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I have an escort I am starting to make a regular. Have seen him about 6 times total over about 16 months, but three of those were in the last three months. We have never renegotiated his rate from the first time we met, which was $425 for 90 min. On second and third visits, I gave him $500. By our fourth, when I knew I wanted to keep it more regular between us, I bumped up to $550. Interestingly, I’m always the one suggesting it’s time to wrap up at about 90 minutes. I’m sure he’d hang out a little longer if I wanted. I try hard to keep our texting brief, respect his time, and hope he feels like I am one of his best clients. I’ve told him explicitly I don’t have romantic feelings but I’m fond of our time together and I’d like to keep seeing him as often as we can make it work and as long as we are both comfortable. I’m sure I’ll bump what I pay even more at some point. In the long run, the connection I have with him is worth it. 

I have an escort I am starting to make a regular. Have seen him about 6 times total over about 16 months, but three of those were in the last three months. We have never renegotiated his rate from the first time we met, which was $425 for 90 min. On second and third visits, I gave him $500. By our fourth, when I knew I wanted to keep it more regular between us, I bumped up to $550. Interestingly, I’m always the one suggesting it’s time to wrap up at about 90 minutes. I’m sure he’d hang out a little longer if I wanted. I try hard to keep our texting brief, respect his time, and hope he feels like I am one of his best clients. I’ve told him explicitly I don’t have romantic feelings but I’m fond of our time together and I’d like to keep seeing him as often as we can make it work and as long as we are both comfortable. I’m sure I’ll bump what I pay even more at some point. In the long run, the connection I have with him is worth it. 

Why wait til the second session to ask? Most providers I know prefer upfront conversation after you’ve booked but before the meet to set expectations. Just don’t waste their time with a lot of back and forth. Say what you like clearly and succinctly and that you’re open to discussing details once you’re together. 

Why wait til the second session to ask? Most providers I know prefer upfront conversation after you’ve booked but before the meet to set expectations. Just don’t waste their time with a lot of back and forth. Say what you like clearly and succinctly and that you’re open to discussing details once you’re together. 

Why wait til the second session to ask? Most providers I know prefer upfront conversation after you’ve booked but before the meet to set expectations. Just don’t waste their time with a lot of back and forth. Say what you like clearly and succinctly and that you’re open to discussing details once you’re together. 

Anyone have any info? Planning to book with him. Wondering what to expect. Thanks! 
https://rent.men/Dawnlocke
 

Last time I chatted with him he quoted me 1k an hour if he were to bottom. 

I have an escort I am starting to make a regular. Have seen him about 6 times total over about 16 months, but three of those were in the last three months. We have never renegotiated his rate from the first time we met, which was $425 for 90 min. On second and third visits, I gave him $500. By our fourth, when I knew I wanted to keep it more regular between us, I bumped up to $550. Interestingly, I’m always the one suggesting it’s time to wrap up at about 90 minutes. I’m sure he’d hang out a little longer if I wanted. I try hard to keep our texting brief, respect his time, and hope he feels like I am one of his best clients. I’ve told him explicitly I don’t have romantic feelings but I’m fond of our time together and I’d like to keep seeing him as often as we can make it work and as long as we are both comfortable. I’m sure I’ll bump what I pay even more at some point. In the long run, the connection I have with him is worth it. 

I have powerful orgasms a lot of the times I have an encounter. Sometimes I even temporarily lose hearing or get dizzy. So when it happens I tend to stop thrusting involuntary as my body reacts to the sensation. So to your first question I say no.
I don't pause intentionally, but it happens. Especially because my dick gets hyper sensitive and I have strong physical reactions. Some of the guys I see know this and become sadomasochist. LOL! They'll let the initial cumshot happen but then continue to pump/ride me because they know how much of a physical reaction I'll continue to have. They seem to relish the torture in the reaction. 😱 😆
I have been told by a number of people they can tell when I've shot a huge load.
Even if they couldn't feel it, most know I'm going to because of my body reactions to the impending orgasm. They can see/feel the tension in my body/face sometimes before I cum.
One guy (Ashton from Sean Cody) was extremely good at edging me with his ass. He just seem to know every time I was getting close, even before the tension in my body. He also managed to get multiple huge loads from each session.

