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I would have sex with him too, but on a pay as you go basis. That way, I would be calling the shots. As I do with all the escorts I see.

Me too. To clarify, I am a bottom but chances of meeting him anytime soon are nil.😒

The only comment I would make on this suggestion is what is he giving up to get into this arrangement? Is he leaving another job or series of engagements that would be difficult to retrieve if things go south after a month into the job. Some employers stipulate a 6 month probation period which allows for kinks to be worked out, if possible. My first job in the government was like that. And I moved to a new city and rented an apartment for a one year lease, I was so confident it would work out. And it did.

Does Stonewall have a similar designation?

It was great you could have a long talk with someone close you can trust. He could be objective in a way we can't here because we are projecting our own experiences with other men onto your situation. I think his views merit serious consideration. For my own two cents worth, I think HD is pursuing you a little too aggressively for a mere fuck buddy and I doubt very much he is in love with you.

I imagine the bowling alley didn't have the high ceilings the Frick is noted for but some museums have used low ceilings space for more intimate works of art that need to be viewed up close. The ceiling actually enhances the intimacy of the experience.

Why didn't they have the bowling alley converted into gallery space? Instead they wanted to build on the garden at one point.

Whether it was “legit” or not, he was foolish mixing his public and private lives in that fashion. What COVID has forced on many is bringing your public life into your home via your computer hookups. Even simple things like how your home is furnished are now being broadcast to dozens of people you would never think of inviting to have over. Have you noticed that people who want to project the image of being scholarly or smart always are sitting in front of a bookcase with lots of books?

I think it is hard to assess your situation without knowing more details of the arrangement. Do you know anything about this person's living habits? How large is your house? When he is not providing services to you, where will he be? Do you live in a downtown area or in a more residential neighborhood? Does he have friends that might come over when you are not there? What are your habits when not training? Does the nutritional deal include his preparing the meals? Finally, is he cute?

As I recall it, he was on a Zoom meeting with a group of colleagues, maybe about 30 or so, and during the course of it he must have gotten bored and switched on a second zoom using a split screen. The second one was sexual in natural and he started to play with himself. The colleagues all started to gasp and utter phrases like OMG, oh Jeffrey, turn off your computer etc. He then looked closely at the screen and saw what he had done, with a somewhat horrified look on his face. I saw the episode on the NYTimes digital edition.

One of the few times the Barnes collection from Philadelphia was loaned out was to the Art Gallery of Toronto back in the 1990s. The show was a huge hit. I went to see it as it was more accessible than the collection had been at its home. The museum there had very restrictive policies regarding public viewing. I understand the collection has been moved or that the museum is now more accessible in any case.

You’re lucky you had the opportunity to see the collection in its new temporary setting. Not everything but the best representative pieces of the Frick collection, a lot of which was acquired from J. P. Morgan’s estate. I have been watching Cocktails with a Curator on Friday’s at 5 all this last year, which gives highlights of the collection, focussing on one piece in each episode. They have three curators who split the shows, two guys and a lady. Very entertaining and informative. About 20 to 25 minutes. The younger of the men is very cute and sexy and has a great accent and can pronounce all the names of the European artists correctly. The older of the two, named Solomon, is very erudite and knows his stuff.

When I was living in Switzerland, Delon’s son was involved in a terrific car accident. A good looking boy like his father. The only thing that saved him according to the police was that he was driving a Mercedes, which held up pretty well despite the forces of the crash. Just like Princess Diana would have survived had she worn a seat belt. And maybe Princess Grace who also didn’t have her belt on. But I digress. These stars were all beautiful at one time but time waits for no-one. Most of them still look elegant in old age. Maybe not Bardot. I ran into her in St. Tropez 40 years ago and she looked older than her age then with her face totally wrinkled from the sun.

It was the opposite. He was doing two zoom calls at the same time, which is what got him in trouble. Even before his mishap, I always make sure I only do one Zoom call at any one time. No room for error that way and I stay focussed on the matter at hand (pun intended). Lol

Does he have an hourly rate?

I didn't think of this at first but I did hire a pornstar to be my first encounter with an escort after an almost decade long absence from the hobby. He was Gabriel Clark who has been in the porn business since around 2010 and is still making movies. Originally he always played safe but over the last couple of years I see he is now doing bareback. He was safe with me.

Thanks for the clarification.

I'm not sure of that.

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Since when has that rule applied to our posts. I sometimes give a like because I can empathize with the poster. If it's funny, I use that symbol for laughing. I liked the above post because as a bottom, I could not be a Lucky Pierre. But I have been in a threesome where one escort was topping me while he was being topped by another escort. It was very hot as I could see everything going on, including the expression on the two guys' faces, which was priceless. Not quite priceless, as I was paying for the performance. Lol

Good for him. There was nothing in his actions that suggested to me it was intentional.

That could be tricky. When I was Kris's age I was hiring escorts and having free hookups. No relationships developed until a few years later. I kept both activities separate and didn't inform either parties of the other activity. Not sure what Kris disclosing this would lead to.

There's a name from the past.

He's in Toronto now but the borders are still not open to tourism. I just realized today I have a picture of him on my phone topping another escort. Very hot. The other escort sent it to me since he knew I was interested in Nikko (not his real name of course). I'm hoping to meet him when we can travel again.

I have come to realize that I will never willingly get rid of my life time accumulation of stuff. A lot of it is quite valuable or was at one point. I realize antiques have gone way down in value as younger people don't collect them any more. If I eventually go to a retirement home I will be forced to call in the auctioneer. My siblings and their children are not interested. If I croak in my home, my heirs will have to deal with it.