JTtorretto

To answer your question:  
 
“how many clients state that they are straight?”
 
it varies dramatically depending upon what city, blue/red state, midwest vs coast 

honestly I didn't know he was being silly.  I have seen way more silly question posed on these boards thats for sure!

70% of my income is for chill, slow stroke sessions [with or without other substances involved, porn etc]. However, I’ve been hired to watch a Law & Order too, to be the “big spoon” in a cuddle scenario, and to bake cookies.
 
some clients specifically enjoy hiring specifically because they have a fetish for the “sex for hire” scene (tho don’t want sex themselves) but rather to live thru it vicariously by hearing about my fun encounters and activities.  
 
If a perspective client contacts me and explicitly states that they are solely looking to be “pounded out for 2hrs” I let them know that they’d be better served by someone who’s more of a sex worker [i.e. South American immigrant boy with a “third leg” & grasp of the english language isn’t of any importance etc] rather than an escort like myself.

 
With that being said it’s likely an All American dude like myself will likely receive more companionship type calls.  
 
 

From my understanding, the youth call this "Heteroflexible" and it's basically just situational horniness ("a hole is a hole" scenario) and not based on any actual attraction.
Those notions aren't absurd, but they just lack nuance/detail. In my opinion. With all the orientation/labels talk in general. I think examples like you gave here is where the sexual orientation labels we currently have have become out dated. I generally was of the mind that if you as a man do anything with guys more than your one time "experiment" free pass everyone gets then you're at the very least, not able to claim being totally straight because if you like it enough to do it again...
Doesn't necessarily mean you get flung to the polar opposite end of the spectrum and are suddenly homosexual, but you can't still stick to "i'm 100% straight, bro, i only like women (even though i get serviced by men regularly)" either. Just because it's "service" doesn't negate that it's still sexual interactions with other men. Straight means being exclusively into women, so... Yeah there's just no way around that. However, those guys do fall somewhere in the middle, and i think the real answer is that the middle is a lot bigger than just "bisexual". In more recent years i've met guys who've explained their sexual and romantic feelings and there's definitely some guys who have more going on than just being bi.
I've noticed some young people differentiate between sexual attraction/activity and romantic attraction. To some those are two different things that aren't always tied to each other. So when you do that, certain kinds of people suddenly make more sense. A lot of these "straight" guys are effectively heteroflexible or bisexual but are romantically hetero-romantic (are only romantically attracted/exclusively date the opposite gender), which is basically what the Romans were doing back in the day where they'd all be banging each other on the battle field for convenience and social dominance amongst each other and then come home to their wives and that was just normal. I've known guys who are homoflexible as well and known people who are bisexual but homo-romantic too.
There are even people who identify as Asexual (which in the human perspective just means they aren't into sex at all), but those people obviously usually still have romantic attraction that can be to the same, opposite, or all genders (homo-romantic, hetero-romantic, or bi-romantic respectively) as well. I recently learned of a term for people who are physically attracted specifically to gender presentation (as in which gender the person they're attracted to LOOKS like and not which gender they are anatomically). Which would apply to all those men who litter my Grindr grid who identify as straight but are only on the app for fem-boys and trans women for example.
One friend of mine is like this, he likes cis-gender women but also trans women, and with trans women he's ok with if they haven't had the bottom surgery yet if they otherwise can pass as a woman. What's down there isn't relevant to his attraction to them, it's just about the overall presentation being "woman". Gay/bi men attracted to trans men who haven't had bottom surgery yet are in that same boat.
I can already feel a lot of people here who are old school collectively rolling their eyes and going "ugh that's a bunch of young people B.S., let's just have no labels!" but i personally don't like the idea of having no labels and i also think it's a lazy notion. Trying to find something in a grocery store where the aisles and the products all have no labels is an objectively terrible experience if you're trying to find something specific, or even just browsing.
Having no labels beyond gay/bi/straight is like if zoologists stopped at categorizing Mammals with just Primates, and then didn't go further to differentiate between Humans, Chimpanzees, Gorillas, and Orangutans cause they didn't feel like having to learn more. The only reason why labeling things is annoying and makes us feel put in a box is because the labels we do have aren't appropriate and are too general, but the concept of labels overall isn't actually the problem.
When things are identified thoroughly and correctly, it doesn't feel like a box you're being incorrectly stuffed into. Which then negates any confusion and anxiety that comes from feeling like you're in the wrong box. But we as a society aren't ready for that. Lot of people to this day can barely acknowledge the bi in the gay/bi/straight trichotomy as is 🤣

One provider told me that advance bookings, for him anyway, have about a 75% cancellation rate. He much preferred same day bookings.

I always give at least a 24 hour notice and send $100 deposit. Any reputable provider will honor the commitment or reimburse you if he cannot accommodate.

