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I like them both. What I don’t like is a 6 who doesn’t charge accordingly. 

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 
How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)
Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

Did you ever ask? From what you said, he works in a gay bar, is flirty, dresses in short shots or underwear, and has worked you as a customer to get massive tips. He knows he makes you wet. You gave him your number, but how is he to know whether your intention was to date or hire?
What’s the harm in saying something like: “I understand “no” is a complete sentence, but I would absolutely love to hire you for some private time” or however you want to phrase it. (“I’d love for you to give me the tip next time, and the shaft.”) I guarantee you he has heard it before. And if you’re generally a nice guy, tip well, and take the rejection gracefully, he’s unlikely to be offended and he wants to keep the tips coming. 

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 
How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)
Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

I always pay in cash, and I usually fan it out when I put it down. That way that they can quickly eyeball the amount. If I tip, I might also say I put a little extra for you. 

I always pay in cash, and I usually fan it out when I put it down. That way that they can quickly eyeball the amount. If I tip, I might also say I put a little extra for you. 

I don’t have any intel beyond his ad, but it looks like he could stretch a guy out. 
 
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I usually start taking my shoes off the moment I walk in the door. That tends to get the ball rolling for what is to come. I have to admit, my favorite, vanilla fetish is to have the provider open the door in just a robe or a towel wrapped around his waist. With just a tug, I can have him naked with his cock down my throat before the door has closed. 

I’ll add when they go off on some xxx rant. I met Alex Volkov (still hot, but all roided out). He started swooning about Elon Musk and how wonderful he was. I was glad I had already cum, because I lost any remaining interest at that point. Between the cost and the steroids, I would only have seen him once anyway. But I wanted another shower to wash the xxx off. 
Edit: Remember no politics

I have been hiring men for years. I always put away the valuables when I host, but I have never lost anything when I have met at the provider’s location. Not once, not even when I went to use the shower. There is always a risk, but my experience is that it is minimal. 

I’ll add when they go off on some xxx rant. I met Alex Volkov (still hot, but all roided out). He started swooning about Elon Musk and how wonderful he was. I was glad I had already cum, because I lost any remaining interest at that point. Between the cost and the steroids, I would only have seen him once anyway. But I wanted another shower to wash the xxx off. 
Edit: Remember no politics

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 
How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)
Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 
How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)
Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 
How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)
Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

I have been hiring men for years. I always put away the valuables when I host, but I have never lost anything when I have met at the provider’s location. Not once, not even when I went to use the shower. There is always a risk, but my experience is that it is minimal. 

I usually start taking my shoes off the moment I walk in the door. That tends to get the ball rolling for what is to come. I have to admit, my favorite, vanilla fetish is to have the provider open the door in just a robe or a towel wrapped around his waist. With just a tug, I can have him naked with his cock down my throat before the door has closed. 

I have been hiring men for years. I always put away the valuables when I host, but I have never lost anything when I have met at the provider’s location. Not once, not even when I went to use the shower. There is always a risk, but my experience is that it is minimal. 

I met him a while back. Sweet guy, responsive, and reasonably priced. Pretty green eyes. 

I have once or twice done this, but only for providers I've been seeing for years who are established.
The deal is whatever money I advance comes out of the next session.
One thing I won't do is advance money equal or more than a single session; I make sure they still get some money when they next come to see me. That's just insurance.

Most providers in the US either state “safe only” in their ads or they offer raw. I personally believe the onus is on you to state it if you require specific conditions for you to perform any service. Does your ad copy state “bb costs more”? Because it should. And that way you (and your clients) can avoid any nasty surprises. 

Rentmen allows you to set whether the history of your visits is visible to the provider. I choose anonymity for precisely this reason. 

Rentmen allows you to set whether the history of your visits is visible to the provider. I choose anonymity for precisely this reason. 

Met him. He is a very, very pretty young man. I am looking forward to meeting him again. His English is somewhat rudimentary, but that was the least of my concerns. 

Let’s start with him demanding payment up front. It is never a good sign. He did look like his photos, but it was not a great experience. I will not repeat and say caveat emptor. 

Met him. He is a very, very pretty young man. I am looking forward to meeting him again. His English is somewhat rudimentary, but that was the least of my concerns.