LuckyLechon

Requiring a picture wasn’t what bothered me. I can understand wanting to know what the person looks like that you would possibly have relations with. It was everything else. edit: Also, for some people on this forum sending pictures is a no go, so it is why I mentioned it.

He does have an ad on rentmasseur however he is definitely open to more than just massage when I was chatting with him. I reached out to book him a month or so ago but decided not to because he doesn’t have a place to host (dealbreaker for me personally). Also, he had a weird affect via text which is a turn off for me - like dodging quarstions about rates and wanting pictures from me (I don’t mind sending pictures but coupled with the other things, it was too much).

I get what you mean. Sometimes things feel a little more human than expected.

Right, I guess I’ve not been with a provider who’s done that before - at least to that extent.

I never really lost sight of the fact that I was paying for a service. I was paying to have a good time, like I’ve done several times in the past. I don’t think I ever alluded to it being a charity. Maybe it doesn’t come across well enough in my original post but I was surprised that I got a fantasy I never discussed or expected. That’s why it is a bit of a shock. It was nice and it was a deeper connection than I intended.

I always ask because sometimes the information posted is not accurate nor does it encompass all options available. Isnt it better for everyone to be on the same page rather than surprises or miscommunication happening later?

Frankly, this.

Something that’s contributing to the lost feeling is the idea that I will look for that in future bookings. And it likely won’t be like that.

A little clickbaity and I know it has been discussed prior but it is my first time ever having met a provider where I felt "swept away" in a sense after meeting them. I have had meetings where I had a really good time etc and I am able to acknowledge that and move on - taking it for what it was. However, recently I felt a really nice connection and just feel a little bit lost afterward. Truthfully I am surprised I can still feel this way after meeting a guy (hired or not), first time butterflies and all that, so it also kind of excites me too. I am sure others have felt this way but how do you ya'll move on? It almost makes me no longer want to hire for fear or being this caught up again. Almost.

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I think I’ve learned from past experiences that I used to preemptively book longer time before getting to know a provider and it’s definitely backfired. Nothing is worse than have a meh (rarely actually bad) experience and then paying a premium for it. Now, I always go with 1 hour for the first booking and if it goes well I’ll book again for sure and usually for longer.

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I’ve heard good things about the pod hotel never been in one. Is it ok for hosting?

Yeah I imagine something similar happening and I want to avoid that convo cause it would beware for sure. The guy I’m not into as much is a nice guy and friends I’m just so much more sexually excited by the other. I guess if it’s an issue I should just find someone else, plenty of fish in the sea so to speak.