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And I hope she and her accent get better.

Not the first word that comes to mind when I see him. He seems to have a penchant for changing his name often—I wouldn’t get too attached to it.

Hard to justify locking in for longer when the yield curve is this inverted. It usually signals economic uncertainty or expectations that interest rates will decline in the future.

Was the name Jack Thick already taking?

Yes you do. You want to blame everyone but yourself. PS, you have the worst fucking therapist. Get a new one.

The writing here is just superb. The level of shade, as the young ones call it, is a different level. This scene never grows old.

Pluto TV has Dynasty.

You’re being kind.

You think you offer value, but clearly, something isn’t translating. Attraction and connection aren’t just about what you believe you bring to the table—it’s about how others perceive and experience you. If no one is sticking around, then either your self-perception isn’t matching reality, or you’re fixated on people who don’t want what you offer. Either way, the issue starts and ends with you.

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And why would someone come back? What are you offering that makes them want to? You keep talking about what you want, what you’re not getting, but relationships—casual or serious—aren’t one-sided transactions. If no one is sticking around, maybe it’s time to stop asking “why won’t they come back?” and start asking “why would they?”

He also uses watches and quarters. Hopefully he cleans his dick too.

Even the opening theme music didn’t give me the White Lotus feel of the previous seasons—less chaotic cult vibes, more spa playlist at an overpriced wellness retreat. I’ll bet by episode six, Patrick will be doing his brother, much like when Leo Woodall was getting it on with the guy from the Pirates movie. Because if there’s one thing White Lotus loves more than luxury resorts, it’s an uncomfortable incest-adjacent subplot.

I’m flattered - thanks for thinking of me. I prefer older men though, not people who still get carded buying cough syrup.

You say your sex life lacks intimacy, but intimacy isn’t something that magically appears—it’s something you build. If every hookup feels transactional, maybe it’s because you’re treating it that way too. If you’re bored even when you’re getting what you want, maybe the problem isn’t just the other person. You keep looking for a “solution” outside yourself—a new app, a new approach, an escort—but none of that will change anything unless you do. So what exactly are you bringing to the table beyond frustration and expectations?

You’re putting a lot of words around the same point: I’ve tried everything, nothing works, so it must be external factors. But if you’re the common denominator in every scenario, the answer is you. You say you don’t expect friendships to turn romantic, but you also don’t think meeting people through passions works. You reject dating apps, but also claim they’re your best shot. You dismiss “Disney concepts” but want something deeper than sex. You’re contradicting yourself left and right. It sounds to me like you’re more committed to proving you’re doomed than actually finding a solution and doing the real work — examine yourself.

Never heard of this kid. I could be his grandfather. These prices aren’t unheard of—I’ve been quoted similar rates for a few tops in NYC, many of whom have been spoken of favorably here. I was once quoted $4,000 for an overnight, though he dropped it to $3,500. A few porn stars in the business have quoted me $1,000 per/hour. Some NYC tops charge $500 per hour but require a two-hour minimum, which comes to $1,000. A few either insist on outcalls for the first appointment or only do outcalls, meaning you’re either hosting or covering the expense of a hotel… plus his Uber. Ultimately, it’s your move.

So now you’re pivoting to “tell me what to do,” which keeps the cycle going. You’re not actually engaging with the point—I already laid out that you’ve tried everything except genuine self-reflection. The issue isn’t what you’re doing; it’s how you’re approaching it. You’re treating dating like a checklist instead of an organic human experience. You don’t need another strategy—you need to actually sit with why you’re so resistant to looking inward. As for escorts, see what you wrote 22 hours ago (above). Whether you’re just asking or have been with one or not, escorts aren’t working for you either.

I had the laborious pleasure of reading what you wrote back in 2023–“Escort Suggestion for Hot Guy”—and here we are—same frustrations, same explanations, same lack of progress. You say you want to rethink your approach, but all you’re doing is rehashing the same complaints and dismissing every possible solution. If therapy, dating apps, social events, and now even escorts aren’t working, the issue isn’t the world—it’s you. So the real question is, are you actually willing to change something, or are you just looking for someone to validate your excuses?

That song is almost 40 years old - of course her voice is going to sound different. She has other great songs in her catalog.

I almost clutched my pearls. For shame on you.

You barely saw his front - it was mostly covered. He has a nice ass though. This season is going to be a slow burn.

What privileges are you talking about? You literally said you’re “hot,”—by gay dating standards, that already puts you ahead of a lot of people who are somehow managing to find connection. So what exactly is holding you back? Because it sounds less like external factors and more like something in your approach or mindset that’s keeping you stuck.

What do you do? You make friends. No one’s foolish enough to turn away from a genuine friendship for a fleeting fix.

^ here’s what you said. Now you’re saying you know escorts can’t be a BF or FWB. If you already know that, why are you even asking? You’re relying on a transactional encounter to fill a void, even though you know it won’t evolve into anything more substantial. It’s exactly what you’re trying to escape, and it just confirms the cycle you’re fed up with.