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Wow. This is a great topic. Like another commenter I will say that I am old, ugly and fat so I’m usually tremendously happy that the guy will actually show up, LOL! For me it’s “consideration” – consideration for my wants and needs and my special requests. Treating me like a human being and a sexual being. I once had a provider call me on the way to my place and ask if I wanted anything from Starbucks – he was getting himself a coffee and offered to get me one, also. When they don’t leap off the bed once we’re both finished saying, “Well, I gotta go!” (I once had a man ask me if he could use the shower while he was still in me.) A soft, sweet kiss at the door. Hell, a soft, sweet kiss out in public! A text afterward thanking me. When they leave their underwear behind. When my sheets smell of their scent, their cologne and sex. A genuine concern that I am getting what I want.

Truthfully, escorting is hard work. It’s tough. Initially I wasn’t so much an “escort” as I was a “kept boy” so my perspective is a bit different. I was in my early 20’s, thin, good-looking and working full time (this was the mid-80’s when minimum wage was $3.35 a hour) when I met a really great and very attractive man on a phone chat line. (Remember those?) He and I clicked and pretty soon he was paying my rent in exchange for my availability weekday afternoons. My thought was, “Really? I get to have sex a couple of times a week and Dude pays my rent? Hell, yes!” There were no trips and no luxuries; I was expected to have scotch and cigarettes on hand as well as to be prepped and ready for a couple of rounds in the bedroom. Within a couple of months he would arrive with a friend, whom I was expected to accommodate. Another month or so after that he was sending friends to my apartment and expecting me to entertain them. I was not attracted to many of these men and I was told that I had to be available pretty much from Noon through the end of the work day Monday through Friday and, occasionally, weekends. (I still had my full-time job.) I always saw my guy at least twice a week and maybe one or two other men would stop by. When one of his “friends” introduced hard drugs into our scenes (specifically, cocaine) I put a stop to the activities. (Cocaine scared the shit outta me.) Dude warned me that he’d have no problem replacing me, and I’ll admit getting my rent paid was really nice, but something told me it was time to quit. I tried escorting after that but it was quite different having to drum up business or hustle or having to turn down bookings given my full-time job. And I’ve never been a good salesman. So that didn’t last long. Given this experience I have a lot of respect for the guys who choose to escort and do sex work.

DAMN!!!!

We’ve been regularly hitting 100 degrees F in Albuquerque which is highly unusual for August. Historically June is our hottest month. And the rain we usually get in August has been notably absent. So I’m hearing a lot of bitching about the heat. On a lark I drove up to Cheyenne (WY) last month thinking it would be cooler. Nope. 92 degrees F. And, I learned, that many homes don’t have A/C. July, I was told, was usually the hottest month but 92 for them was sweltering.

Oh, honey. Everyone needs someone to look down on.

I engaged San Francisco-based “GingerViking”, currently listing his location as Baltimore. And I have DM’d the OP.

Yes I have! DM me if you want more details.

Hairy chests have never been out of style as far as I’m concerned. What I want is a hairy-chested blonde. That is a very rare animal.

Damn. I just discovered this forum and spent the last hour scanning through the pages. A lot of photos have been removed but many great ones remain. I was born 10 years too late. So much I wish I had done. To the OP, thank you.

Well, that is just too easy.

My God! Were it that easy.

My appreciation is as much for the design of the pool and patio as it is for the man out in the rain.

Dude, I’ve been on Prep for I can’t remember how long (5+ years) and I wish weight loss was a side effect. If my face has thinned out I don’t see it and no one has commented that I look like I have lost weight. I think @PhileasFogg may be correct when he likens the weight loss you’re observing to use of other drugs or other factors at play that may be causing weight loss.

I have successfully hired from Grindr - once. Yes, I’ve encountered many a fraud so caution is the road to follow. Others here have said it - don’t send a deposit, ask them to cooperate with a quick video call, and meet in public first. (Have your scene at a hotel if at all possible.) I’ll agree that the legit guys hiring via Grindr tend to be more amateur than pro, but I got great value for my money. If you are going to hire from Grindr do your due diligence and proceed with caution.

OMG!!! That furry crack!!!

I make it a point to always tell my providers - in advance, before we meet - that I use poppers. I do not recall that a provider has refused to see me or asked me not to do them during our session. Occasionally, a provider will ask to partake and I happily share.

What? WHAT?!?! TWENTY-NINE YEARS?!?! Holy sh*t! My sweet Lord in Heaven. I stopped following the show regularly after the “Cartman’s Dad” storyline, but still watched it occasionally. The first couple of seasons were shocking and funny as hell and nothing was sacred. And the “South Park” movie was utterly f*cking brilliant. (The music? The songs? OMG! Even Stephen Sondheim praised the music and lyrics.) Weren’t the “South Park” boys on the cover of “Newsweek” at one time? Twenty-nine years. Damn, I’m old.

The guy I wish would go gay porn (but hasn’t as far as I know) is Ricky Spanish. He’s got this great twink/nerd energy and he gets cast a lot as the kid who gets busted when caught fucking his Dad’s wife. He did an MMF scene where I just wanted to see the “Dad” (who was a rugged SOB) bend him over and rail his back door. (I realize this is not totally on topic.)

Well … EXACTLY!!!

Just my 2 cents, but “Daddy” is not just an age or a suggestion of appearance. “Daddy” is also an attitude. I’ve enjoyed the company of younger men - twinks included - who had fantastic “Daddy” attitude. So, for me, not odd at all. Everyone, however, is entitled to their opinion. 😀

This dude is a swimwear/underwear model in Miami. I’ve seen him in a lot of runway fashion show videos on YouTube, and often he’s in a thong. Dude has an amazing ass! More recently he cut his hair and looks just as hot as he does with all his curls.