What do you mean you were “preparing” prior to your meeting?  
 
Dustin is a total bottom.   I wasn’t aware he was even remotely versatile in my own experience (which also includes bringing him over to a buddies, where he also presented himself as a bottom to be enjoyed).  

Friend, you are a Newbie here.  I am a GrandMaster.  The need to answer your question is not immediately obvious.
If anything, your post answers its own question.

@savantsav You have spent more time composing this post than the 30 min he was late.  Sad. 

Not pointing my finger at anyone in particular, but the tone and content of some of the posts here prove to me that certain people really don't have any social savoir-faire.  It takes a level of skill, empathy and patience navigating relationships, whatever they may be, with another human being.
In the way some of us present themselves in this manner, I understand these people NEED a paid escort, without whom, nothing would ever happen in the bedroom and beyond.

He didn't stand you up or ghost you; he asked to shift 30-40 minutes.  Sounds like you two, temperamentally, aren't a good match.  (And, reading between the lines, I'd guess that's why he was uninterested in "making up for it somehow.")

I had some wonderful images of hunky Dustin floating through my mind, causing pleasurable feelings, sending whooshes of endorphins throughout my system, resulting in lovely involuntary physical tinglings in my loins...BUT then suddenly long forgotten images came flooding back of Mrs. O'Gorman's third grade class on the blacktop during recess shouting back and forth all sorts of comebacks that we knew rivaled those of history's greatest wits: "I bet you were up all night trying to come up with that one," "Your lips are moving, but all I hear is blah, blah, blah,".....
I hate those images. Please stop. I want my lovely sweet [and nasty] thoughts of Dustin back.
 

What I have found is with some providers you can have an agreement and upcharge to have it happen.  Some just will not.
The best situations are when it just happens naturally because you have bonded so well with him.  Those are my favorites.

yes @Ali Gator who posts very often has lost all credibility with me due to this thread. 

Likely humiliated that he was caught (and called out) for posting “neighbor fantasy fiction” (REPEATEDLY) and started posting that dribble somewhere more appropriate, like Nifty.org

Ali Gator, have you heard of a website called Nifty.org ?  
 
Your fictional short stories about the numerous hunky shirtless boys/men in your hood “availing” themselves for your sexual pleasure are better suited posted on Nifty.org than a legitimate message board discussing escort issues/questions.  
 
“Hot neighbors son escorting” is poorly written fantasy not based on reality.  
 

Likely humiliated that he was caught (and called out) for posting “neighbor fantasy fiction” (REPEATEDLY) and started posting that dribble somewhere more appropriate, like Nifty.org

Maybe the 40 thieves got him? Oh, wait, he's Ali Gator.

Ali Gator, have you heard of a website called Nifty.org ?  
 
Your fictional short stories about the numerous hunky shirtless boys/men in your hood “availing” themselves for your sexual pleasure are better suited posted on Nifty.org than a legitimate message board discussing escort issues/questions.  
 
“Hot neighbors son escorting” is poorly written fantasy not based on reality.  
 

Ali Gator, have you heard of a website called Nifty.org ?  
 
Your fictional short stories about the numerous hunky shirtless boys/men in your hood “availing” themselves for your sexual pleasure are better suited posted on Nifty.org than a legitimate message board discussing escort issues/questions.  
 
“Hot neighbors son escorting” is poorly written fantasy not based on reality.  
 

Just read myself every single post you've made discussing escorts [and copy/pasted all ur content into Chat GPT]
According to what I & Chat GPT found, you have a specific fetish for “college guys” & particularly using the word “college” in all of your “fan fiction posts” such as this load of crap post. 

also, another example & what a coincidence, the “hunky, illegal immigrant gardener” ALSO hinted at selling his body to you, literally 2 weeks ago! Isnt that something ?! What are the odds of two hotties in ur “suburban hood” offering you hints of sexual pleasure at your place?!  Its like you live in a state of either total delusion or your’e a pathological liar thats taking everyone for a FOOL

 
 
 
as example: 
and lives in my neighborhood).  He mentioned a few times he is married and has a son in college. However, the other day he was telling me that in the winter he's available for hire to help with 'anything I need help with' and winks. Hmm. I said, 'anything' ? And he smiled and said 'I said anything'. I told him I could come up with a few things and he smiled. I'm wondering if we're on the same page OR if there's a big language barrier. 😂

additionally, there is NOT a single dude in all of New England who even could fit the age range, “newer profile” etc =specifics that you stated unless hes actually black, “late 30’s” & heavy set and even then = would not be from Florida or another state
 
You are not even a decent story teller as it all sounds so make-believe and phony 

Jussie Smollett syndrome.