ApexNomad

I enjoyed Diahann. I didn’t see Karen Mason.

Some red flags for me: he claims to be 23 in his ad copy but lists 25 next to his name. “European sex?” Not entirely sure what that even means in this context. Plus, he has three ‘Ask Me’ responses in his info boxes, which is a pet peeve—just tell me!!

Have you see The Roommate with her and Mia Farrow?

Who was your favorite Norma? Mine was Betty Buckley. She was perfect! Keep us posted if you see Mandy. I’ll be curious to hear your review.

Me: I noticed you list BFE, but not kissing. I’m really into kissing and just wanted to check if that’s something you offer. Thanks! Him: Yes, as long as there’s good oral hygiene. Me: Perfect! I’m free Friday from 7-9pm. Does that work for you? Easy!

In public settings, I’ve found that small gestures—a smile, a brief glance, or even a casual question—can create an atmosphere of openness and signal interest without being overt. Years ago, I was at a Starbucks after a long stretch at the office. I needed a change of scenery, so I grabbed a coffee and settled into a corner seat. As I sipped my coffee, I noticed a handsome guy a couple of tables over. He was dressed like he’d just come from work too, with his sleeves rolled up, looking focused on his laptop. Every so often, he’d glance my way, and we’d catch each other’s eye for a brief moment. At first, I thought it was just my imagination, but the glances kept coming. In that moment, I decided to take a chance and give him a small smile. It was subtle, but just enough. To my surprise, he smiled back, and I could see a hint of intrigue in his expression. As I stood up to throw away my cup near him, he looked over and said, “Office escape?” I replied, “Yeah, but office calls. Take care.” (Like a fucking moron!) Then, with a playful grin, he shot back, “Well, if you ever want to escape again, here’s my number. I make a mean coffee and better company.” He handed me his card. That line caught me off guard, and I just laughed. (Again, like a fucking moron!) I was impressed and completely turned on by his confidence. I took his number, and that simple exchange sparked a two-year relationship.

Cher said it better. Sorry.

Worth asking if you’re interested since he appears to list BFE. Not a guarantee he will, but worth an ask. (Disclaimer: I have no experience with him.)

Is Vegas like that all the time the weekend before Thanksgiving?

I recently got the chance to see the Jamie Lloyd production of Sunset Blvd., and it was well done! Nicole Scherzinger’s portrayal of Norma Desmond is strong, capturing the character’s complexity with both vulnerability and determination. Vocals were beautiful. The minimalist staging effectively focuses on the emotional core of the story, enhancing the overall impact. I thought it was well done and appreciated the fresh take on the material. I’m hoping to see it again with Mandy Gonzalez, who I believe only plays the Tuesday performances, as I’m curious to see her interpretation of this iconic role. Overall, this revival brings a new perspective to Webber’s work and is worth seeing.

What kind of doctor are you? What’s your area of specialization?

Audra McDonald and Brian Stokes Mitchell were incredible in Ragtime. Even when they reunited at the Tonys a few years back, their voices together were absolutely gorgeous. Truly beautiful performances.

Oh, that reserved sign? That’s for when my escort has to bring me to the ER after a session goes… a bit deeper than planned. It’s nothing.

I think it’s all three you mentioned above. Plus, some self-consciousness too! With age, maybe we just pay more attention to the details so we feel as comfortable and confident as possible.

I had a provider who couldn’t guarantee he’d cum during our two-hour session unless I booked an overnight. It was a different answer I got when we texted. As a bottom, I really enjoy it when the top finishes—it makes me feel connected and involved. And human!!! Otherwise, I end up feeling like a log! Which is exactly how I felt because once I came, he stopped. So that killed the whole experience. I want my tops to be satisfied (as I said before, call me old fashioned). But I’m not comfortable committing to an overnight with someone I’d never met before, and that was the case with him. He got paid in full, as I always do. But no tip and certainly no rehire.

For you, an impasse. For him, an extended stay. 😉

It’s a Friday Jamie, you can’t be throwing out math problems on us. I thought we were your friends. For the mathematically impaired, that’s 8 inches. I didn’t calculate the thrusts, but I do appreciate the complimentary pull out. 😘

This is exactly what makes you such an incredible provider! You’ve captured something so powerful here. For those new to this, I think it can be a hurdle to accept the unique structure of this relationship. It’s not easy to let go and fully enjoy, but when done right – which you clearly have mastered – it becomes a truly magical and one-of-a-kind experience. I totally understand the urge to reciprocate or make sure the provider feels appreciated, but knowing that you genuinely find joy in making the client feel like royalty makes it easier to embrace that. It’s like the fantasy brought to life.

This is perfect!!! For me, maybe I’m old school, it’s nonetheless important to feel like the provider is genuinely happy and enjoying himself because it makes the experience - for me - that much richer. THAT SAID, if he isn’t for any reason, then I expect the greatest performance of his life, one that leaves no room for doubt—because that’s what I’m paying for! Too often, I see people approaching this with insecurity, thinking, “I could never have that” or “I could never satisfy someone like that.” But we need to move beyond that mindset. This isn’t a relationship; it’s a transaction where both parties bring value. Everyone has preferences, but that’s irrelevant here—this is about fulfilling a specific need, in that specific moment, for however long you’ve booked.