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Thinking about this a bit more, I reflect on the cases that come to mind in my own life of young men killed in tragic circumstances. Just a few from when I was young, three young men who worked at summer jobs with me in different years while at university like myself, were killed in accidents. One, when his girlfriend drove off the road a couple of weeks after our jobs ended, flipping the car and he was killed; another, a university student from Toronto who was killed on the first day of the job at a construction site; I had flown with him the previous day to get to the remote location in Labrador; another who was drowned in a sailing accident off the Bahamas in a hurricane the winter after I had worked with him and had got to know him travelling back and forth to our work site together from Montreal. All in their early twenties, all beautiful young men who would be my age now had they lived, with 50 years of wonderful experiences. Life is funny that way. It’s a roll of the dice.

His last years seem to have been tragic. Paralyzed from the waist down from a gunshot to the chest In 2015. And dead at 42. Really sad.

I sometimes tell my top providers that what I say in the heat of passion may be make believe, like "I love you". I do this to reassure them that I am just acting out a fantasy, like when I used to have boyfriends, when I really meant it. For me, since I'm the paying client, I hope for their indulgence in this harmless role play.

He’s just having a hissy fit.

There is a gulf between what Americans feel is clean as compared to Europeans. Having lived in Europe and spending over 25 years working there for periods and meeting many men from different countries, I am used to more natural body orders and tastes, not washed away by cleansing solutions to the point of sterilized flesh. Call me a naturalist if you will. Just my preference.

Too anal for me.

Luv the cod piece.

Probably not used to getting past fem. lol

I wonder what's with the "1958 "tattoo on his stomach. My ex was born that year and he's now over 60! LOL.

Err, a little lower.

I like both clean shaven and all types of beards, including just stuffy. A few escorts I’ve seen have had both looks at different times, so I ask when making the date what look to expect. I wouldn’t ask anyone to shave just for me. During this pandemic I have gone for periods without shaving and surprised a few escorts who were used to seeing me clean shaven. I warned them in advance and none objected.

To say nothing of what hangs above them.

Is that AustinTasteless?

You’re assuming he had a drug habit. It may have been suicide.

That's true about parts of the country deciding to spread out the available supplies as much as possible. Quebec led the way over a month ago when it became clear the first shots were providing pretty good protection. Ontario followed this month and those two provinces account for over half the population of Canada. Obviously if we had the luxury of adequate supplies we would be following the manufacturers' guidelines of a 3 to 4 week follow-up dose. But even in the UK, which is leading the G7 countries including the US by far in percentage of people with at least one dose, is only giving one dose at this time. I keep in touch with one of my escorts who lives there and he got his first shot a few weeks before I did but will only get his next shot he said in 3 months from the date of the first.

Only one that I know. I met him and his real life lover in Montreal two years ago about this time. His porn and escort name was Jay Dymel and besides escorting he and his mate were doing porn, which had brought them to Montreal from LA. I had dinner with the two of them and then two hours of intense pleasure back at my hotel room. I saw the two of them the next day in the Gay Village having a meal in the same restaurant I was in and I said hi to them on the way out. He died in June in Los Angeles a few months later, I take it from a drug overdose. There was no hint of using drugs when I was with them or suggestion of PNP, which I would have declined. He was such a sweetheart that I broke down and cried when I read the news. I think he was only 23. Such a waste of a life where so much remained to be done.

i got my first Pfizer shot on Friday. Went well with only a little tenderness in the spot plus yesterday a very mild headache but really nothing requiring a Tylenol. It passed quickly. I’m only scheduled to get the second shot in mid July so really not much will change for me until then. I’m hoping the vaccine supplies will increase in June if the US meets its deadlines and they start to have surplus vaccine but who knows.

This is indeed sad news, not only because of the fact of Guy’s death and the loss to those who knew him personally, but to the larger community who participated on this site. I fervently hope somehow we can carry on exchanging thoughts and ideas here but am completely in the dark as to whether this is possible. Whichever way it goes, it’s been a fun ride with you guys.

You sound like an epicure. Just on their face, I would trust your comments.

I completely agree with the first sentence. With regard to the second, I have a garrulous neignbour who is a few years older than me and has always addressed me as "young man" since I met him ten years ago. Doesn't bother me at all.

My friend actually looked like a Nordic god, blond, blue eyed, very good looking and had a large disposable income. He lived on the upper east side and his apartment faced the East River ( I think the east 70’s). I only saw him infrequently in those years either when I was visiting NY or he was visiting me in Europe. We had met earlier in Canada. Not a bf, just a friend. I couldn’t or wouldn’t keep up with his lifestyle.

As someone who had multiple episodes of kidney stones many years ago, including several operations to bust them up and or remove them surgically, I was often prescribed opiates in case I had an attack at home in the middle of the night. I only used them sparingly, like 1 or 2 pills during an attack and never afterwards. I rarely take even aspirin or Tylenol so the effects of the Oxycodone on me were amazing, like floating on a cloud. But I never got hooked on them. I still have about 20 of the 2 dozen pills I was last prescribed in 2007.

More to do with allowing the pharmaceutical industry to dry up in Canada except for the production of generics.

Junk spasms are different from junk Mail.

In Ontario and several other large provinces, both Pfizer and Moderna shots are now being given up to 4 months apart. This is being done to vaccinate as many people as possible as quickly as possible, in light of current supply constraints of all vaccines approved for use in Canada. If supplies improve beyond what is expected, then the second shots might conceivably be moved up. Currently the government is fretting if the EU makes good on its threat to curtail exports of vaccines since all our supplies of Pfizer and Moderna come from Europe. The US has only agreed to loan us some AstraZeneca at some indeterminate future. We are currently receiving no shipments of vaccines from America.