JTtorretto

Are you gunning for a job on Fox News? You cannot disagree with facts. This is the equivalent of me saying "the earth revolves around the sun," and you saying "I think the sun revolves around the earth. Agree to disagree!" 

That is not objectification. It’s role play. Your failure to not understand what words mean is not my issue. One cannot consent to objectification nor can one objectify oneself. I am confident that you do objectify the men you hire. I suspect it’s necessary for you to get off. If they were people, you might have to be respectful of them and treat them as human beings. 
Regarding my one proclivities, I’m not remotely vanilla. But I don’t objectify or dehumanize the people I have sex with. 🤷🏻

For someone who spends 80 percent of their time on here railing against all the things they dislike and people they find unattractive, you certainly do not like it when your own "failures" are pointed out. No one is telling you to have sex with any of the providers or members that you endlessly criticize, demean, and dehumanize. Yet, you act as if you're besieged by a phalanx of 65-year-old morbidly obese men you MUST have sex with. You're very sensitive for someone with so much heat for other people. 

I think that’s a common view of those who might not have done it. But as well as laying back and letting some guy suck you off (easy) you also need to deal with the opinion of society about what you do, the attitude of some clients towards you, and things like how it affects your own sex life. Factor those in and you might reconsider that ‘selling sex can be one of the easiest’…

Having self respect and agency isn’t a failure. If you need to objectify someone to get off, you need a therapist not a sex worker.
Also regarding my “failures, you talk so much shit on here you would never say to my face and we all know it. 

This is only an issue if you still live 20 years ago. This is a very old timey way of looking at things. It's 2025 and the proliferation of Asian culture via K-Pop, Glenn from the Walking Dead show, K-Dramas, Anime, Japanese muscle bars, Physical 100, etc, in media/pop culture has completely changed what "type" of Asians are sought after and how they can be perceived as attractive and what the Western perceptions of the East are. If you think people only want smooth boyish sub bottom Asians, you're stuck in the past. I literally joined this site to vouch for a provider who is a muscular Asian top and i got multiple DMs from people interested in details of my experience with him. OPs desire to be serviced by older men is not niche and the stereotypes of yesteryear are not the only way an Asian man can do well in this work.

This is a hard no. For me, a sex worker is their own subject with their own agency. I do not seek to objectify them or treat them like a commodity. As an SA survivor, I want them to be comfortable and - to the extent possible given it’s a paid gig - enjoy themselves. Even if they wouldn’t pick us up in a bar, I minimally want them to enjoy us as clients. 
I did not enjoy being objectified when I was a 20-something twink and I don’t enjoy younger men objectifying me and my husband as “daddies.” There’s a myth that we have to treat each other as objected to get off. It’s very damaging to our sex and romantic lives. And it’s largely driven by marketing and advertising. 

If you’re a citizen then a lot of what people have posted here may not be relevant. However, the basis of your status is under threat. I cannot say more because of forum “rules” that are applied unequally. 
That said, @Simon Suraci has given you the best advice of everyone here. From what you’ve posted, I do not think you’re cut out for being a provider. You want to he paid for “older men to service you.” That’s a pretty niche market. Based on your description of what you’re willing to do, your lack of desire to “get your foot in the door” for $200/hour (probably 6-10 times the average hourly pay in NYC), I doubt I’d hire you.
Sadly, you will also likely attract clients who fetishize Asian men, which adds additional obstacles you’ll have to navigate. 

You are a guest in this country, and as such, you are expected to follow the rules, much like when you are a guest at someone's home. If you don't follow the rules, expect to get booted out.
If your student visa doesn't allow you to work in this country, there is nothing to think about or discuss - YOU SHOULD NOT WORK. PERIOD.
If you do, and get caught, be prepared to face the consequences. That could include spending time at Alligator Alcatraz or similar detention center, deportation, and the possibility of never being allowed back into this country.
Bozo noticed your reference to future job opportunities. Is that employment in the USA? Do you really expect to be here on a student visa, violate the conditions of the visa, and still be allowed to remain here AND be allowed to seek employment legally?
Remember, you are a guest in this country.
BTC
🤡
 

