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Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?
Decatur Guy replied to muscmtl's topic in Questions About Hiring
Eric Manchester was incredibly sexy. -
Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?
Decatur Guy replied to muscmtl's topic in Questions About Hiring
Oh my goodness. Michael Vincenzo is another good one I wish I had met, though I knew him more from his ad than video work. -
Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?
Decatur Guy replied to muscmtl's topic in Questions About Hiring
I didn't realize he died of AIDS. So sad. He was super sexy. -
Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?
Decatur Guy replied to muscmtl's topic in Questions About Hiring
I had a major thing for Jason Branch. I would have paid a "fame tax" for him! Blake Harper was sexy, too. -
Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?
Decatur Guy replied to muscmtl's topic in Questions About Hiring
Did you think he was better in person than in his videos? I did. I don't think his videos captured how dynamic he was. They were a little on the flat side. I hope he's well, too. I wonder if he's still in Peoria, Illinois. -
Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?
Decatur Guy replied to muscmtl's topic in Questions About Hiring
I've only been with a handful providers who were already established porn stars. One who comes to mind is Andrew Justice. To me, he was better in person than on the screen. His videos did not capture, to me, how much fun he was in person. I've also hired Scott DeMarco, and he was really good. He also seemed hotter in person as well. And neither of them charged much of a "fame tax." And in each case, I learned of them first from their escort ad and then later looked up their videos. Then there are a few who I saw pop up later in porn after I hired them. That can be a fun surprise. What I've never done is hire the likes of a Rafael Alancar -- already well-known to me and someone I liked to watch. I'm not against it, but just haven't had the scheduling/money opportunity. Whether I'd hire a major porn star depends on how much of "fame tax" is involved (like I'd consider a $100 fame tax; probably not $200) and just how much I've enjoyed that person's performances. But I've been with enough guys who did both to realize that you can't 100% equate what you get in a video with what you can expect in person. -
Is it a known risk to schedule for an hour?
Decatur Guy replied to Kevin Slate's topic in Questions About Hiring
This is one reason I don't travel to another city for brief appointments. I take what's available where I am and try to develop about four or five regulars. If I'm traveling with this kind of thing in mind, I do it at a place such as New York City where there will be plenty of backups -- and other fun, nonsexual things to do. I've also never traveled exclusively to meet a provider. That person might be a major reason, but not the only one. If I have an open day, I will tell providers with whom I am just booking for an hour that I am flexible on time if they can get another short appointment in that I'm glad to change the time with a couple of hours of notice. As far as I know, I've never been ditched for an overnight. But I also book mostly same-day appointments. -
I think for younger folks, time and appointments are more fluid.
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I've also found that punctuality is generally less important to providers younger than 30 than those older. Though I must say I've found notable exceptions to both rules. That's yet one more reason I tend to go with guys in their 30s and older; odds are better they'll keep the appointment and be on time. I rarely hire below 25 for a variety of reasons. Punctuality is just one of them.
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Contacting me first if you're going to be running late goes a long way with me. I'm much more willing to extend out the time (within limits) if I'm not having to track down the situation.
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I usually have them come to me, and I realize there can be traffic issues, parking issues and such. I'll grant more leeway on that depending on the guy. Up to an hour. If I'm in a hotel lobby, I generally will wait about 20 minutes max with no text or contact all. If I'm not hearing anything by then, I'm out. And I'll grant about 20 more minutes if there is an issue. But 40 minutes is pretty much my max. I usually do two confirmations after an appointment is set. So say I make an appointment at noon for a meeting at 9 p.m. Around 6 p.m, I'll confirm I'm still good to meet. Then I'll confirm I'm leaving my place if I go to the provider. If the provider is coming to me, I ask him to let me know when he's on the way. And sometimes, I'll send an "in-progess" text if I'm hitting bad traffic, etc., if I'm traveling. Communication is key. I don't mind waiting for a legit reason. But do not leave me in the dark.
