msclwrsper

I have a very bad habit of befriending providers and enjoying friendship well beyond the normal boundaries. In a few instances, in return for my hosting them when they travel to my city, even though I do not engage their services, some of these providers have given me "freebies." I have a few who have become very close friends and so I now decline any of the freebies just because we are closer friends and I would start feeling weird.

Of course, there's always one. And this one and I are so very close. We talk or text every day but we are not in a relationship. We are super close friends but I've broached the subject with him about our "relationship." I love the guy and he's "my guy" as much as I have a guy. We are not sexually compatible but I'm convinced he is emotionally attracted to me and our relationship. When he stays we hang all day and we cuddle. When he wants to release, he invites me to enjoy it with him. But deep in my heart, I know we are only friends. This is the closest I've gotten to what i think this post is about.

7 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I’m going to ask Matt if he’s open to me flying him to New York for this weekend.  

Haha I'd be happy to ask Jake for you!

11 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

Ohhhhhhh Fred flintstone!!!!!  Yes yes yes. It was great seeing you too!  I’m glad I left a little Jake for you. It took everything I had not to take him home. 

Next time take him home!  I'm sure he'd love it!

6 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

There is no way you introduced yourself as muscle worshipper from the boards. Now THAT I would remember. Unless you did, in which case, I forgot and I’m a moron.  I’m sorry.  

Haha I didn't "introduce" myself this time as MuscleWorshipper this time. But I know I have shared this handle with you before!

While I typically like to worship the biggest muscle in the house, lately this little package of muscle has been garnering my attention. And he did not disappoint: he made me chew on his pits and lick his lats and kiss his biceps. All from my usual perch! I eventually had to pull him into a private room because I think we were causing a scene and I wanted to be a little more explicit with my worship.

But more to your point my friend, you are not a moron. I just haven't been living up to my muscle preferences with more obvious choices! Maybe I should change my handle since I don't always go for the biggest muscle...Lord Varys (except with both balls!) indeed is an appropriate moniker considering the vantage point that I often hold! 😜

I'm glad we had so much fun on Saturday! Good seeing you again my friend!

Now you're all thinking this:

When we all want to think of this:

Or even one of my all-time faves:

To be fair, I was clear that I was there on a weekend and that I went back REALLY late. So to have expectations for 11:00 PM on Tuesday...well. It was Tuesday at 11:00.

As another poster has said in the thread, I know how to say no and don't have a problem being firm and just letting a dancer keeping walking on by. They stop asking after the second or third "no thanks." And I had plenty of incredible interaction with the dancers that we're uber hot.  Argentinians that clearly come up to make their money and have plenty to live on for the year.  The three that I enjoyed were in superb shape; two of them compete. And they were very generous with their time. I always stayed at the bar or did a more private dance in the corner. I never went to the back room.  Didn't need to. And all that money went directly to the dancer. They know how to play the game and so do I!

As for sleazy...one man's junk is another man's treasure. I never thought Boardwalk was sleazy haha If that's sleazy, I doubt you'd enjoy any of the bars I've been to in Mexico! But to each his own! More fun for those of us who enjoy it until the wee hours of the morning! For the record, I enjoy Johnson's too. It's just  a different vibe and totally  different kind off stripper bar. I enjoy both!

18 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Wait wait wait. Who were you? 

Oh now you're playing coy and hard to get! And I thought you said I'd be hard to forget...

Clearly...I am NOT a lady as I don't care where the action happens! I'll take it wherever I can get it! haha

Fun seeing you in LA Coolwave!

I can't wait to see Johnson's Tampa! I know it's a challenging city to staff compared to FTL but there are plenty of hot men in Tampa to dance. And when they eventually see that they can make the money dancing for men, the "homo-phobia" will fall to the wayside. Matt will find them. The other dancers will start bragging. It'll bring all the folks from the West Coast of Florida out of the woods and into the big city!

Love the new 7.0 version. I look forward to when they get all the kinks out. Search function was a little slow but I love the grid version and the expandable pictures!

This man is still sex on a stick! His muscles, sexy attitude, and just a beautiful open personality...Hit the guy up! He certainly knows how to keep me rock hard!

https://app.rent.men/Franko_Domenec

This young man has joined this board and has let it be known that he is working in NY. I spoke to him recently and was incredibly impressed with his professionalism and willingness to work with me. I was only wanting a video but after talking to him, I put him on my list for when I visit NYC in the Fall. He certainly knows his work! Don't know exactly what you're looking for in your meet up with the guys on your list but this one certainly works for me!

On 2/7/2022 at 7:22 PM, pdxleo said:

Used to be, the hot guys from NC and SC would  go dance at Swinging Richards in Atlanta for the weekends, head back home to the Carolinas after making their cash - that pattern is sure to change now that SR isn't an option for income any longer. 

Well I hope that certainly is the case. Every time I go to Chasers I think, Why did I choose to come out here again? I'll hold out hope that Chasers chooses to invest in some dancer entertainment...

I visit Charlotte a few times a year to see family. In the six or seven years that I’ve gone out in Charlotte, only once has there been a dancer that I enjoyed at Chasers. At the time, one could still have a “lap dance” up on a stool up by the DJ booth.  But since then, there have really been only 2 or 3 dancers, almost all of them really thin twinks (which isn’t my type). 
 

As large as Charlotte is, I’m amazed that they can’t find a handful of guys who want to dance for tips…

Fubar isn’t currently planning on reopening which is part of why it’s been tough for Adonis LA to get back up and running I think.  There’s no venue to just drop the show into on whatever night. Matt does have a show scheduled for 2/12 and then the party for 2/19. If you’re on his mailing list you got that notification this past week.  
Let’s hope Adonis LA finds a new venue…

I second the recommendation for Fort Lauderdale! It is a great place to meet dancers in the bars and if you like them, ask if they’ll play privately.  There’s a great diversity of guys dancing in the different bars. Haven’t been disappointed yet and I’ve been going 20+ years! DM if you’d like to talk personal preferences for types of guys.  

