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Post meeting #2: Juan is a spectacular top as well as being a great bottom. Gave me two anal orgasms. "Blew my back out" as the Gen-Zers like to say. Damn. I enjoyed his topping more than his bottoming actually.

It has been tough to get into contact with him. After seeing that he didn't volunteer to offer @Sneakerguy's deposit back, I'm definitely iffy on scheduling with him. Gorgeous guy with a nice dick though. Maybe I will schedule something same-day with him in the future and let you guys know how it goes.

I would actually think that the people on this site are somewhat *more* compliant, punctual, and financially well-to-do than the full pool of all clients on RM (which includes scammers, time wasters, and those looking for a free good time). So I agree- most clients will DEFINITELY say no to a deposit when it is asked of them. Indeed, if one asks a deposit of every single client they encounter, they may find that they don’t see a lot of people, leading to a general profit loss. I don’t think it is insanity or lunacy to institute a policy of having deposits in some situations. There are some very understandable situations involving distance, travel costs, prep time, bottoming/fisting prep which for some can mean diet changes, and etc……. in which it would be wise on the part of the provider to ask for a deposit. I guess this thread and others function as normative battlegrounds on whether deposits should be more of a norm than they currently are. I don’t see these conversations as useless at all. I’m also glad to see more provider voices on here. Increasing frequency of providers raising this seemingly perennial issue may be a positive thing. At the end of the day, the (local) market of the provider will speak for itself, and hopefully the provider reacts accordingly. Happy to hear you never ask for deposits during your travels.

Great response. Indeed, hopefully your reputation on your advertising site helps people trust you enough to pay a small deposit.

As I’ve mentioned many times, this website naturally privileges the perspectives (and the financial vulnerabilities) of the client. You will rarely get sympathy here. You will hear a client retort to you: “I can be scammed by a deposit! I will never do deposits!” And 10 people liking that post. With no one being aware of the constant bs-ing/timewasting/scamming you all as providers go through. Escorts tell me scam calls/texts, clients who just want to sex chat on the phone for free, and “shoppers” (people who contact multiple providers for a night just to meet one and cancel on the others) are something they constantly face. There really ought to be an escort-centered site in order to air these grievances on a platform less biased against yourself. I’m very sorry to hear what you’ve been experiencing. If I were you, I would indeed go ahead with the policy of slight deposits if a client wishes to booking ahead of time or if they are quite a distance from you.

I have a feeling he will be a great top too- I think he’s just sex passionate.

But anyway I’m seeing Juan again and he’s going to top me. Bare.

Indeed very off topic- but I’m thrown off by your perception of “the idiocy of U=U”….. Edit: after doing a search on your discussion of it in one thread, I believe that nothing in this post refutes the idea that an individual *actually having* an undetectable load renders them unable to transmit HIV by sex In Other words, nothing here refutes “U(if truly U)=U” (Now, I DO get iffy about bareback if the bottom in the situation is possibly “messy”. Prostate infections due to poop getting In the peehole can be very, very hard to resolve- I had a year long case and had to do bacteriophage therapy for it, so I am a fan of safe sex myself).

I had lots of fun with him. A great bottom boy. (I'm verse, and occasionally like to top). Loved rimming him. Took my dick very well. I didn't expect him to deepthroat but he was an "endurant" sucker. Really great experience. Would definitely see him again- he is going back to Barcelona by end of year.

Some skepticism is fair here.

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LOL 😂 . I feel this. In a choice-theory economics framework…. actually it’s not a terrible idea to systematically charge clients higher for service that is not just riskier to him, healthwise, but could put him out of work temporarily.

Well, for bareback it’s gonna be $400. I see now 😂

Very very reasonable rate actually! $350 an hour. For that body, dick, and face, that’s excellent. Will let you know how things go.

Damn. Gorgeous. Nice butt too. Third bullet seems a bit too sell-framed. Will reach out to him (Lolito here- I changed my name because of a magical encounter I had with a provider in Rome, Italy lol).

Low in energy? Or not able to rise to the occasion as he was the first time?

Has a very successful Onlyfans (as the associated Twitter account has nearly 700K followers). I suspect his meet up rate will be very high.

This scenario, where it is cumbersome to come up with very specific and atypical donation amounts, is exactly why I advise providers to stick to some round, even numbered rate (for many, it’s $300 an hour). A super-specific number like $440 is not just more money for the client to pay in a raw sense, but it may be a less convenient sum of money for them to immediately come up with on hand (they may only have hundred dollar bills). A client may be likelier to say yes to your rate of $400 instead of $440, not just because it is cheaper, but because they happen to only have hundred dollar bills on hand.

Down again lol,

It’s back- https://rentmen.eu seems to work

With all the glitches, and outside forces leading to Mastercard /crypto only payment, I imagine RM is suffering quite some losses in revenue lol.

I love the honesty here. As much as my conscious self would like to preach tolerance and non-prejudice due to one’s past circumstance….. My instinctive, primal, survival oriented, subconscious self would fixate on the idea of potential violence occurring against me. If the only information I was given was that he went to prison before, I would probably instinctively pass. However, I might meet up if I learned what he was accused of doing.

It is certainly the viewer’s prerogative in terms of believing the elements of an accusation, and I chose to not automatically assume Jay-Z’s guilt in this story, nor to automatically assume that he is innocent. I always say that sometimes, uncertainty/no judgement is better than a judgement based on little information…… I’m not believing he is innocent, but I’m not believing he is guilty either, and that’s ok with me. Last night, NBC revealed that the accuser had inconsistencies in her story. Her own father noted this. Also, according to NBC, images show that Jay Z was in a different location that night (though his whereabouts for the entire night aren’t certain). Jay-Z rape accuser comes forward to NBC News, acknowledges inconsistencies in her allegations WWW.NBCNEWS.COM The woman told NBC News she came forward because “you should always advocate for yourself.” When asked about... I would just caution against automatically assuming guilt in this case.

I won’t be approaching folks on OF for that purpose at all. Even mentioning a phone number or other medium of communication can trigger OF moderator inspection of the conversation. I guess we disagree on the safety of the physical escorting profession- I just meant that it is meaningfully less safe than OF

He doesn’t meet up at all lol. I was in San Francisco and offered an embarrassingly large amount to spend the night with him. He declined, and politely noted that talk of escorting in onlyfans messages could get him banned (it can apparently 😱). OF wants to monopolize all financial transactions between creators and consumers, to maximize the revenue in fees it receives (escorting is a transaction that would occur out of OF channels, therefore OF can’t extract a fee from it). His onlyfans makes him several hundred thousand a year (he’s in like top 50 male performers) so there is less reward for him to venture out into the more dangerous world of escorting. Amazing dick and ass though 🥵 .