I can understand your feelings.  I've lived enough decades to have noticed/experienced the steady decline of mutual respect and/or neutral civility across-the-board in society.  I'm not sure where to place the blame...social media/politics/stress factors, other things, but I sense that it is escalating and pollinating into the younger generations.  Maybe, hopefully it's a cycle.
                                                                                                                                                                     

Agreed. Also I’d be very skeptical of Hush. Haven’t been in a couple of years. Last time I was there I got really sick after with a virus of some kind. Place is definitely not clean and it may have been Julio who was sick but still working. 🙁

Don’t DM on instagram. Especially don’t mention paid meetings or anything similar on there. Instagram will ban suspend or ban the model’s account if they discuss such a thing on there. You’d need to move the discussion off instagram if you wanted to discuss hiring him. Similarly on Onlyfans: they will ban or suspend any creator discussing meets. 
I get guys messaging me on both my IG and OF about meeting and it’s difficult to respond to them directly. Best to contact guys for meets via their X / Twitter (they don’t care!) or via his contact number which you’ll find with a bit of simple research if he’s open for business. 

Went to Hush Manhattan and got Julio. Very good technique, but beware he looks nothing like the picture on their website, he gained at least 40 pounds since this picture was taken.

You are absolutely right. In the past week, I added another 5k to my spending total. I don’t think I have ever spent more than 75k a year.  Looks like I could exceed that, if I don’t curb my desires for immediate gratification.

Sniffies DOES work

I think you can set it to how far you want it to show you are from your real location.  So people know the general area but not the exact street/building.  With Grindr doesn’t it show how many feet away you are which seems more of a security issue.   They can walk down the block until they get zero feet.

Agree that Sniffies is a great site. I’ve been active on there for about a month and have had several great hookups. Seen three of them twice! And it’s a huge ego boost for a silver haired daddy!

Sniffies is the way to go these days.  The majority of of my hook ups other than the bathhouse come from Sniffies.

we are obviously in different tax brackets. but more power to you if you can afford it! 

Actually: I’m an advocate of that… Having their actually be a specific code for tax returns and having this designated as legitimate profession where we are taxed because it is both legal and legitimized. Also, included into the healthcare system to allow for STI screening and other necessary care that reduces the incidence rates of voidable health issues then can address drug usage etc~ legitimizing, and legalizing. This profession could especially help women courtesans in terms of physical and health safety, especially if there are the return of agencies that can pre-screen clients for them.~ 

I have a line item for 1500 a month, which translates into three 2-hour sessions within my pool of regulars.
I work in tech, make six figures, have no debt whatsoever (even mortgage paid off), and live simply. The largest cash flow I pay into is savings and retirement.
Either I settle down into a marriage with a well funded retirement, or I hire a live in personal trainer when I'm older. You always have to plan for the worst case scenario.

The figures listed in this thread should be exhibit A in why we need to tax this type of work by legalizing and legitimizing it.
 

It’s an interesting question. When I’m reading it I’m also interpreting different ways to read it. I’m thinking about what the expenditure is for a Client strictly for the meeting, but then there’s also preparation, time and money before the meeting actually takes place, including advertising or looking on advertisements… And then there’s the same questions from the point of view of the provider: what is their investment being hired and for each particular appointment. It’s fair to assess that there is financial, time and other investment as a provider for any given meeting.
 Since I’m a provider, it’s important for me to look at both questions from the various perspectives, especially since I travel with Clients and sometimes I’m with them anywhere from a few days to a couple of months at a time… But even for the shorter appointments, the various types of cost are present. 
 so, it’s important for me to know what my client is investing when hiring me, but also it’s a consideration on what they are budgeting for with regards to their month or their year because it may include hiring other lads for various periods of time… And I need to be sensitive about their needs there~ it’s something that I openly discussed with a number of my Clients whether it’s their needs or mine~ When a client understands their own budget and hiring needs, my experience shows me that it often benefits their overall experience. When they understand my needs, it also helps them understand why things cost what they do or whether they don’t cost what they don’t. It’s not all about justifying financial needs and ability but also it addresses some very important things about time and availability.

Wow, I am minor league.

Yikes. I think I need to up my game.  In the last 10 years, I've hired five providers and spent around $3,000. When I feel I've earned a reward for my good deeds, and have the funds, I hire. I've had a mixed bag of good and poor providers.