No. I’ve dragged you for being needlessly cruel, fatphobic, perpetuating unrealistic body standards, and your virulence agism. I honestly do not care who you personally find attractive. While I have a broad palette, I also have a few types that really get me going. That’s cool.
When people post providers I find attractive, I say do. When they post providers I do not find attractive, 95% of the time, I keep it to myself. 
On top of your harsh treatment of providers you regularly claim that most members here are old troglodytes who couldn’t get a hand job without forking over some cash. First, that’s not true. We’re in P Town right now and start off our week having a hook up with a gorgeous local bartender 20 years our junior who had an 8-pack. And we keep getting hit up by every twink in a 10 mile radius. Lots of younger gay man see into older guys. Second, internecine cruelty about age and appearance is horrible for our community. It reduces us to sexual commodities only as valuable as our abs or facial symmetry. And given that you’re not really part of the community, your toxic commentary is doubly irritating. Worst, you present your comments as if you’re proclaiming a brave truth against the “woke,” when you’re just perpetuating incredibly harmful stereotypes and marketing garbage meant to make people feel insecure. 
All you need to do in order to get people off your back is keep your negative opinions to yourself. 

Girl, I have never once said “everyone is beautiful.” I have said I have a broad palette and rebuked you and others for being unnecessarily cruel when making nasty comments about others’ appearance or weight or age. Since you’re so OUT, post some pics of yourself and we’ll let you know what we think about your appearance. 😂😂😂

I think he's hot but I get the sense that he doesn't wear deodorant. Lots of talk about his "musky pits." I'm very sensitive to scents and BO makes me gag (in a bad way). 

The guy is so avoid. Not worth it. A bit of a bitch.

@marylander1940, Czech_jock here:
 
First of all, I want to apologize for all the anger you feel, as I have never experienced before a human being so full of anger… I don’t understand where your hate is coming from and why you felt the need to write tons of negative reviews about me on multiple pages while in honest truth we have never met.
 
You probably best summed it up yourself when you mentioned in one blog that you kept sending tons of fake negative reviews about me to RM that in the end they could not stand it anymore and deactivated your account.
 
All of your reviews contain contradictory information. In one, you said “He showed up an hour late” while in another one you said “he confirmed, but did not show up”. Third reviews claims “I only know someone who talked with him on grindr” while fourth review shouts “He is 100% straight”. So which is it? And while you wrote tons of negative reviews in 2017 and warned the world not to meet me, your last review says you only met me in November of 2018.
 
If I truly wronged you and you were a legitimate client of mine (which I really doubt), pick up the phone and tell me what went wrong. I am more than happy to return all the money you spent and to apologize for any misery I caused.
 
Otherwise, there are more than 2000 guys on RM and you should move on and let me live my life, instead of attempting to stain my name since 2016.

Actually update on my own post: I found his Instagram and it looks like he’s gotten a bit soft :/
 
Not judging.....but also not paying

I'd bet he's not really a "student". Unless he decided to go to grad school after a several year hiatus and is escorting between classes and grad work. Or is taking a masseur class to get his certification. 😉

Its my understanding that if you report an illegal alien who is committing crimes and they are successfully deported, the Homeland Security Dept sends you a check in the mail as a thank you for helping eliminate someone who has lost the privilege of being in the United States.  
 
ICE … ICE … Baby  
 

https://www.reddit.com/r/democraticparty/comments/1i6v3il/all_help_is_needed/
   It sounds like a Patriotic duty. 

Its my understanding that if you report an illegal alien who is committing crimes and they are successfully deported, the Homeland Security Dept sends you a check in the mail as a thank you for helping eliminate someone who has lost the privilege of being in the United States.  
 
ICE … ICE … Baby  
 

How else do you expect me to have sex with some a you ugly goons?!?! Sober!? Absolutely not girl. Lmao

I’m not sure names are necessary, to answer the question the OP presented to us?

What country does this gypsy conman actually hail from? 

https://www.reddit.com/r/democraticparty/comments/1i6v3il/all_help_is_needed/
   It sounds like a Patriotic duty. 

https://www.reddit.com/r/democraticparty/comments/1i6v3il/all_help_is_needed/
   It sounds like a Patriotic duty. 

The first time we met, things just didn't go right, and I really didn't get what I asked for. He said he would make the session up to me. I thought was just bs, because any time he was back in town, he never made it a priority to see me. However, he actually did eventually make up for the session, and it was HOT!!