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One of the most erotic massages I ever experienced was with a guy who did not have explicit pictures on rentmasseur.   You never fully know what to expect in my experience.  That's half the fun of a sensual massage.   

One of the most erotic massages I ever experienced was with a guy who did not have explicit pictures on rentmasseur.   You never fully know what to expect in my experience.  That's half the fun of a sensual massage.   

One of the most erotic massages I ever experienced was with a guy who did not have explicit pictures on rentmasseur.   You never fully know what to expect in my experience.  That's half the fun of a sensual massage.   

One of the most erotic massages I ever experienced was with a guy who did not have explicit pictures on rentmasseur.   You never fully know what to expect in my experience.  That's half the fun of a sensual massage.   

He’s sweet, sexy, friendly, and fun. Had a massage from him and it was a relaxing massage plus. If you want a pure therapeutic massage, maybe go elsewhere. If you want sensual and no pressure, he’s your man all day long. Highly recommend. 

A sexy man trained in massage.
And also (this is the important part because trained masseurs are easy to find) completely at ease sharing his naked self while massaging me. 
A perfect time is when sensuality is integrated seamlessly throughout the entire massage session. 
It’s rare to find that combo in a man. When I do, I’m elated. 

I can confirm that Alex is all he claims -- a terrific masseur and a really nice guy.   DM for more details.

Yes, I saw the same thing.   Suspicious.  

Yes, always expect oral sex and touching of genitals during a massage. If you don't receive these, report the masseur or massage establishment to the State Massage Board immediately, complaining that you WEREN'T provided sex.
Disclaimer to Generation Z:  The above was sarcasm.  

I searched for this particular topic and didn't find anything specifically about this, which is why I am posting. A little context first.
I went to a conference in Orlando last week, and I managed to talk my employer into letting me stay in the hotel where it happened for an additional night. I planned to treat myself with a provider for that night and return home happy. Went to RM and identified three prospects. I texted them with provider 1 being my preferred of the three.
I sent the exact same initial text to reach out to each one of them (something along the lines of "I saw your profile, liked what I read, I am interested. Are you available?")
Their initial responses were quite different.
Provider number 1: "Aww thanks!! I'm just not available this weekend. How long are you in town?" Provider number 2: "$XXX for one hour $XXX per hour for 2 or more". Provider number 3: "Hey there, thanks for checking out my profile. I can be available. What part of town are staying in? Typically my rate is $XXX for the hour. I'm located in the xxxx area." I went with provider 3 because provider 1 wasn't available, and provider 2 didn't entice me much to further the communication. I dissed provider 2 because it didn't show much people skills.
Questions to providers: Do you craft your initial reply, do you just answer based on the initial text, or combination of both? Do you think that how you reply matters (of course, aside from being polite and basic communication manners) and makes a difference in your business?
Questions to clients: do you care about how the provider replies, or does it impact your decision of going further (of course, based on the premise that it's not rejection or unavailability).
BTW, Provider 3 was excellent. I ended up extending my stay.
 

I frequently receive feedback about the thoughtfulness of my initial inquiry.  It says who I am, physical/health characteristics, what I’m inquiring about, what I like, etc.   I hear story after story of providers receiving inquiries like it’s a dating app
Often the response is a reflection of the effort put in to the inquiry.  

I recently came back from Tokyo.  I posted about my experience at Utatane in a different thread.   You can also try Namwa.  Both have a variety of types, including what you are looking for.   I also visited two Onsen.   Hagoromo-Yu and Benten-Yu.  Both were a bit out of they way, but reasonably easy to find.   There was no gay action at the times I visited, but I suspect it happens later at night.   In both there were a good selection of young and smooth Japanese guys.  Everyone naked.   Just remember to take your shoes off before you go to the desk!   www.gayifiers.com is a good source.

While it’s true that plenty of clients skim ads and waste providers’ time with questions like “Can you host?” even when the answer is clearly stated, the frustration definitely goes both ways. Providers can be just as guilty, many ignore messages completely, don’t bother to read client profiles with key info like preferences or boundaries or reply with vague copy-paste responses that barely address what was asked. This kind of mutual negligence isn’t unique to this industry, it happens everywhere.
Here’s a typical scenario I’ve run into way too often. When I reach out to a provider for the first time, usually when they’re listed as “available” on the site, my message includes four simple questions: rates, whether they’re comfortable with my expectations for the session, their availability on a given date and, if they host, a general idea of their location.
What happens next? I might get partial answers to one or two questions usually a day or two later. So I follow up with the remaining questions. If another couple of days go by without a clear response, I move on. From their perspective, I’m now a “time waster” because I texted twice and didn’t book. From mine, they’re the time waster because I spent days just trying to get basic information. So… who’s really in the wrong here?

