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Therapy sessions should focus on your problems and issues - it is not a time for the therapist to process his own thoughts or affirm his own life decisions. It's your time and your dime. There are rare occasions when a therapist, for therapeutic reasons only, might share some personal information or experience, but in doing so he always runs the risk of "giving advice" rather than helping you to develop the insight to make your own decisions. I provided therapy for many years and clients usually "vote with their feet" as to the efficacy of the therapy they are receiving.

Newatthis has some excellent advice. As "newatthis" has stated, the Medicare Part B deductible is $183 and the difference in premiums for Plan F (which has no deductible) is greater than just paying the deductible of Plan G (which does not cover the $183 deductible). That is why I have Plan G. I went to a private Insurance broker and purchased a policy from a company that you have never heard of but is highly rated by Consumer Reports and by a cursory review of online comments. I have only had a couple of instances of using my Medicare Supplement and have had no problems with this company. One consideration in getting a Medicare Supplement is that there are three ways in which the premiums are figured: 1)Community Rated; 2)Issue-Age policy; 3)Attained-Age policy. My policy is "Community Rated" which means that I pay a higher rate (everyone in the plan pays the same rate regardless of age) but will not see drastic increases as I get older. You could get a policy that is "Attained Age" which would be lower initially but would see much higher rates as you age. For a good explanation of these three ways in which premiums are set see: https://www.medicare.gov/find-a-plan/staticpages/learn/how-insurance-companies-price-policies.aspx?AspxAutoDetectCookieSupport=1

Nobody is worth $200 an inch "to have fun."

I also make my bed most days though I only do so if I am able to air it out for a couple of hours. It's my understanding that it's actually more hygienic to leave your bed covers down during the day to let it dry out. But, something just doesn't seem right if I leave home with an unmade bed. http://www.businessinsider.com/the-disgusting-reason-to-stop-making-your-bed-2015-9

Not really gay, but with Jan Michael Vincent in the lead role, it certainly had gay appeal. I'm speaking of "Tribes" an ABC Movie of the Week back in 1970.

Southwest Airlines will come up as "View Deal" if the origin city has a direct flight to the destination city. Or, at least it does on my searches on Kayak.

I had never heard of the term "Eggplant" in reference to blacks until I live in Philly. Italians (maybe others) in that city refer to blacks as "moulinyan" or "moolies." I thought it was racist, but apparently not.

My criteria for a "nice" hotel is: 1) it's safe; 2) it's clean (no bugs); 3) good location; 4) value - not too expensive; 5) staff is friendly; 6) parking is free (if I am driving there); 7) free and good Wi-Fi; 8) my escort can get in-and-out without hassle; 9) tv and AC work; 10) good value - not too expensive (yeah, I know, I already said that). I don't give two hoots if the hotel is 5* or 2.5* - if it saves me money and suits my purposes, I'm staying there.

You can "uncheck" those sites before you begin your search and they won't pop up.

Given the choice, I'd personally take the one on the right.

Kayak has generally proven accurate for me in prognosticating future fares.

Was at Swinging Richard's last Thursday evening from about 11 pm to 12:0o am. Since I had just had an encounter at my hotel with a very hot escort, I was only there for relaxation and sightseeing. I used Uber for the first time and, I have to admit, was pleasantly surprised that I only paid a little over $5 (from Buckhead) to SR though I did car-share with another customer. The pickup by Uber was swift and the driver was very professional. The dancers were hot but not very interactive - was not impressed . There were very few customers and most of the dancers were sitting around on their butts talking to each other. As I was walking to the bar for a drink, one of the dancers, who was sitting next to another dancer, asked me if I had herpes (I had cut myself shaving and had a very small Band-Aid over my upper lip). He giggled but his friend looked embarrassed. I left after that.

23rd in line to the throne, 19-year-old Arthur Chatto:

I was a better handicapper on my first post. Results: 1st - Justify 2nd - Good Magic 3rd - Audible

I never heard the adage "favorites never win the Kentucky Derby." That would be a stupid thing to say. But remember that from 1980-1999 NOT ONE FAVORITE won the Derby. I'm thinking Bolt d'Oro by a nose.

Wagering in the Derby is perilous because a horse, to be entered into the field, is already a great horse with a great pedigree. Every horse in the Derby is capable of winning. That's why "long shots" usually end up winning. If you are going to wager, go with a long shot. That's the only way to make any money.

I agree that A4A is a great resource and I have hired numerous times off it. I have had some great hires and a few duds. One dud was a total fake who came in, demanded the money, threatened me, and left. But I have also had some total knockouts at bargain basement prices. With some discretion, due diligence, and prudence, you can find someone who will be a dream come true. BUT.... don't limit yourself to those who are "pros." A lot of guys on A4A in the general listings are also market - just watch for key words.

I want to live as long as I can control my bowels. When I start crapping my pants, time to go.

Having done marriage and family counseling for many years I always reminded engaged couples that you marry a family, not just an individual. I hope it works out, for both their sakes.

Yes, when Churchill Downs opened in 1875 the "South End" was the boonies. Louisville's most famous Son :

I live not far from Churchill Downs but, if you're a Louisvillian, you're more likely to attend "The Oaks" (for girl horses) than the Derby, as the Derby is mostly for wealthy out-of-towners. The Oaks is held the day before Derby (today). I usually go to the track at least once during the Spring meet as well as Keeneland in Lexington. Keeneland is a much prettier race track and more amenable to getting up close to the ponies in the paddock before the race. I like to bet on the horses that appear cool and calm in the paddock before the race, as well as their stats. The best part of going to the track is "people watching" as well as trying to turn a $2 wager into a $20 payoff. Favorites for Derby are Justify and Audible. Bolt d'Oro will be in the running, too. Long shot: Good Magic. Phyllis George hasn't been in local news since Reagan was president and lives in Georgia. Former Miss America (1999) Heather French Henry is married to the former Lt. Governor and is currently prominent in local diet commercials. Former Louisvillian Diane Sawyer, a America Junior Miss winner, swoops in and out occasionally. I don't like mint juleps. Too minty and the leaves get in your teeth.

That's funny. Charles is such a queen.

Who knew that such a hunk was available in Steubenville, OH? Thanks for bumping!