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I guess people have drastically different concepts of a bubble butt, because I don’t think this counts as one. Ive seen his face, and it’s definitely cute. He also has been good conversationally. I hope to meet him on my next trip.

Providers are not necessarily assuming you are a time waster- they may just have no signals about you at *all*, and choose to not interact due to the uncertainty. I am a client, and I have my own private gallery with pics of my bubble butt and big dick. I sometimes get escorts who want to see my client private album, and the options I can select on the request are always a plain "Yes or "No" button, and nothing else. I don't think someone pressing "No" is a sign of unfriendliness to individuals who want to see my private pictures without any prior substantive chat or inquiry. That's great that you had nice exchanges with providers whom you didn't ask to unlock their private gallery. I don't take the private gallery being opened as the only factor that determines whether a client-provider meeting will happen and whether it will be successful.

I took the quote below by Boink as implying that he starts a dialog only after the provider agrees to unlock the gallery. “When they DO unlock the gallery, I make it a point to thank them and THEN start a dialog and take it from there.”

I mean, I would assume providers who don’t have a private album STILL get contacted by time wasters and scammers looking to either jack off from sensitive pictures or, worse, use any received photos against the provider. For you, your general way of opening the conversation is by pushing the private pic button. I’m just noting that many escorts in the environment of exploitation, time wasting, and scamming, will not differentiate between you and bad actors. Indeed, for you and some others, it will end up being a Mexican standoff. However, those same providers will encounter clients they deem trustworthy for various reasons and successfully finalize a meeting with them. Providers on RM (like any other money generating gig I’m assuming) would not stay on RM if they didn’t turn a profit, and this means getting reached out to by clients who they find trustworthy, direct, and respectful from initial encounters.

I mean, your last sentence says you get tired of trying to prove your sincerity, but you didn’t message beforehand; you yourself made no communication before requesting. Requesting without messaging wouldn’t necessarily signal to the provider any conversation-worthiness at all, and in fact is probably what a lot of time-wasters do. The provider doesn’t know you, and is not able to differentiate between you and the sea of bad actors. What is a provider (who gets lots of time-wasters and scammers requesting) to assume about you, someone they do not know, and someone who hasn’t started a conversation with them?

I personally recently spent time with Luca. Despite an unsavory incident detailed in his original thread (which he later rectified)- I found his ad to be very nice and well put together. He is, of course, very attractive in a conventional way as well. I would indeed consider hiring Luca. Danbk is great if you want a very energetic bottom to fuck.

In markets where people probably charge ridiculously high prices with abandon (say, NYC), a bargain may help you stand out, if it’s not too low. $100 anywhere would strike me as too low, however. I’d be suspicious of what I would experience lol.

Chipotle is my favorite- though it has a lot of place-to-place variability in recipes and resulting taste.

Interesting wording there lol…… Also, 41 different clients texting in a span of 2 hours lol……. Saying “sorry I had to go out” is a much more irritating explanation than “I sincerely apologize- I forgot about our booking”.

Had a dramatic breakup with the illustrious Rhyheim. I hope Elijah is doing well.

Anyone top him? Luscious cakes he’s got.

Wow. What a find 🥵. That 🍑….. that face…..

I personally vote against having an official reviews section. Without some costly barrier (such as making reviews available only to donors), escorts themselves could come in here to falsely boost their own reputations, as some already seem to do in the informal 411s.

Beautiful penis, and he knows how to adorn his body with eye catching attire.

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Was this a joke? It’s hard to tell.

By slander in the post you quoted, I was not referring to you. I hoped it was clear that I was referring to the happenings on this site that make me speak up against individuals who lie/spew hatred against providers without a basis for it. I asked you a question in order to be able to evaluate your assertion about escorts. There is nothing normatively wrong in wanting to see a sliver of evidence for a claim you emphatically make. By questioning your argument, I hope you don’t believe I am “treating you like contemptible shit”. If so, I’m not sure my continuation of discussion with you will prove productive for either of us. Hope you have a good evening.

Is there something wrong or implicitly revealing about the idea that I don’t like to see unfair slander, unsubstantiated accusations, and baseless vitriol go spewed around? This website just happens to have a lot of that, and the bulk is directed at providers. When you conjecture here that I am some “defender”, what interesting implication are we to derive from that? Also, you said that my post towards you was meant to delegitimize your point. Isn’t that the point of discourse with someone who isn’t convinced by your assertion? You make a point, and others can question it, or ask you to bring forth evidence for it…..

This is a point we agree on.

If it’s something (as you alleged) so prevalent on this forum, I’m surprised that you aren’t able to even describe one such scenario/ some situational details about where a provider/escort had free reign to “say whatever they want with impunity” ….. Meanwhile, just last month, this abusive, vile, nasty thread against a provider was pooped onto this forum.

I’d say that fake written reviews are probably not always detectable. It’s no issue to detect a guy who has just made an account 7 minutes ago and their very first post is slobbering praise over a particular escort, with an invitation for folks to “dm” said “client” for more info lol. Id imagine there are other more sophisticated, patient actors, who may even enlist the help of actual clients to get favorable reviews on here. Making the website widely known to escorts will incentivize a considerable amount of them to illegitimately alter how they are perceived on here Don’t get me wrong though- I very much appreciate the presence of escort voices here.

The danger in making this site widely known lies in an inflow of escorts making fake accounts/ and writing fake positive reviews about themselves, or soliciting good reviews from longtime members in exchange for a sexual favor….diminishing the use of this website. I prefer the cabal-like quality of this site, though an escort voice here and there is very important.

Give an example of this lol?

It’s him. The photo with the tattoos was uploaded just this month, suggesting he recently got those tattoos. His account has been around since December 2023- he just might have not updated the tattoo section to “Yes” yet.

He’s a voracious top and bottom. Very kind, and polite. Saw him once on a trip to STL. Best fuzzy butt I’ve had the pleasure of enjoying.