Love this thread!  What this thread has taught me is that we all have different tastes! Some of the guys listed I would like to see but none of them are "must see" for me! So that's good. Each of us likes different guys.

None of my guys that i would call "favorites" are on RM. I've met them personally in a club or bar and had fantastic times with them. But I've met many guys who are on RM and they are deserving of the money, time, and attention that all of us give them.

9 hours ago, andymn said:

What is SW?

AndyMN...I think n2guysnatl just got finger happy and typed SW instead of SR. From context, he's talking about a dancer who is now dancing at the other place that has dancers in ATL so I'm guessing he meant Swing Richards (SR).

This gorgeous Spaniard is visiting LA for a little while. Get in touch if you like big, beautiful muscle! https://rent.men/Franko_Domenec

So I met this guy while I was in FTL for New Year's.

https://rent.men/Franko_Domenec

The guy has been one of my favorite international bodybuilders that I've followed for a while. He's gorgeous! I mean stunning good looks! And super nice - just really not flashy, not full of himself. I was surprised that he was so "regular" for a hot model like himself.

Consider getting yourself some!

On 1/7/2022 at 12:57 AM, msclwrsper said:

Sorry guys! I know exactly how you feel about the spontaneity (lateness) of this post. It wasn't something planned. This friend and I had dinner and I told him I was going out later. I never once expected that he would ask to join me. He is a provider and so I just presumed he would want to avoid this kind of place.

I'm asking him if hew wants new clients so if you're still interested and you live in the South Florida area, shoot me a DM and we'll see if we can convince him to take on some new folks!

Many of you got in touch with me and this will be much easier than to reply individually to all of you.

So I talked to my friend and he thought this would be the better way for you who are interested in the Big Muscle in the FTL to get in touch this way.

https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Big-Kenny

So good luck with the worshipping! If I were there, I'd be right there booking time with him as well! Alas, I'll have to wait for "the Mountain to come to Mohammed" so to speak.

10 hours ago, RadioRob said:

For Johnson's... its mostly about the stage show.  You're there for the eye candy as they're dancing for the main part.  When they're not on stage, most of the dancers TEND to be either in a private dance or in the dancer room.  My time there is spent stuffing dollar bills into underwear taking a peek at the goods along the way.  The private dances can be fun, but without the curtain fully closing, not as much typically happens.  

 

I really never spend time in the Stage area at Johnson's I will do a few pass-throughs just to see the action that's going on. I prefer to sit at the Penny Bar. The dancers I want to interact with stop by (I "train" them and make it worth their while) and I usually do my worship thing right at the bar. If a dancer I've seen in the Stage area doesn't come through the Penny Bar, I'll seek them out, tip them in that area and then if I really want to see them more, I ask them to find me in the Penny Bar. Towards the end of the night, I may take some back into a room to be completely muscle worshipping but I have no problem tipping and caressing a dancer while we talk in the brightly lit Penny Bar! I find the Stage area too crowded on the weekends and I don't like the low chairs. I like the bodybuilder to be standing while I'm feeling their muscles and their more likely to get into posing if they're actually standing.

I think the no sex thing is accurate - although we didn't broach that subject. I am pretty vanilla...I love to do muscle worship and if a guy will get nude - that starts moving to my deeper fantasies of the bodybuilder getting hard while posing and then...

All I can say is I've met lots of guys who love the muscle worship and say no sex to me and then somehow their dicks are hard and their busting nuts...The famous Colton used to say - there's a LOT to chemistry. If a guy feels comfortable with you, sometimes the "rules" just aren't the same.

On 1/7/2022 at 9:26 PM, RadioRob said:

I was actually there that evening.  It was my last night in town before heading back to DC.   

Sorry I didn't stay longer and shame we didn't meet. What did you think? Any fun play there for you?

On 11/29/2021 at 12:48 PM, Norwaydude74 said:

I was at The Lucky Horseshow this weekend for a couple of hours and was very happy to see more dancers there than I have ever seen before (10-15). Normal set up, no mask wearing, dancers rotate to dance on two stages and then mingle to get private dances or more tips. The privates are just in the back of the bar and absolutely not private in any way, but some of them got quite frisky. Privates are $ 20. I was very pleased with my visit, even though I wish the dancers were mixing better, some patrons tend to occupy some a bit too long and sometimes they go in the back for unnecessary long breaks. But I will absolutely go back but probably not make a trip just for this.

Thanks for the "recent" info on the Lucky Horseshoe! It's been a while since I've been to Chicago but every time I went, I enjoyed some time at the Shoe! What was the dancer pool like?

I had seen and heard from various friends that Boardwalk just wasn't worth going to anymore. Now, these friends know my appetite: muscle, the bigger the better. I've always had a good time at Johnson's but the last few times I went to Boardwalk, it didn't satisfy what I was looking for.

This time, I spent a little time talking to the bartender and he convinced my friend and I to just wait. Boardwalk, he said, has become the late bar that folks come to after they've been elsewhere. Well, we got our cocktails and sat for a while and we were pleasantly surprised. More dancers did show up (like around midnight - some even later than that!) as did other customers. They stay open until 5:00 AM on Friday and Saturday! And while I am very much a late person, even I was surprised how late this crowd is. Honestly, I'm just glad the dancers do actually show up late there because I did not leave FTL without some new muscle friends! They were big enough and in really good condition! Now, I have to admit the biggest guys I met were at Johnson's but this trip showed me Boardwalk still has it going on!