You're asking for two things. Is a HE usually expected on RM?  Yes. 
Is a blow job expected? No. 
When I hire I usually state "nude with release?" Almost 100% of the time they say yes. But I don't request oral. That would be escort territory. 

I recently came back from Tokyo.  I posted about my experience at Utatane in a different thread.   You can also try Namwa.  Both have a variety of types, including what you are looking for.   I also visited two Onsen.   Hagoromo-Yu and Benten-Yu.  Both were a bit out of they way, but reasonably easy to find.   There was no gay action at the times I visited, but I suspect it happens later at night.   In both there were a good selection of young and smooth Japanese guys.  Everyone naked.   Just remember to take your shoes off before you go to the desk!   www.gayifiers.com is a good source.

I too am interested.   He hosts in North York, and does outcalls downtown.  Looks absolutely gorgeous, but no reviews yet.    

This year I had one of the most sensual massages I’ve ever experienced, and the masseur wasn’t even naked. He was so caring, his energy perfectly in tune, and the way he touched me felt more like gentle caressing at times. I could feel genuine care and devotion in every movement.
He worked wearing only his underwear, and his touch covered every part of my body. With each breath, he softly blew warm air over my skin. Every single muscle was attended to, with special attention to the glutes and inner thighs. He even touched around my balls and dick intimate, but still within the flow of the session.
I was leaking precum, but there was no happy ending. Honestly, I think one might have cheapened the experience. It was powerful just as it was. He’s clearly trained in multiple modalities and blends techniques beautifully.
After a few visits, he did end up nude once, by chance, but I respected his boundaries. And, I’ve got to say… the man was packing. I’m not even sure if he’s straight or gay. 
Now I understand that a truly sensual massage is about connection, the energy, the flow, and the way the masseur genuinely cares for you and your body. It’s a world apart from the routine rub-and-tugs that have become so common these days.
I just wanted to share this experience, but I’d like to keep the masseur’s identity private.

Yes, I have one deal breaker: if the “masseur” doesn’t use a proper massage table, I won’t hire him. Very, very few can deliver a good massage on a bed. At least with a table, I know he takes his work a little more seriously.

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I recently came back from Tokyo.  I posted about my experience at Utatane in a different thread.   You can also try Namwa.  Both have a variety of types, including what you are looking for.   I also visited two Onsen.   Hagoromo-Yu and Benten-Yu.  Both were a bit out of they way, but reasonably easy to find.   There was no gay action at the times I visited, but I suspect it happens later at night.   In both there were a good selection of young and smooth Japanese guys.  Everyone naked.   Just remember to take your shoes off before you go to the desk!   www.gayifiers.com is a good source.

For me it's just the opposite.  When I hire a massuer, I am looking for really good technique to work my shoulders and legs and glutes and feet.  I'll gladly see a regular who knows what he's doing with my muscles or a well-reviewed massuer with recommendations for deep tissue, rather than book a stranger who might/might not give deep tissue.  Of course I'm always naked and I'll probably leave "happy" only about half the time; but, it's the quality of the massage that keeps me going back. 
Sensual elements added to a massage is like icing added to a cake.  I don't want to eat a glob of icing on lousy cake.
The key for me is to ignore all reviews on here asking "HE?" or "MT?", as those seldom lead to great sensual massages for my preference.

I have just returned from Tokyo and booked a massage with Utatane.   I considered other outfits, but most others require a deposit.   The booking was with the individual masseur who was prompt and clear in his response.   These individual massage "shops" end up with some strange translated titles.  I booked with "Hearing Salon -- Listening" for a 90 minute sensual massage.  The young man met me at the designated spot on Google maps and took me to the apartment.   His skills were good, and he had clearly been trained.   But, don't take seriously the claims about speaking English.  I deliberately chose a masseur with whom I thought I could converse, but he needed his translation ap at every point.   And the apartment was really tiny and basic -- including the shower which we shared before and after.   The massage was done on a mattress on the floor, typical in Japan but not the most comfortable.  So overall a good experience, as others have reported.  
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I have found that some masseurs like to cover your eyes with a cloth after turning over.   I always take it off. I love to look into his eyes as the massage gets more erotic.   And the best masseurs return the gaze.  I find that a real turn on.   

The feel and sound of gloves squeaking against my skin would ruin any massage experience, therapeutic or otherwise.

Just visited Seoul and had a massage at Superman, having considered Spy massage and Prime.  I made the reservation through email -- more convenient than downloading the local apps that are typically used.   Note that this place operates out of a pretty large spa called Lahome therapy -- very close to Itaewon station with clear signs.   So the gay operation is using the same facilities as the massage parlour offering services by women, and there were a couple hanging around.  The photos on the website are accurate, and the massage rooms were small but totally private and clean.  My masseur was a young guy called Roman, who had really good skills.  I showered with him afterwards.  You pay in advance.  DM for more details.