ApexNomad

Negotiating a provider’s rate is uncouth—you’ll come off as cheap, which is far worse than any concern they might secretly have about your looks.

Any provider worth their salt will take the time to listen and handle you with care. The real challenge is finding someone who won’t see you as a time waster. Texting can be tricky, but this is your experience, and it should be on your terms. If you feel like sharing your concerns, do it—there’s no shame in being upfront. Providers over 35 tend to have more patience, so that might be a good place to start.

It’s bullshit that Broadway won’t dim all its marquees for Gavin Creel. He was a Tony and Olivier winner, starred in eight Broadway shows, and was key to the modern musical theatre scene. Dimming the lights is a one-minute gesture—a simple act of respect for someone who gave so much to the Broadway community. His death at 48 is a huge loss, and selectively dimming a few marquees sends the wrong message. Broadway prides itself on being a community, yet when one of its brightest stars is taken far too soon, the response is partial and inadequate. If we can’t honor someone like Creel with a simple, full marquee dimming, what are we even saying about the value we place on our artists and their legacies? It’s disrespectful, dismissive, and frankly, a disgrace. Do better, Broadway. It’s the least you can do.

First, congratulations on recognizing that you’re ready for something new—that’s half the battle! There are definitely fulfilling career options that won’t require another degree or a total reboot. Given your interest in writing, research, and financial matters, here are a few paths to consider: 1. Freelance Writing/Editing: With your experience and writing skills, there’s a market for freelance writers, editors, or content creators in various fields. You could write for educational platforms, finance blogs, or even develop your own niche. 2. Grant Writing: This combines research and writing, and it’s a field where organizations are always in need of skilled writers to help secure funding. Non-profits and educational institutions especially value people with backgrounds in education. 3. Financial Coaching or Consulting: If you enjoy working with numbers, you might explore financial coaching. Many people need help with budgeting, saving, and understanding investments, and your background in education could be a great asset in making complex financial topics easy to understand. 4. Project Management: Many industries need project managers, and your experience in education means you’re probably already great at organizing, planning, and overseeing projects. Certification programs like PMP (Project Management Professional) are available, but they’re far less intensive than another degree. 5. Research Analyst: Whether it’s in market research, finance, or education, research analysts are needed to collect and interpret data. Your ability to dig into information and present clear findings could open doors in this area. Since you’re not looking to do another degree or a software boot camp, these options provide opportunities for growth with your existing skills. The key is to leverage your experience and strengths, while targeting fields that value life experience and perspective. Good luck on your new adventure!

Agreed! Massive disappointment. At his price, I expected a lot more. He quoted me $500 per hour, but he requires a two hour min. So that’s $1K right there. Outcall only for first timers. So your place or a hotel. His quoted overnight to me was $4K, which he tried to upsell me if I wanted him to cum. Call me old fashioned, but I enjoy it when my partner gets off too. Even if I have to pay extra for it with a provider. If you want him to suck your dick, you have to wear a condom. I respect anyone’s preference. BUT would have been nice to have known that uncommon request in advance of booking considering he doesn’t wear one when you go down on him. Lesson learned. And he’s a clock watcher.

Agreed! Not at all someone I typically go for, but said wtf. Actually very sweet guy. Don’t let the tats fool you. And he will give you what you want. Recommend.