Decatur Guy

I'm a bottom who mostly follows tops in porn. Once in awhile, I'll take a liking to a bottom.

I know that PNP has always been a part of this scene. (Not a part I like, BTW). Is it just me, or has it become a bigger part in the past few years? I can't count the number of profiles I've clicked past on RM recently because not only is PNP listed, but because it's emphasized. I don't remember seeing it as much back when I first started hiring. Am I being more sensitive/aware, or have any of you noticed what seems to be more providers playing PNP up - not just clicking on it as an "Into" but actually taking the time to mention it again in their write-ups? In my case, it's costing them a potential client.

I did an archive search. This is what I wrote at the time: I hired Luke and what I assume what his boyfriend/traveling companion at the time. It was one of my first hires and definitely my first double-hire/threeway-for-pay. I had a great experience, including bending over for Mr. Marcum on a high-rise hotel balcony on a warm Atlanta night. The only reason I didn't write a good review of him was because I wasn't aware of this site yet.

I really like the picture you chose to lead with, and I think one way-back photo and one tongue picture are enough of that. You and another provider you were traveling with once pounded the hayll out of me on a high-rise hotel balcony one summer night in Atlanta more than a decade ago. I still remember it and would get with you again if you're ever in this city.

Can't say I like that mustache style either, but ain't gonna let that ruin what could otherwise be a good experience. I think I might reach out to him and at least find out his rates.

I'd give you a full 60 minutes of just being rimmed. Seriously.

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Anyone had an encounter with him since late 2023?

I'm nearing the end of my third visit with "Stranger in a Strange Land."

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I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate.

I met him a couple of weeks ago and enjoyed the encounter. He's a little on the quiet side but fun once you get going.

I've never had a session where WS was the main focus, but I've definitely had times where we discussed it as something to do at some point during the visit. I won't bring up WS unless it's listed in his profile already. I have a couple of regulars who really enjoy being WS givers, so it's now integrated into the planning. They hydrate ahead and I have plenty of water and/or beer on hand upon arrival. I can't do it unless the provider is well hydrated.

Yes, I like to chat afterward. If nothing else, I like to tell them what I liked about the encounter.

It's definitely not a selling point for me. If I like everything else about the profile and it's just in there one time, I usually let it slide. But if he's giving the finger in other pictures, too, and generally gives a sketchy vibe, I move on. I think some Tops do it because they think it makes them look tough. I think there are better poses to get that "service me vibe" across. For instance, of picture of him in a relaxed manspread while sitting in a chair with an erection and big grin on his face. Give me a couple of those and an easy-going Alpha vibe in the write-up, and I'm likely at least ask your rates.