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My two tactics to try to circumvent my time from being wasted by cruel heartless pranksters; 
1#
Don't engage with anyone hiding behind a voip, google voice, aka "fake phone number".   
 
2#.
 
Immediately cross reference the phone number with Mr Number to see if they've been reported previously as a "time waster".  
  

My two tactics to try to circumvent my time from being wasted by cruel heartless pranksters; 
1#
Don't engage with anyone hiding behind a voip, google voice, aka "fake phone number".   
 
2#.
 
Immediately cross reference the phone number with Mr Number to see if they've been reported previously as a "time waster".  
  

When we as providers enter a phone number into the mr number app, if the guy has a history of pranking escorts = there will be a page of info looking like this; see attachment. 

When we as providers enter a phone number into the mr number app, if the guy has a history of pranking escorts = there will be a page of info looking like this; see attachment. 

Nor mine. 

my experience with him doesn't resemble yours    

Have met him 3 times and all were amazing. and we discussed he is not into the party scene

Considering his age / generation = his specifics are neither surprising or atypical.  
 
And if you think you can, perhaps, offer "more money" to circumvent their requirements most will view that as an even bigger turn-off & reason to decline you.  
 
This young stud knows that he can afford to be picky; he's not desperate.  
 
 

People love to spread rumor and innuendo here.   It's catty, often cruel and very damaging to one's reputation and career.  
 
think before posting such salacious comments "read hes filming clients to extort them for money" = this is fucking ridiculous and 100% FALSE
I've known Jay since he first started escorting and he's literally the sweetest, most soft spoken, and friendly hunky bro I know.  
This makes me wonder what your objective is to say such horrifically dishonest statements that have cost Jay to lose business and income? 
 
You are LYING that you read this online.

I had a fun time with DiscoDick cause I knew how to keep it in perspective;  he's young, extremely in demand, has become a social media gay porn "pop star" (as of late he's been getting nailed by monster porn star cocks ), chooses only to do appts that will be "hot/FUN/sexy" for HIM. 

For many of you, I know you view hiring an escort as hopefully a way to satisfy your sexual needs. 
 
I went into meeting him knowing his sexual enjoyment would supersede mine and thus my expectations were properly set and I wasn't disappointed.  Instead, I was thankful he chose to see & have sex with me, since he could chose from another 100 waiting to hook up with him. 

Right, it's not the two minutes on the phone, it's the 45 minutes waiting for him to no show.
Kevin Slater

Here’s my take (from a real live provider) from having used Google voice for many years, and why I eventually stopped using it:
When I would send clients template messages, I didn’t realize it was coming in portions, sometimes cut off from the rest of the sentence. A client pointed that out to me during an exchange.
2nd reason is: so many clients have iPhones now. Which I use. So, with my iPhone: I can see if a client has read my message, or that it was delivered. I can do Apple Pay, which clients have paid me on before as well.
 Also: I was noticing Google voice messages usually went thru on time, but when driving thru a remote or mountainous location, sometimes it wouldn’t or I was waiting until I reached signal to be able to get the message. If ever I’m not in an area of good signal: which can be anywhere from a barber shop to a hotel or my gym (idk why some buildings just have perpetually bad signal for no reason), I can plug into WiFi.
I also found the Google voice platform difficult to manage, as I couldn’t see a clients picture, or include my picture with my avatar, which is my biz card. All of those things are why I switched to a regular number. Not to mention: having a burner number on the same phone as you’re private phone, is not enough to separate unrecognized calls. I know if one phone rings, it’s family, medical, or sales call. If the other rings, it’s someone seeing my ad. 
 
So yah, everybody reasons going to be different. As a provider, I would not recommend using a burner phone. For a client, it doesn’t matter because I ask for a deposit from all regardless if they include their pic and real phone number with address included. 
 
 

I admire how lightly you make that sound. But the reality is much more consuming. If it weren’t, then the discussion would be non existent.
To send a text may only take 2 minutes, but when you go thru the process of setting aside time, booking a room, perhaps traveling to a city: you’ll see that 2 minutes adds up to HOURS. Hours that could be used to get things done. Yet was spent on someone who wasn’t really intending to go with the booking to begin with. 
 
Some people don’t mind having their time wasted. I sat side by side with one escort who would have calls and text round the clock. Sometimes not even telling them he’s for pay. The person would hang up, and he’d wait for the next. Didn’t bother him. 
 
I personally couldn’t. But again, everybody’s tolerance level is different. You’ve been around awhile, so you know. I feel like people were more serious back in 2008-2014 than they are now. However, I still had my share of just outlandishly flaky clients over the past 10 years to where, if having a bit of boundaries disinterests someone, that’s on them 

You at times, possibly are.  And with the security of a burner number, you can get away with it and we would never know.  
However, there are experienced providers who will not proceed with you.

FALSE:  "escorts use google voice"
  All of the professional escorts that I've ever known, use their actual real cell phone number.   
 
FALSE: "you can't tell when a number is fake"
There ARE ways to find out if someone is using a burner phone, voip, or google voice.  [not at liberty to say how]. 
 
In my experience 99.9% of guys using a fake / voip / google voice = are deadbeat  time wasters who have no intention of actually meeting up.  Fake numbers = zero accountability for keeping an appt thus its possible for the client to have a bit of "fun" at our expense, time and income.  👎🏻😡
 

What the fuck is the matter with you ? 

I don't know you and I don't know this Jay dude however I stumbled upon your post degrading this guy (in the most inhumane way possible) and I'm just floored that in 2022 when we know that this type of unnecessary "cyber bullying" is one of the common factors mentioned that pushes someone over the edge that they either wanna commit suicide or worse = go and kill innocent people. 
 
