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  1. Agree
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from MikeBiDude in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA   
    No surprise…his cute wit comes out
    @CuteBlondeBoy
    DirtyBlondeBoy
    LightBrownBoy 
    or
    CuteBlackBoy…I don’t care…
    my favorable comments stand 😉
  2. Applause
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from TJMS in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA   
    No surprise…his cute wit comes out
    @CuteBlondeBoy
    DirtyBlondeBoy
    LightBrownBoy 
    or
    CuteBlackBoy…I don’t care…
    my favorable comments stand 😉
  3. Love
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from MikeBiDude in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA   
    @CuteBlondeBoy and I are in St John for a week with a couple of other forum members and I just want to underscore - regardless of what you think his hair color is - that he’s adorable when he sleeps 🥱 😴 😉
    IMG_5903.mov
  4. Applause
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from TJMS in *Cuteblondeboy newbie in LA   
    @CuteBlondeBoy and I are in St John for a week with a couple of other forum members and I just want to underscore - regardless of what you think his hair color is - that he’s adorable when he sleeps 🥱 😴 😉
    IMG_5903.mov
  5. Like
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Drug-resistant shigella among queer men   
    On a serious note, I’ve never heard of shigella until this post (and last night’s foursome proceeded as planned)
    But, while I understand that symptoms can be severe for compromised people, how serious is this?   If an antibiotic resistant strain in contracted, my research indicates that it will still run its course in days.  While this doesn’t sound pleasant, isn’t it manageable?
  6. Sad
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from BoyOnABoat in How much personal real-life information do you share?   
    One twinkish guy in New Orleans had a breakdown at my house admitting to a gambling addiction then asked me for help.  Not a drama I sought participation in.  After I found him a GA meeting the next day, he started sharing his location with me asking for accountability…but when I confronted him as he’d be at casinos, he’d make up lie after lie.   So I asked him to stop sharing his location which he refused to do…even likely knowing it revealed much more about his other vices and addictions as well.  He’s subsequently fallen to newer lows and has continued to spiral.  But fortunately, we’ve gone a year without him bothering me. 
  7. Haha
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from marylander1940 in Drug-resistant shigella among queer men   
    Well so much for tonight’s foursome 😳
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    + PhileasFogg reacted to Luv2play in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    Reminds me of a story a month or so ago about a cruise ship that ended up in St. John, New Brunswick rather than Bermuda. Weather related but were the passengers pissed!
  9. Party
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from Luv2play in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    My present situation in St John with three of my favorites, one of whom (remaining nameless) joined us for dinner.  My legs are second from the left 

  10. Like
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from jackcali in What went wrong?   
    In this case, I’d suggest the application is that this client did not wake up that day thinking “who’s time can I waste today” but, whether through poor composition of the message, simplemindedness, angst, fear, uncertainty, inexperience, etc -that was the result.
    As @SecretProvider implies, I hear from other guys that in the first two texts, they can tell whether someone is serious or not.   I believe that to be completely true.  In this case, it did not develop into endless texts or requests for pics etc…but those are the ones easy to spot!
    The challenge is responding in a manner that meets them where they are - uninformed, scared, inexperienced, etc - and gets them talking…then they probably have a client for life IF the provider has the time/tolerance to develop the lead. 
  11. Agree
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Same guy. 3 profiles   
    As a user experience, we know RM is mediocre.  It underscores that it’s equally mediocre from a user security standpoint.
    I will say that, from a standpoint of responding to issues on specific profiles, they seem responsive at the webmaster level 
     
  12. Like
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from muscmtl in Same guy. 3 profiles   
    As a user experience, we know RM is mediocre.  It underscores that it’s equally mediocre from a user security standpoint.
    I will say that, from a standpoint of responding to issues on specific profiles, they seem responsive at the webmaster level 
     
  13. Like
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from Jacob_b in What went wrong?   
    In this case, I’d suggest the application is that this client did not wake up that day thinking “who’s time can I waste today” but, whether through poor composition of the message, simplemindedness, angst, fear, uncertainty, inexperience, etc -that was the result.
    As @SecretProvider implies, I hear from other guys that in the first two texts, they can tell whether someone is serious or not.   I believe that to be completely true.  In this case, it did not develop into endless texts or requests for pics etc…but those are the ones easy to spot!
    The challenge is responding in a manner that meets them where they are - uninformed, scared, inexperienced, etc - and gets them talking…then they probably have a client for life IF the provider has the time/tolerance to develop the lead. 
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    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from Jacob_b in What went wrong?   
    May I suggest you do a study of Hanlon’s Razor?  It’s eleven insightful words that I bet you could learn a lot from in your business especially bringing more new clients into the hobby   
    in counterpoint to your assertions above:
    - the client admits being new in the space, 
    - I don’t see any indication of discourse that would have provided ‘jollies’ to the client.
    Could the client learn more about writing with the reader in mind?   Sure, so could 80% of Americans… but the provider in this interaction could have done a few things better as well
  15. Applause
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from + Pensant in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    My present situation in St John with three of my favorites, one of whom (remaining nameless) joined us for dinner.  My legs are second from the left 

  16. Haha
    + PhileasFogg reacted to mike carey in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    That doesn't look like New Brunswick weather!
  17. Thanks
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from Aedo in What went wrong?   
    Nothing went wrong.  It wasn’t meant to be. 
  18. Agree
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    Oh, yes you do.   His glutes are awesome too!!
  19. Eye Roll
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from SecretProvider in What went wrong?   
    Nothing went wrong.  It wasn’t meant to be. 
  20. Thanks
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from marylander1940 in What went wrong?   
    Nothing went wrong.  It wasn’t meant to be. 
  21. Like
    + PhileasFogg reacted to marylander1940 in What went wrong?   
    No, it was a conversation of a friend who escorts and a potential client. 
  22. Applause
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    My present situation in St John with three of my favorites, one of whom (remaining nameless) joined us for dinner.  My legs are second from the left 

  23. Like
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from BigDMike in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    My present situation in St John with three of my favorites, one of whom (remaining nameless) joined us for dinner.  My legs are second from the left 

  24. Applause
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from BigDMike in Is the Secret to Men’s Longevity a Great Butt?   
    Then I shall win the race after decades of cycling 
  25. Applause
    + PhileasFogg got a reaction from TJMS in 411 - Sebastian_Leon in Fort Lauderdale, now New Orleans   
    The ones that would be directly referenced on RentMen.   Silky smooth dude…I’ll leave it at that 
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