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I think he took a hiatus and came back with a name change. Honestly, I've meant to reach out to him for an appointment but just haven't gotten around to it.
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I've had a brief and promising talk with this provider on the phone about a possible appointment next week. Has anyone had any personal experiences to relay on here or via a PM? MarcGX - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - MarcGX: DADDY’s HOME! HUNG HAIRY BEEFY ITALIAN
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I'll add Cooper to the list of guys I regret not hiring while they were based in ATL or coming here a lot.
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I That's definitely one of my red flags. I cut people who have been on six months or less some review slack, but if you've been on the site a year, you need to start having some reviews. And I've "taken one for the team" before with newbies. But I'm not test driving someone who has been around for seven years and has 16 reviews. I generally like to see at least one review in the past four to six months. So yeah -- seven years and 16 reviews? Not enough. Conversely, I'm also suspicious if someone is new and then two months later has 20 or 30 glowing reviews.
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I don't have a particular thought to add to the $500 price point per se other than my upper reach for one hour is $350. I just simply can't spend more even if the provider is fantastic. The funds don't exist for more. But I would like to briefly address this idea that threads and discussions on pricing are tiresome and should be limited, etc. I don't think they are tiresome. In fact, they are 100% core to why this website even exists. The exchange of $$$ is completely what this is all about. Almost all discussion would be rendered moot if you take money off the table. This site is not about no-money-exchange Grindr hookups. So the fact that some members of the forum would like to get a better lay of the land regarding what others pay for an hour in various places and situations is a very natural discussion point to me. The landscape has changed A WHOLE LOT in just the past two years in regards to pricing. And I just got back on the forum recently. So personally, I find such discussions helpful. What I don't find helpful is people weighing in with sighs and arghs and "here we go again" and such. If topics about pricing ain't your cup of tea, just go get a different drink. No one is forcing you to participate. There are other posts on here. Why should those of us who want to explore price ceilings and affordability feel stifled into silence because you're personally not interested in this topic? Given the rapid changes in the economy, I find posts about rates helpful in evaluating my hiring expectations and decisions.
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True travel sex stories. Any you're willing to share?
Decatur Guy replied to m4same's topic in Fetish Forum
In the mid 1990s, I met a very hot Greek guy at a park in Athens. He had the classic look -- dark hair, closely shaved beard, very tan, tall and naturally muscular. He was a bit cheesy with gold chains, open shirt showing chest hair, tight jeans that showed a bulge, oiled hair, sunglasses, etc. But it worked. TOTALLY. We talked for a bit. He spoke little English but enough to get across he'd like to go to my hotel room. Given his looks and demeanor, I thought for all the world I was going to be his cocksucker or at most, a bottom in a rough macho-fucker kind of session. I was even suspicious of a potential robbery. I couldn't have been more wrong. He was sincere, passionate, a great kisser and it turned out total bottom (or at least that day). I just never imagined someone with his looks and demeanor would bottom for someone like me -- a pale American (at least I was in good shape then) and several inches shorter and not muscular. Physically, it was a total mismatch. But he LOVED getting fucked that afternoon and was very cock hungry orally too. I seriously throat fucked him. Crazy. Never had anything quite like that happen before or after where the expectations and assumptions were so off. -
Leather Daddy Recommendations in Palm Springs . HELP!
Decatur Guy replied to SHUBEAR's topic in The Deli
I saw the title of your ad and was about to put in my two cents for David SF. He fills a unique niche, but I bet there are some reasonable options there. -
Knockout used to advertise in ATL before he moved. I always liked that picture of him sitting in the chair. But he just looked like too much to even try to handle.
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Glad to hear the report. I was always interested in him but never crossed paths.
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I wish he lived in Atlanta! I'm glad he visits here, though.
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Finished up the meet-up. Classic Colt gets a glowing review from me. Handsome. Intuitive. Friendly. Knows how to use a tool. I'd meet up again.
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I'm meeting this guy in 90 minutes. Glad to see the positive encounters. I'll report back.
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