Callas

His new pic is hot. Should I see him again?
any recent experience?
 

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pics are real
cute
nice
need to work on his skills, but … worth repeating 😊

One of the best experiences I have had! It felt so good, so fulfilled that I felt like I could live without s*x for a week. His moan when he cum inside me was masculine & f**king s*xy (only my crush’s moan could compare). 
 
Pros:
- masculine
- he looks much better than pics, great muscle, the body is beautiful as a whole
- clean shaven 
- kissing was so good
- smooth skin
- very nice 🍑
- polite, nice, sweet

Cons:
- there are a few hairs on his chest, would be perfect if those are gone
- 🍆 is a bit small, but its size & length are perfect for my tiny 🍑 — it fits mine so well 🔐

Verdict: Worth repeating. My TOP 3 favorites. TOP 2 tops. I will be his best client from now on. 

Just met again this month. Amazing as always. Same as last time I reviewed.

Imma see it tomorrow. So excited!!!! 

Some fans are just a little too much:

P.S. If the man holding the pillows happens to be a member here at CoM then I apologize to you sir.

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

All the time. lol!
Seriously I’ve come to love (platonically) a number of the providers I’ve met. Many of whom have become genuine friends. We talk regularly and we even hang out off the clock. Some of them I still hire… some have retired but we remain in contact and travel together. One guy I met a few years ago calls me family, I still hire him on occasion. I just visited with him for about a week purely to hang out with no funds exchanged and no bedroom activities.
There is a provider who I have known for about 15 years, I have a deep affection for. I’ve talked about the situation in the past on the previous iteration of the forum. Although we’re not quite a couple, it’s probably the closest thing to one. He rarely charges me for encounters. We communicate a lot off the clock. However, I will give him some funds to cover gas and tolls when he travels to see me. I’ve told him how I felt about him and he has reciprocated the same sentiments. I’m happy to remain extremely close friends but if it goes beyond that point… I’d be happy to.
Talking with a number of providers over the years, I know they do sometimes get into serious relationships with clients. I don’t know how common it is. I wouldn’t even suggest seeking out or trying to force something that isn’t there, but it does happen.
We are all human… mostly lol! Some are better at guarding and controlling their emotions in this hobby. Others just let their emotions carry them wherever. I lie somewhere in the middle, I think. I don’t go into these encounters seeking friends or anything beyond the transactional portion of it. It’s just that of all the guys I’ve seen since starting this hobby… a relatively small number of them and I just bonded.

"Zilch" may not be the response you wish for, but truthfully, it's the best gift you can possibly receive.  It affirms the fact that the relationship was purely transactional; it expedites your waking up to reality.  If he were to lead you on by giving you some ambiguous signals, the final outcome would've been more painful.  Ripping the bandaid off is the most ideal course of action here.

You did something I couldn't do. I fell in love with a provider and told him how I felt. Instead of cutting me off, we continued  to hook up for over six years! There's A LOT more to this story believe me! Lol. I am glad you cut it off before it got messy.

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

You are a true romantic @Callas . Don't lose that.

Some people are more likely to catch feelings than others, but we all do it eventually. I've had crushes on masseurs, dated masseurs, and had purely physical experiences with masseurs. It's all part of the messy joy of human connection. 
Be nice to yourself and accept that feelings are an important part of what gives you pleasure. Your emotions will pass so be patient. 

At best not capable of enjoying arts, at worst not capable of feeling love.
Doesn’t mean it’s real, but sad fact that you haven’t seen or heard something doesn’t mean such something doesn’t exist.

I think I’m about to fall for another provider. I meet him weekly trying to forget the previous crush. It’s been ~15 months. 
i didn’t miss him. It was just physical. But recently I started to miss him if I don’t see within 5 days between meetings.
why does my heart have to be so weak? I’m so disappointed in me. How to stop falling in love and just enjoy the physical pleasure?
He is the only one I see once weekly. I used to solely see my crush ~2–3x / week, but now I spend the other 1–2x on multiple others. 
 
I probably cannot stop seeing him until he breaks my heart just like my crush, or worse. I’m so helpless 😭

I think I’m about to fall for another provider. I meet him weekly trying to forget the previous crush. It’s been ~15 months. 
i didn’t miss him. It was just physical. But recently I started to miss him if I don’t see within 5 days between meetings.
why does my heart have to be so weak? I’m so disappointed in me. How to stop falling in love and just enjoy the physical pleasure?
He is the only one I see once weekly. I used to solely see my crush ~2–3x / week, but now I spend the other 1–2x on multiple others. 
 
I probably cannot stop seeing him until he breaks my heart just like my crush, or worse. I’m so helpless 😭

Bump

https://rentmasseur.com/musclehandsnyc
 
 
very new to RM as of Feb 2026
it’s rare to see an Asian hunk in NYC. Should I take the first try?
or someone already met him?

I must be blind since I don’t see anyone with his look-alike / bad boy vibe in NYC. Please share some if you can 😥

https://rentmasseur.com/musclehandsnyc
 
 
very new to RM as of Feb 2026
it’s rare to see an Asian hunk in NYC. Should I take the first try?
or someone already met him?

He's beautiful. And since Asians tend to have small weiners (don't know if it's the bok choy or all of the MSG in their diet), an "average size endowment" is pretty impressive!
BTC
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His private pics are two of his back side, and one full frontal. Nice average size endowment, looks uncut. Great glutes.

yes! Last year, May, in Brooklyn great experience, very hot nice guy!

Lukas is the epitome of sweet. He’s a strong top, knows how to pound and when to slow it down. Yes, he can kiss well too. 

"Near" Perfect? Bozo doesn't see any imperfections. He's even circumcised 😍! That's a pleasant surprise. Very unusual for a Latino.
Bozo can't help but wonder if he is real. And if yes, is he as sexy from the neck up as he is from the neck down? If he is, Bozo will be on the next Porter flight into Billy Bishop ✈️.
Hopefully, one of our Toronto members will be able to connect with him successfully and report back.
BTC
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I’m out, but I would love a secrect, cannot—tell—anyone relationship with a closeted guy. I think it would be so fun and hot 🥵🫣😈