys (and some terrible ones!) but on average the good experiences weigh out the bad.  And I’ve got to have sex with some super hot guys that wouldn’t look twice at me in real life.  I think of the beautiful lips I’ve kissed, the massive cocks I’ve sucked and taken, and the assess I’ve eaten… my cup has runneth over.
I don’t think I could ever give up escorts but the costs aren’t sustainable, certainly not at the level I have been indulging.  I’ve gone back on the apps for the first time in a decade and even went to a sauna recently, wondering if I can go back to hooking up.  Of course cold hard reality has hit me in the face. I’m not as attractive as I used to be and anyone I can attract… well, it’s a pretty big dip from what I’ve become used to.
I realize this is a first world problem that deserves absolutely no sympathy. I’m just wondering, can anyone relate? If so, did you make a successful transition? Again I’m not looking to quit the escort scene completely, but rather mix it up and get some balance back into my life.

Yes, I have several times. 
In Las Vegas, with Jason mentioned above but also with others.
I participated in several naked yoga sessions at CMEN camping events.  More information on CMEN (Community of Men Enjoying Naturism) can be found at: 
www.cmen.org
That's why I go to a yoga session: For the yoga.
If I wanted a sex party I could just go to a bathhouse or turn on Grindr.
As nudists or naturists should know, being nude is about being comfortable in one's own skin and not making every interaction about sexual arousal.
 

"If it ain't broke, don't fix it."

Excellent advice! And applicable in many, many situations. 👌 

Self-reporting one's sexual orientation is as reliable as self-reporting weight and penis size.  It doesn't matter unless you think it does. 

Hey, I just want to clarify a few things since there seem to be some assumptions being made.
What I do is a side gig, not my main source of income. I own and run my own business, and I actually have plenty of free time—so I split it between bodybuilding, travel, and my regular clients.
I don’t have sex with friends or do “friends with benefits.” Friends are just friends. Every session I’ve ever had has been with someone I’m genuinely attracted to. I always ask for a photo and screen carefully beforehand to make sure there’s chemistry on my end.
I don’t take any pills or drugs (other than 420 occasionally). I’m just a very sexual person who enjoys real connection—and I don’t vibe with how people act in the general dating world these days. What I do has become a space where I get to share fun, safe, and genuine moments with kind people I actually like. Many of them have been with me for a long time, and it shows in my reviews.
I don’t see just anyone—I care more about energy and kindness than looks. My clients know what I do, my hobbies, and how I run my business.
And for clarity, I only ever see one client a day, maximum—sometimes two if I’m traveling and it’s logistically right. I don’t work in volume; I focus on quality and make sure every experience is authentic and unrushed. Sometimes sessions aren’t even sexual—they’re just human connection.
So please don’t assume or compare me to others in this industry.
Here’s a recent photo of my current physique.
where is the guy on here who laughed about hanging tits during my process? lol. 

I'm a gearhead.  I have four cars - two "normal" and two classics, a small motorcycle and I'm trying to figure out how can own an antique tractor while living in the city. 

Cooking!
This was an all-day smoked pork shoulder 😁

No. If the session is in a major city. Bozo politely informs the provider to use public transportation. If he refuses, that's a deal-breaker, and Bozo moves on.
If the session is in a rural area or location not accessible to public transportation, the provider should use his own vehicle,
Hiring an escort or masseur is no different than hiring a locksmith, house painter, exterminator or any other independent contractor. You pay them for their services. Transportation is their problem. Not yours. 
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I'm OK with covering an Uber if the outcall is my request. But if the provider does outcall only, and doesn't give me an option, they should cover travel expenses.

There are always travel fees. It can be a flat fee, or increase to the outcall price or based on the particular situation. This may include gas, parking fees, or an Uber. 
Providers should be expected to bring whatever materials are necessary to perform the job, but NOT pay any amount to conduct the session. 
 
For those trying to make the comparison, can confirm plumbers and gardeners have lower rates when you bring your plumbing and yards to them ...🫩

The main issue of this subject is trust. You want someone to come to see you to a certain place but in the era of burning numbers and communication by text it's difficult to know if it's a legitimate request or someone playing games.
I would suggest sending an Uber to pick up the escort for him to know I won't flake for the first encounter. After that the price of commute should be included in the bill.
 

Why 2 locales and 2 names?
Possibilities:
1) Full time job takes him between the two, and having the moniker unique to each makes it easier to match client with calendar.
2) Same as above, but rather than job, has family needing help in one, away from primary city.
3) Has multiple personality disorder combined with intense love of Hudson News shops and Starbucks addiction. 
4) Planning on running for Congress from a third state where he's a pastor with a wife and kids, and will definitely need different names coming up in photo search. 
See? It's simple. 

I have seen this provider in sydney and can confirm he has the biggest dick I have ever had inside me.