PhileasFogg

Exacerbated by the fact that I have a concierge dr and I’m about to relocate to another state 😅

I just spent a couple hours with him in Boston. Sensitive, sensual, passionate, considerate, etc. A really good guy and I enjoyed my time with him. I get the sense that he’s transitioning to NYC soon

And you know what? I’m a capitalist….just be a professional and let me know. I can adjust.

Ha! I’m not sure what “play” even means…that tells you how new I am to this 😂

Funny thing happened with this guy tonight. I Confirmed Wednesday for two hours in Boston on Saturday. Texted tonight to confirm for tomorrow He says he’s in NYC. i say it would have been nice to have a bit of communication…but whatever he says “last minute, emergency, hope you understand” I check RM where’s he advertising himself in NYC - doesn’t sound like an emergency, eh? [As I’m typing this, his last log on for RM was 2 minutes ago ] my reply - “no, I don’t since you’re advertising yourself on RM in NYC.” Then he cops me attitude when I told him not to compound the situation with a lie. i was already apprehensive since he has a no outcall rule but was in a high crime area of Boston, but the combination of poor communication, deceit, and attitude when confronted with his lie make me think he should be avoided. I’m halfway tempted to post pictures of the text conversation before I blocked his number…but I’ll end this with a simple “beware. Something isn’t right here” I’ve had folks need to cancel before and they’ve always been forthright…but this is an - allegedly - 21 yr old with the maturity way below his age and a bit of narcissism that came out in his texts as well. Am I wrong to be thinking this?

Sorry @marylander1940. I now see that there is a place for user reports

Oh, did I misunderstand? When you said "post the number of this individual online to warn other escorts about him" - did you mean a forum like this?

Got it. So I downloaded it and I'm playing around with it. I don't see anything that shows a log of information on people. I just see the number and the name associated with it. In fact, one number I tested just said "Personal Line" for the name. is there more to it that I'm missing?

I looked up “Mr Number” and I’m trying to figure out how this works in this situation

Honestly, I don't think ACA would be repealed. It's become part of the DNA of too many voters. I think it's more likely that the law will be modified to properly define the mandate requirement so that it turns into an actual risk pool rather than a government subsidy.

I'm curious - given that you've already established that it's more about body type than age - why would you find it disturbing? In addition - are we not forgetting that often younger guys are attracted to older guys?? Why can that not be mutual? To me, age is a number - and rest assured, my energy levels, flexibility, fitness, and interests have nothing to do with the fact that I'm retired (early retirement)

I like young men not young boys. I think you are entirely wrong in your characterization.

Then I’ve been very lucky in the brief time I’ve been exploring my sexuality with men

He’s definitely not a clock watcher

Yes they do exist. I had one visit for the weekend a couple of weeks ago and I have another one coming next weekend. The first one was terrible at communicating and seemed to triage responses to when they were absolutely necessary (driving me crazy because I'm a proactive planner). The one that's coming next week has been awesome. I have two regulars in my home town that I get along marvelously well with. At the core, true twinks are young, so they are Gen Z and Gen Z is terrible at communication and accepting regimented routines, so it's kinda what you sign up for to get young men. BUT, Gen Z is hyper focused on perceptions of disrespect and rudeness (and their standard are different than my boomer standards) So, my advice would be to evaluate if there's a different way that you can reach out to them. I've always gotten a response in my first communication politely starting with name, where I am, what I'm looking for, when I'm looking for it, and inviting them to ask any questions of me that they may have. FWIW, I'm noting that American guys are much more frustrating, but - just like trade workers from south of the border seem to be hard working and honest - I'm sensing the same with young escorts from south of the border; especially countries that have good education systems.

I had it in the 80’s and it was lasered off. My ex-wife and I were together for years, but at least one of us brought it into the marriage.

I’m with @SD_Exec…you often get what you pay for. Quality is not a commodity. Edited to add: but before laying out cash at the high end of the range, I’d expect impeccable reciews In the female escort business, $1,000 is on the low end of quality.

I’m 61 and retired several months ago. Under my employment contract, my employer continues to provide coverage for 18 months. I have roughly 12 months left in that. After that, I will need to bridge myself to Medicare. In some casual conversations, I’ve been advised that private coverage will run me about $1,500/mo. That’s not a problem. But, I’m also very healthy, active, and in good shape. So, combine $18k/yr, plus I’m guessing a deduction of a few more thousand, I wonder if I should: 1) self insure with an extremely high deductible/low premium plan so I essentially just have “catastrophic” coverage, 2) continue a blue cross plan similar to what I have now with the $1,500 monthly premium, $6,000 deductible, and 20% copay (100% coverage of preventative care), or 3) explore options through ACA (which I’m totally unfamiliar with) I’m hoping some of you have direct experience with this situation that you’re willing to share to help me lay out options proactively.

It means very little. It means more for banks who tend to borrow short (deposits) and lend long (loans) and a flat or inverted yield curve makes that tough. if they lower too fast and make inflation sizzle again, it will really hurt mortgage rates since they tend to track with 10Yr UST and it’s the longer rates that tend to reflect inflation expectations.

They are not enhanced. Some of them are a bit dated. Edited to add: I believe he has relatively current porn out there and I think he does that under the same name. Unfortunately, I don’t follow porn and can’t offer more detail

He’s a good guy. He travels a lot. Very interested in pleasing and leaving a good impression. His pictures are a bit dated but still generally representative.

Out of curiosity, is he much younger than you?

I am very familiar with reloading debit cards as a method of paying employees. I am not familiar with situations where there would be any ongoing fees different from an ordinary debit card. In fact, I think it’s much cheaper than maintaining a low balance checking account and prevents accidental overdraft fees.

If you enjoy that, awesome. I set mine to a minimum threshold so it’s a backstop to my card being compromised (which has only happened once in 20 yrs).

I’ve not used cash for decades. In the pandemic, I stock piled about $4,000 cash in my safe and didn’t visit an ATM for nearly 4 years. there is one more recent evolution of cashless society I like. Now when I park my car at en event, they read my license plate and charge based on my exit time. No more cramming quarters and dollar bills in that little slot on the kiosk.