 

Mr "know it all" & anti - pnp'r / "Jeffster" = Before you spread horrifically incorrect and damaging rumors about big bad Joey "all caught up in the pnp world" , think before posting conjecture and consider how badly you could be damaging this guys future with your unscientific "guess".  
 
which by the way, is not TRUE; he's NOT involved in the pnp scene [that would be me remember 🥳]

Mr "know it all" & anti - pnp'r / "Jeffster" = Before you spread horrifically incorrect and damaging rumors about big bad Joey "all caught up in the pnp world" , think before posting conjecture and consider how badly you could be damaging this guys future with your unscientific "guess".  
 
which by the way, is not TRUE; he's NOT involved in the pnp scene [that would be me remember 🥳]

People love to spread rumor and innuendo here.   It's catty, often cruel and very damaging to one's reputation and career.  
 
think before posting such salacious comments "read hes filming clients to extort them for money" = this is fucking ridiculous and 100% FALSE
I've known Jay since he first started escorting and he's literally the sweetest, most soft spoken, and friendly hunky bro I know.  
This makes me wonder what your objective is to say such horrifically dishonest statements that have cost Jay to lose business and income? 
 
You are LYING that you read this online.

Benny, drugs are not enjoyable?  
 
Yes I agree with you; BAD DRUGS totally suck balls and could ruin an experience. 
Thankfully, due to my connoisseurship of usage I've become a Master Sommelier of these "designer sex favors" and I've not done "bad drugs" in several years.  [ last time I did bad ecstasy was in 2010 at an outdoor rave in Rome]  
And I'm sorry it sounds as if you have only ever been offered bad drugs and this has negatively affected your opinion  about them.  
 
Steve Jobs credits dropping acid as one of the most important things he'd ever done for himself in his entire life and encouraged others to also experiment as certain drugs have been proven to expand your consciousness and see the world 🌎 in a new way.   

This has become an interesting discussion.  I hadn't thought of someone thinking that an escort would likely only choose to not be sober for a client appt / overnighter because they were wanting to dilute their consciousness because they had qualms with their profession.  
 
I share the same feelings both you and Benny stated regarding how much you enjoy escorting and your clientele.  I also love my job and my repeat "regulars".
Therefore,  I'm not getting my clients or myself high to "numb the pain" as perhaps you both are suggesting.  Rather,  I feel that certain drugs [stimulants, ecstasy, ghb] ADD to the sexual experience and certainly to our energy levels enabling a multi-hour / multi day session to occur. After which, I am thanked for providing a "safe space" for them to escape their monotonous daily life and explore their inner fun-self albeit done with their outmost comfort and health in mind.  🥳🎉 Often they describe the initial overnight encounter as "possibly the best night of their entire adult lives" and definitely a moment that was "eye opening"; some say "life changing".  

That sounds very exciting
 and sexy Benny!  
🥱Sobriety🥱
✅24/7/365✅
every-single-day-of-your-entire-life.     
🐓
 
You are in the minority and fit a very specific niche market (i.e. the majority of clients who post on this website, how convenient).  

On the other hand; 
95% of my clients don't frequent this website, enjoy partaking illicit substances on occasion & 100% of my  illustrious reviews have been from these same clients.  (Some are school teachers, one is a billionaire so they don't fit any sorta cliche niche). 

Mr "know it all" & anti - pnp'r / "Jeffster" = Before you spread horrifically incorrect and damaging rumors about big bad Joey "all caught up in the pnp world" , think before posting conjecture and consider how badly you could be damaging this guys future with your unscientific "guess".  
 
which by the way, is not TRUE; he's NOT involved in the pnp scene [that would be me remember 🥳]

Thanks for the reminder that my profile name needed some updating.   
 
In the summer of 2019, I took Daddy out to dinner at Morton's in Vegas.  He advised me that I had prolly aged outta the "frat thing" and for me to update my schtick.
 Since then I've gotten tatd up (prolly to his dismay, RIP), grown a scruffy stache and proudly sport a blue color / "white trash" sorta look that has earned me the appreciation of some very young clients who enjoy calling me "daddy" while riding me.  

And do I smell ?  Abso - fucking lutely!! But of sexy ripe manly pit & ball sweat; not of cigarettes.  I don't smoke 🚭 and I proudly never wear deodorant. 
 
Do I need a haircut ? Not at the moment as I just got a marine buzz cut last week. 
 

Thank you sir for the compliments; "tuff italian thug" and "appealing".   And yes I do on occasion enjoy being a water sports top. (WS isn't really popular these days). However, that's so comical & silly to think it's my only activity after so many successful years in this biz.  😭  
 
Most fetish's come and go in waves and it was a "hot fad" when we met 10 years ago.  It became popular again during the Clinton/Trump election when the rumor emerged from the Trump dossier saying he'd enjoyed russian escort piss while visiting Moscow.  
 
However since then, I've only done it a handful of times the past 4 years.  
 
Besides being confused about what activities I engage in, your memory is also fuzzy and wrong (not unexpected for an octogenarian), to claim I ever blamed my prior behavior on "meds".  I've never been prescribed mood stabilizers in my life and I know I never said that.
Similar to Bostonman, you were also wanting a BFE experience.  That is NOT my scene!  I'm not the romantic, affectionate cleancut guy some of you foolishly have wanted me to be.  That's not my fault. It's not how I sell myself and just because you are the "paying client" doesn't mean I must play that role.  

I'm not the Homecoming King;  I'm the thugy guido jock bully who'd push u down to your knees to suck 
my dick under the bleachers.  
 
You left without paying me anything and thus my rightful frustration afterwards.  Its customary, as has been said multiple times on this site, that if it's not a "fit" chemistry wise, a client should leave $100.  You chose not to.  And the audacity to bitch about my frustration ten years later tells me that you have too much time on your hands and need a new hobby and to move on.