PhileasFogg

ShenZhen

I search every number on MrNumber and the internet.  Rarely get a hit, but when I do, I know it’s likely real. 

John’s Boys Male Chorus is a perfect example of human chemistry creating tones that touch the soul 
Now, back to the litigious brand stealing name debate!

No, I thought back then it was called The Village Voice

What was Grindr like back then? I’m picturing a green on black monochrome monitor with lines of all-caps text.

Well ain’t that the Wild Wild West…

Well ain’t that the Wild Wild West…

welcome to the forum......this thread is about "cuteblondboy", not Magicwayne.......I know you're new here and all that, but please continue to use the existing thread on Wayne if you want to promote him so we can avoid confusion in this thread.....thanks.......
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/156482-411-iammagicwayne/
 

I will note that photos are deceiving.  Every one taken of me shows a guy who’s short, chubby and losing his hair!   What’s with that!   That’s not what I see😉

Blonde is a spectrum.  Dirty blonde, strawberry blonde, dark blond, platinum blond.  I’ve spent every moment with this young man for three days.  
 
To me he’s blond.   Like the age shaving debate - LET IT GO - if you like what you see, go for it.  If not, move on…but don’t pillory anyone for ticks on a spectrum. 
 
edited to add:   I’m looking down at the top of his head right now 😳🤭🫣. HE’s BLONDE

I wasn’t exploring men at the time.
But I had dinner with a friend who was with the LVPD at the time.   He said it’s a scam.  They would have spiked my drink with visine to trigger diarrhea and would have rolled me for all my cash and left me on the sidewalk with my pants around my ankles 

I should have said “Hey, that’s the VIP section and you’re not on the guest list”

If someone asked the direct question, I’d answer it honestly.   Otherwise, I don’t have to advertise any details I don’t want to.
I’d add, I probably wouldn’t write him off over his initial curiosity.   Some people are just curious and inquisitive 

Eat well, exercise, and spend time with young energetic men

Nice body but the tattoo ruins it for me.  What’s it say?

If someone asked the direct question, I’d answer it honestly.   Otherwise, I don’t have to advertise any details I don’t want to.
I’d add, I probably wouldn’t write him off over his initial curiosity.   Some people are just curious and inquisitive 

Nice body but the tattoo ruins it for me.  What’s it say?

Eat well, exercise, and spend time with young energetic men

If someone asked the direct question, I’d answer it honestly.   Otherwise, I don’t have to advertise any details I don’t want to.
I’d add, I probably wouldn’t write him off over his initial curiosity.   Some people are just curious and inquisitive 

The only people who know I hire are the guys I hire.

Nice body but the tattoo ruins it for me.  What’s it say?

After 12 hours of traveling, I'll offer a couple of thoughts:
1) Good discussion and glad to see various perspectives offered
2) I'm sorry to see that some of you have responded to what you think I said happened and not what I actually described.
3) I'm fine if someone wants to say "hey, I think I personally might have enjoyed it."   BUT, you are NOT entitled to say the same for me.   @topunderachiever, you don't know me.   Do not presume to have any basis to insult me with your prude/pearls comment....whether that was directed to me or @BSR, if you think it's right, then bless your sweet little heart.   You can just go ahead an block me right now.
4) As many have noted - times have changed.   As many of the older folks on this forum are critical of the younger ones for less safe sex practices "these days,"  many of the younger folks see consent and respect differently.   Views on public nudity and consent are much more refined these days.   And to the older folks, shame on you for teaching and/or modeling to the younger folks that this is OK.   I'm over 60 and have NEVER been in an environment where this type of behavior is acceptable.
5) Some of you seem to bristle when I quote the law in what some suggested was a narrow sense.   Actually, I simply quoted the law without personal bias.   It's you choosing to interpret it loosely (based on your wishes), but those wishes carry zero weight in court.    I will note that a number of public personalities have been "cancelled" and/or prosecuted both criminally and civilly over mere allegations of crossing these lines of propriety.
Here are facts:
I went to clothing optional resorts to get a tan not to get groped.   I did NOT participate in IH's hot tub, red room, or sauna scenes (notwithstanding the fact that what happened two nights ago was at a bar on Duval St and NOT at IH)   One guy, last night over drinks, even said that my (very fine looking) companion and I had intimidated them and were deemed unappoachable because we were clearly together - with each other - and not playing the field.   Said guy was telling us this while his husband was in their room with another guest - to which I say - live and let live even if it ain't for me.
I will note that earlier this year at Boy Beach in PTown, not a single person came up to grope either me or my very good looking travel companions. 
 
Each of you with differing views is entitled to your view, responsible for your actions, and man enough to own the repercussions of your actions.   My suggestion - not everyone shares your view and, if pressed, the law is not very accommodating to your actions.
Now, after 700 miles by plane and 400 miles by car, I'm going to bed.  Good night
 
 

Maybe that’s the problem…they weren’t cute 😂😂🤠.  But seriously, if it were a cute guy, I’m sure the signals would have been there 

As I said, I’m not trying to blow my personal experience out of proportion BUT, yes, lack of consent constitutes assault in most places according to my research.
Maybe it’s a surprise to some - but times have changed.   If you haven’t heard, “Baby It’s Cold Outside” was blacklisted by #MeToo for glamorizing date rape.
And I will say that the two advances I’ve described were completely unsolicited and unwelcomed and, given their degree of intimacy, would have met the standard to constitute a crime.
so, pray tell, how is anything I’ve described different from this:
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45958023.amp

Is that the evasive way of saying “facts don’t matter?”  If you think you have something to add, please pay attention 
Notwithstanding your weak deflection, do you have something to offer of substance other than your suggestion that assault is not assault if it’s gay on gay or in a gang hangout?
Back to my scenario, I’m guessing if I did what I described to a woman in a bar, you’d be one of the first people to call me a “pussy grabber”
So tell me again how am I overreacting?